Oh okay. I got it.Liebling:-))) said:No, it's not you, I'm direct to. The people who made illogical imagery posts here.
Oh okay. I got it.Liebling:-))) said:No, it's not you, I'm direct to. The people who made illogical imagery posts here.
^Angel^ said:Just because I don't have a daugther that means I don't know what it like to be a parents, is that what you're saying?
Liebling:-))) said:Perhaps they don't care about their son but their daughter.
I treat my different sex children (son & daughter) equal, no matter what.
^Angel^ said:That what it looks like to me too! ^ 5 Liebling
Audiofuzzy said:To answer your QQQ Liebling I had my first serious BF when I was 16 and looking back I see how incredibly silly and immature I was.. no sex though until much much MUCH later.
Fuzzy
Audiofuzzy said:I think what Angel means is that maybe Mooki thinks since Angel has only boys she does not understand what it is like to have a daughter.
Mookie says it's different with daughters than sons.
Also, Mother-Daughter and Father-Son, that special too - because of gender (but that is mine not Mookie opinion).
personally I can't say much 'cos I only have daughter but my GF has boy and girl and she too says with girls is different.
Fuzzy
I have many friends who have different sex children. Their children treat equal, no matter what
It doesn't mean you are silly and immature because you has a boyfriend age 16 with no sex relationship
Audiofuzzy said:This is not about treating them different.
My GF is treating them the same but it is about different set of problems with girls, and different set of problems with boys.
You teach girls to watch out for bad boys who might abuse them and get them pregnant and then leave them for other girl.
You teach boys to be good to girls and respects them and be good fathers and husband.
But it make no difference.
It look like that Mookie don't care either his teenage son make other girl pregnant isn't he?
To me NO! I make sure my teenage sons should not make other teenage girls pregnant.
I teach different sex children about sex safety, abuse, respect, etc equal.
Don't you know that some girl use boy for sperm to get her pregnant because she want a baby with no man?
Don't you know that some girl abuse boy?
I teach different sex children to be good partner, wife and husband.
See what Mookie's post:
Mookie's post
Come on, Angel. You already have your boys, and you do not have to worry about them in future. If you have a daughter, that would entirely different stories.
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Audiofuzzy said:ummm. I am not sure but I think Mookie reply was influenced totally by that story you started - about a mother who wanted or who got RO against her daughter's 18y. old BF.
In this aspect yes there is a lot of more worry about girls than boys. And if you have only boys, then it is not as "close to home" as if you have a girl.
While it does can happen to a boy- being raped, abused, beaten etc,
it is not even as often as it happens to women, the numbers are not even nowhere close.
I am not sure if Mookie said anything about her boy..
Fuzzy
Audiofuzzy said:When Mookie asked WHAT IF, it means WHAT IF
stop making excuses oh Tracy's mother dead, oh Tracy's was legal age, Tracy this Tracy's that because that is NOT the POINT!
the question is for your IMAGINATION!
Whe Mookie asks WHAT IF TRACY'S MOTHER GOT RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST Tracy's then boyfriend, BEFORE he became her husband, what would HAVE happen?
And YOU are supposed to GUESS what would happen.
So, come on, what do you think would happen?
Mookie´s post
So that means 16 years old daughter is gonna to be preg. Then she lost her bright future for higher education and career. Guess what? 18 years old mtker is gonna to escape and move out of state or country....
First of all what kind of man is encouraging 16 year old unexperienced girl that should STAY IN SCHOOL, respect her parents, be taken care of by HER PARENTs etc to leave her family and go the hell knows where with him? how is he gonna support her and what kind of future is he providing for her??
Moreover, considering that he is still 18 himself what about HIS education, HIS prospects for future??,
what is he gonna do, work odd jobs supporting both of them, drink beer on weekends from his measly wages and after a time go look for another woman?
where the 16 y old will be then?
No matter how open the sexual talk from the parents, it MAY NOT prevent a 16 year old girl from getting pregnant with an 18 years old man.
And in that aspect Mookie is very toughtful! she is predicting possible future.
The parents might be at fault too but no man should remove 16 years old girl form her parents.
Fuzzy
In this aspect yes there is a lot of more worry about girls than boys. And if you have only boys, then it is not as "close to home" as if you have a girl.
While it does can happen to a boy- being raped, abused, beaten etc,
it is not even as often as it happens to women, the numbers are not even nowhere close.
Liebling:-))) said:Yes, sex issues are mainly important role.
Mookie said:Perfect! I found the article for you, Liebling. If you are mother of 16 years old daughter, would you report to police department?
mother's post
I am not really replying to a message, but I could not see how to post. My question is legal age of sexual - dating consent. My daughter is 16 she has been dating a boy for 4 months who was 18 or so my husband and I thought. I found his social security # with his real name, did not match what we were told. I had someone do a background check on him with this information. It turns out he turned 22 last Nov. 04 He has an FBI file with numbers on it and alias names. I was told by one of my older daughters friends who know this guy there are warrents out for his arrest. My 16 yr old will not tell me where he is. I confronted my 16 yr old daughter on his age and she knew all along. They have been sexually intimate. She has now also contracted genital herpes. This was her first sexual experiance with a MAN. My problem is I cannot keep her away from him. She claims it is legal by her being 16. She also has health problems Cystic Fibrosis. She is too busy sneaking out with this 22 yr old and not taking care of herself, meds,treatments, and lung clearance. Her health is failing. We live in Connecticut. Does anyone know if this is legal? We are trying not to get on her too much as we don't want to lose her completley. Any ideas anyone? Help! Thank you