deafdyke said:
Sigh.....Loml.......how do you know that they are not signing in grammarticularly correct ASL? My state actually has a program (EI and educational) where hearing kids with other disabilites, learn ASL as a first language. It's also seen in some other states too. I agree that a nonverbal person using a handful of Signs to communicate, isn't ASL, but do you have any stats on kids with other disabilites who use ASL? Didn't think so!
loml, you're missing something. I am NOT bashing those with oral skills. I'm pretty oral myself. I'm simply bashing those who flaunt their oral skills, and then bitch and moan b/c they don't fit in anywhere. Trust me.....audist oralists can be incredibly snobby. Deaf folks welcome those who can speak, who are open to learning Sign.....I'm still not quite fluent in Sign, although can have conversations in Sign......I've never been treated shabbily.....but that's b/c I'm openminded, and want to learn!
We are all products of our own experiences deafdyke, it takes a special person to be able to stand back and examine it with some impartiality. To examine sign-language (or oralism), and assess the merits or disadvantages of both, is hard if you feel one mode or another disadvantaged or spoilt your life. Bashing oralists is a fruitless pastime, I suggest the basis of the 'bashing' is more, to cement the links with the signing community, who appear to demand which side of the fence you are sitting on as some 'entrance qualification'.
While you would welcome deaf oralists to the 'community' (so long as they sign, or are willing to), would you attempt the reverse ? to recognize the means they use ? All you are really saying, is that so long as others fall into the cultural signing line all is fine, can you not see this appears a bit one-way too ? Most oralists (what IS an oralist ?), I meet who can speak and are deaf use some sign too, but obviously it is NOT The be-all, and end-all to their communications, they ARE using a fuller 'box' than the singular sign user surely ? They get frustrated too ! and it's true,even oralising is no open door to hearing things, they float between hearing-deaf things, it's not an ideal situation, but there's no real alternative is there ?
Try to see BOTH sides, not ALL oralists throw skills in signers faces, it may just be there is some envy about the oralist communicates easier than the signer does, BUT, the end result is not all that different from the signers, who perhaps feel they KNOW what they are and where they are, we should perhaps cease demonising oralists and see them as just as disadvantaged as another deaf sector, each has it's own strengths and weakness,if they only stopped sniping at each other long enough to see this, they could really enhance things for all.
It's sadly true neither side really respects the other at present, c'mon, isn't there really a method in the signing madness to attack oralism ? it enhances sign doesn't it and unites ? stand back, they are people too.
I should I suppose break into the coca-cola song with "I'd like to teach the world to sing....", but it isn't yet at that stage is it ?