Polygamy

Berry said:
Perhaps that is true with you.

But my experience has been that jealousy manifests itself early. Often before the first date. I have, all my life, had women friends I greet with a hug and a kiss. I've received jealousy reactions from women whose names I did not yet know, who were thinking of dating me in the future -- Get angry because I kissed another woman.

Some women, (Yes, I'm certain men are this way also) feel that the very discussion of a future date gives them ownership rights.

As for the bolded part. I remember a couple who selected her lovers together because he liked to watch them. You might say their relationship was incredible -- Both to them and to everyone else.
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Well, I am referring to something a little more serious than a first date type of thing. I am talking about what something that most parties would consider deeper than that. Something where there is some type of exclusivity. Granted some people get a bit jealous early, but that's just a bit crazy to me, imo.

Yes, I do know that there are more people free spirited, different partners, loving all of it, but it's still not a majority. If you were to poll the two sexes and ask what they want out of a partner most women would want a stable, partner of their own I don't think they'd want to share. With men they wouldn't want to share either but the percentages would be less if given the option to have multiple wives with no repercussions.

It is what it is men and women are different, keeping sperm and anything else out of it. It should be about coming to a happy middle.

For myself, wanting one partner is not something I would consider to be a fairytale. Having a successful relationship is something that is deep.

I have my own theory on men and wanting more women, but I know that would require more back and forth commenting, so I will pass.

Going back on topic I'm not for polygamy but if were to be legal here I think both parties should be eighteen and older.

It is what it is, there are varying opinions about the lifestyle and that's great. Whatever works for that person go ahead.
 
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smithtr said:
you complaint always! stop it please grow up because respect


verbal swearing not toleration behavior your seems immature!

you should be respect to fair to member

I am seriou s

I warned you foul language

you seems aggreesive and emotional
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Nah, she really means that she just don't believe katz4life with less serious insult by using her expression. It is really not about the accusation. For example, I have the feeling that you will eat your favorite cookie before we go to bed - Like I got you eating the cookies in the kitchen at 12 in the morning.
 
Reba said:
Designed by whom?

Just because a man has sperm doesn't mean each one has to be used for impregnation.
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Obviously, designed by nature, but to you that would be God.
Then what is the purpose of maintaining vital sperm and reproductive abilities throughout the lifespan? That has nothing to do with each sperm being used for impregnation. If you are talking each and every sperm throughout the lifespan, you are talking numbers into the billions. Now you are just being silly.
 
Reba said:
And they suffered the consequences for it.
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Any sexual act can have consequences. If you have unprotected sex, there's a chance you'll have a baby. If you have protected sex, it's till possible to have a baby if the bc fails.

Then there's the matter of diseases. If you have plenty of sexual parteners, the odds of you getting disease is much higher but it can still happen to a wife or hubby who was faithful but his or her spouse slept around.

I could go on and on.. .
 
Reba said:
Not very specific but I know that's as good as I'll get, so that's OK.
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Actually, that is very specific. Four very specific disciplines.:dunno2: Were you expecting something along the lines of a personal introduction to an expert in one of the disciplines?
 
webexplorer said:
Nah, she really means that she just don't believe katz4life with less serious insult by using her expression. It is really not about the accusation. For example, I have the feeling that you will eat your favorite cookie before we go to bed - Like I got you eating the cookies in the kitchen at 12 in the morning.
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You don't come out of nowhere to say something like that to someone. It's that simple. Travis is right.
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
Or maybe it's against the religion to masturbate? I dunno.
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Hey now.. whats this talk about no self pleasurement?! I hate people who tell me they don't do it or think its unholy. God invented dexterity for such things.

frankiesmom said:
one man is annoying enough..i cant imagine 5-6 guys putting me off when i ask them to fix stuff.
:shock:
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Really, I would think I would reward who ever works hardest. No sex or love or companionship for those who are lazy would be my motto....
 
deafskeptic said:
Any sexual act can have consequences. If you have unprotected sex, there's a chance you'll have a baby. If you have protected sex, it's till possible to have a baby if the bc fails.
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or accidental snoring episodes, or mind drift.

"shuts up with the lame jokes"
:hmm:
 
radioman said:
Hey now.. whats this talk about no self pleasurement?! I hate people who tell me they don't do it or think its unholy. God invented dexterity for such things.
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Nah, I'm all for masturbation. I was just wondering if it was against Reba's religion to masturbate. It probably most likely is, but I can't make that assumption.
 
Buffalo said:
Do you accept polyandry?

I won't be surprised if most men want only polygyny. I have said in my older post that it would have to be both polygyny AND polyandry, not one or the other. What is good for goose is good for gander. I just knew that men in USA won't accept polyandry so I reject polygamy.

Women need rights. This might work if men and women are considered equal in all. I really mean equal not just in name only. I have heard of women have equal rights in muslim countries but it looks to be just in name only as the women inherit smaller amount than their brothers and two female witnesses equals one male witness, etc.
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If you have ever been dating then you have been in polyandrous relationships -- Unless you believe you were the only one of their dates they sexed up to.

Equality is not something every one in every relationship desires -- Whether you desire it for them or not.

Each person in each relationship should be able to work out their own position in that relationship.
 
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