I have a rather different perspective than yall.. I'm not planning to 'do it' until I get married, because to me sex is something serious- hell, thats how babies are made. I just feel that if God (or whoever is up there) made sex so serious, God is telling us it's something to cherish and not abuse; thus I plan to wait until marriage.
I just hate seeing kids at school prancing around having sex with a different partner every week- :thumbd: and sex on a first date is obviously a no-no for me. I just wish people would take it a bit more seriously. I mean, one fuck-up and your life is shafted,
you have a baby which is a huge burden if you weren't planning to have one.
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I have witnessed many confused and questions after sex was performed on their first night of date. People described the date in wrong perspective....date isnt about bonking or whatever! Date is purpose to get know each other and take a step at one a time. There is no place for bonking in first night of date period. Leading to long or short term of good condition of building relationship will result in good dating.
hmm i know i have noticed that the celebrities get married as they didnt care? just eloped after meeting a month later or even few days later? what the world is coming to? what happened to courting? in old days u have to court one to get to know her before he can ask the father for the hand ? jeez. today sucks. im such a romantic hopeless and sometimes i think i was born in wrong time? I should have been a southern belle of 1800's LOL heh....