Shel, of course i would never imply that ur mom was more supportive with u but not ur brother. (i hope u didn't take offense to my statement, that was never my intention
I just brought that up as a POSSIBLE factor? in ur case, it wasn't one. but maybe in some others it is? I don't know.
It could actually be a case of improper HAs for some ppl. For me, i need pretty strong amplification. Maybe in some cases the kid's hearing aids were actually just satisfactory rather than fantastic? And the audiologist wasnt very experienced? I have seen quite a few who were horrendous and shouldnt be working as one! lol.[/QUOTE)
No, u didnt say that..I was applying your logic because if I was going to use it, then that was what it would have meant.
My brother and I were both born with the same bilateral dB loss...he was fitted with HAs at a much younger age than I was.
We both went to the same oral preschool program. Had the same teachers..same approaches used on us.
We had the same audi but she wasnt responsible for our language development process...just making sure we were fitted with the right HAs.
Despite being in a comprehensive and intensive oral-only program, my brother couldnt develop any oral skills at all but the specialists told my mom to wait and see (the wait and see approach) and he was enrolled at the same public school I was fully oral. Fortunately for my brother, someone at my school saw his struggles and spoke up..called an IEP meeting and suggested to my mom that he should go to the deaf school. My mom was apprehensive cuz of the stigma attached to ASL and Deaf schools but she went for it. Within a few years, my brother blossomed but was late in learning how to read and write since he needed the time for his language foundation to be established first since it wasnt during his first 5 years of his life.