deafdyke said:
Huh? Where did I say that?!?!?
loml, I came to these conclusions MYSELF. They were not born of agenda-setting pressure. I grew up in the oral world. I KNOW all too well the downsides of oralism. You just do NOT get that not ALL Deaf folks are antihearing ASL onliers......and you know, not all of those are lifelong ASL seperatists....some of them are former oralists who Some of them ARE rather libral....some are moderate in their views. There are ALL sorts of theories and views on Deafness. There's no ONE RIGHT VIEW on Deafness.....would you assume that all feminists are bra burning manhating "hetrosexual sex is rape" very stereotypcial manhater types? You'd be wrong......Being a feminist simply means you're against idoitic gender roles that create a patriarchy.
Yes, there are extremists who are very anti-hearing......but being culturally Deaf does not mean that you are anti-hearing. Do you actually even KNOW any real live Deaf people, or are you just looking from an interested observer's POV?
While the basis of universal love and unity in the deaf worlds depends on the options of a 'full box' and free access to it, there does seem an inbuilt reluctance to really accept it, from both sides of the issue. This is where we are, and what we are discussing. To grasp the nettle this means the respective oral and signing sectors have to drop the angst, and see, that mostly, they agree on fundamental issues,especially of access.
If this was a husband wife squabble, then a mediator would be brought in to try and settle it. Who can 'mediate' here ?
The modes used seem to be the contentious areas, which means basically neither sectors are yet accepting of each other's,which flies in the face of the basic tenet 'we should all accept each other', it doesn't say "We should all accept each other so long as they conform to what each use....", it means give and take, compromise. Lip-service seems to be the real description of much of the rights and access debates. We've two very diverse sectors of loss, that have a lot more in common with each other than they think, or want to believe.
Many oral users sign, and many deaf are able to oralise, so what REALLY is the barrier ?
It is the social aspect. This means the access/rights campaigns are being directed at the wrong people ? The oral deaf have an strong leaning to the hearing commmunity, the deaf signers have trouble accessing that hearing community, why else run access campaigns ? Now, who is best placed to bridge that gap ? The oral deaf user does seem ideally placed to do that, with a foot in both camps, if only cultural deaf can see beyond the 'oral' thing and NOT relate it to fellow
deaf people, it could really advance the equality of us all.
We are so busy justifying sign or orals to each other, the access campaigns are grinding to a halt, and it really does seem at times, some don't want full access anyway if it means using that 'full box'. I'm appreciative of deafdyke for this debate.