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How about a bad boy who is a good man??
Cheri said:Mr. Right isn't necessarily a nice guy and either a bad guy. I don't like to put my life on hold and search for a good guy. That is why I dated so many bad guys in the past I rather to loved than not being loved. But it takes a long time to find a good guy to match what you dream of having. Dating bad guys, it is like taking a test to see if he is the right one for you, but turn out he isn't then you'll know what you really looking for, It's like a risk taking / adventure seeking. If you get my drift?
Meg said:Does he have a single brother for me ?
VamPyroX said:I think this is a very sad issue that many guys have to suffer with. They try hard to be the nicest guys out there. Yet, women make them feel good by talking about what they like... and then make them feel degraded or left out when they go after the assholes.
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VamPyroX said:I think this is a very sad issue that many guys have to suffer with. They try hard to be the nicest guys out there. Yet, women make them feel good by talking about what they like... and then make them feel degraded or left out when they go after the assholes.
I had a few friends who did the same thing. They talked about men that they preferred. Yet, they went after men who were known as assholes and players. They ended up getting pregnant and now have kids.
What's even sadder is that some of these women talked about the other women like them. They get the same problem as well. For instance, one gal talks about guys she likes and dates an asshole instead. She gets pregnant. Other women make fun of her for being stupid for going after that asshole and getting herself knocked up like that. Later, those women do the same thing and get pregnant as well. The cycle repeats over and over... for years. Sad, huh?
Indeed! I hate that game. Few women did that to me in the past and I don't like it... That's one of reasons why I rather to not make any move on them unless they make a move on me first which I am fortunately enough that Nas did made a move on me. I really, really hate this 'head' game.SimpleMan said:All too true! Only for me, being nice comes natural... I've worked at being an asshole when I was younger, and sure did get more women, but playing that game got to be a pain in the ass, so I revert to my natural nice guy self..... and suffer
*sigh* I guess I'm a "victim" of that game also...I thought my ex has really loved me and always would, but then in the end, she just went up to me and said she doesnt love me anymore and is already over me and stuff and now I've seen her hitting on afew guys, who are actually players and some who are on drugs and stuff, etc...so I guess she perfer to go after guys who are players and take drugs and stuff, etc...I've seen her doing afew drugs myself and there is nothing I can do to stop her or help her or anything so I guess it's high time that I left her for good. it's not worth it when she only sees me as a friend and I still see her as my girlfriend, so...I don't want her anymore even though if she will never change.Magatsu said:Indeed! I hate that game. Few women did that to me in the past and I don't like it... That's one of reasons why I rather to not make any move on them unless they make a move on me first which I am fortunately enough that Nas did made a move on me. I really, really hate this 'head' game.
Like SimpleMan, I am thinking of experiment on women whenever I become single (I hope not, I love Nas so much) by being an asshole and see what happen.
Seem that being nice or genteman does pay the price... Honestly, I don't think there is any valid reason for that at all (speaking of 'price'). Ah well, live and learn, I suppose.
Steel said:Aw well, so I'm gonna try to do my moves first so that way if a girl made her first move, I could proably feel that she has something under her seelves...perhas something other than that she was hitting on me just because she likes me... you know? so I dunno it's a fucked up world we live in.
Yeah thats what I was thinking...I dont like chicks trying to look like they are hitting on me, but actually playing mind games with me instead. I definetly hate that.I will be SMAHT said:having something up in our sleeves.. hmm probably in sexually ways, sure.. but nothing than playing games.. we have been through alot so its fair for both of us even through bad boys does played with girl's heart, too but we are never alone in this world.. even that goes for outcast people that thought they are always alone but we are not alone. :|