The professionals responsible for diagnosis should be referring out to programs that provide all views of all options, rather than those which only promote their own philosophy. I posted portions of a research report a short while ago in sign language and oralism, I believe, that looked at parental beliefs regarding the information they received. The conclusion was, doctors, audis, and the professionals who have first contact with the deaf child and the parents are not providing information, nor providing resources to the parents that inlcude all options available. Most often, the information neglected is inforamtion regarding the use of sign. Even though these parents had children that were implanted, their oral language was not developing as expected or with the ease they were led to believe it would, and the parents felt that the lack of information regarding the use of sign had not only deprived their children of the opportunity to acquire langugage in a normal and timely fashion, but that they had also been deprived of several years of communication with their children.
Doctors and audis should be responsible for the initial referrals, deaf educators, early intervention specialists, members of the deaf community, and other parents of deaf children should all be involved in the education of hearing parents of deaf children.