I think to go into detail, the following is probably an ideal representation of how to judge one..
A) Age: For HOH @ public schools, age tends to play a very large factor, It is hard to fit in. As you get older and are in college, or further progressing at a post-balaccurate, seems like it gets accepted a bit more.
B) Ethincity & Culture: A person's nationality teaches them how to respect (or disrespect) others. This is passed down by the family
C) Psychological Self-mentality: How the non-deaf people perceive their personality to be. This is how they define their personality as they grow up. Are they punishers, bullies, or are they silent gawking gossipy behind-your-back people, or are they people who have other things to worry about, or are they real laid back persons?
I think these are three major conditions that I can think of that defines how we then evaluate other citizens.
I've seen plenty people who were good at two of these traits, but short in another. We all know we are annoyed by those that fail in all three conditions.