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I don't know.. who ARE they attempting to serve? Does it matter? If a neighbor shows up at your house..and offers you some cheese that he bought as a gift for you while he was in France.. But he did not realize you were lactose intolarent.. would you refuse the gift and tell him that he hurt your feelings..and did not consult with you first about your gift?.. And then call him arrogant because he assumed that you liked cheese in the first place.. Of course not! If you were a decent human being you would accept the gift.. say thank you.. and either throw it away.. or better yet.. re-gift it!!
Now.. i realize this situation is a bit silly.. but.. do you see my point? If someone wants to make a contribution to the community.. I say go for it.. at least they are wanting to become an active part of that community..
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Again with the blanket statements.. Your saying that hearing mentors and teachers have no other care in their hearts other then to try to get their deaf students to become more like hearing students.. You do realize that the parents of these deaf children are the ones who make these choices.. There are MANY options you can do to raise a deaf child. You have pointed most of them out.. but the fact is.. most deaf children are born to hearing parents.. They want their child to hear, and be able to function in the hearing world
I have a hearing friend who's son was born deaf.. he received a CI when he was around three years old.. He is now 10 and being mainstreamed through the Florida school system with fairly good success. He goes to a speech therapist twice a week to improve his oral communication skills, which his father has told me is going to be reduced because he is doing very well. His grades are excellent for any student.. but no.. he does not know much ASL as he has forgotten most of what his father and myself taught him.. or anything about Deaf culture.. But I do not think that is either a bad thing.. or an issue.. I am just proud of him for making good grades in school and being a good kid.. I do not think a parent could hope for anything more.
We have switched from making blanket statements of saying that the inventors SEE, PSE, and CS.. as well as mainstreaming are all arrogant.. to education.. while I can see the topics are linked due to the intricate nature of education and communication.. I think you are just wanting to use your original statment as a springboard to bash these types of educational styles..
Jillio, I know you have an issue with deaf education that does not include ASL.. I have seen it in your previous posts.. Thats fine.. but calling these inventors of different types of communication arrogant because YOU think they had no input from deaf individuals when they formed these methods of communication is ridiculous.
What do u say that some of these approaches deprive children of full access to languages and they fall so far behind. When it was apparent that these approaches, especially the oral-only one, wasnt working, they get introduced to ASL which is a visual language and those children just thrive under it but so far behind with reading and writing? That's what I see constantly and I wish the oral-only approach was eliminated for good and use oral language along with a visual language.