People that think it's OK to Yell or bang on your door

Jiro said:
I thought you were just knocking a door with your head

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:lol:
 
NitroHonda said:
???

Way to respond. There are a lot of posts of yours that have no meat to them. Especially when one takes the time to rebutt yours. Why is that? Do you think your feeble attempts at sarcasm is effective? Funny? Condescending? What is it? I only ask because it will help me better respond to you in the future.

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You wrote that what I said was BS. My entire point was that deaf people have a hard time reading the cues to understand that some people are really not being nice.

Your, "rebuttle" was all about you, every sentence starts or contains the word, "I".

My only response to that can possibly be, "congratulation" because you are not talking about a concept. And, my quote of your post was about what YOU said because it's the only way for me to rebutt a post you posted about yourself.

Was it a little sarcastic? Maybe, but don't take it personally because you are the one that debated with a personal experience, not me. And, you have to admit, even if you are not being nice some people don't quite get it, by your own admission(people bother you).
 
Jiro said:
you do realize that you took it completely out of context? shame on you. *smh*

when you work, you work. period. I went to NitroHonda's post and read thru few more posts. It appears that he has a strong work ethic. after all... he's a business owner.

nobody's making money if somebody's chit-chatting during work about dating tips and rules... you really need to work on your deaf issue...
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Then you probably missed this:
"I do not talk to other Deaffies when I'm doing my own thing in public."
 
VacationGuy234 said:
You wrote that what I said was BS. My entire point was that deaf people have a hard time reading the cues to understand that some people are really not being nice.

Your, "rebuttle" was all about you, every sentence starts or contains the word, "I".

My only response to that can possibly be, "congratulation" because you are not talking about a concept. And, my quote of your post was about what YOU said because it's the only way for me to rebutt a post you posted about yourself.

Was it a little sarcastic? Maybe, but don't take it personally because you are the one that debated with a personal experience, not me. And, you have to admit, even if you are not being nice some people don't quite get it, by your own admission(people bother you).
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My experiences are my own... and they are of a culturally Deaf person. I got the concept down just fine. I'm not so sure you do. Let me state it again...

Deaf people know so your post was BS (incorrect and likely ignorant) in that manner. I have already explained MY experiences (hence the "I" and "me" references that seem to trouble you. I'm certainly not going to start speaking for other people which is what you're doing). I am not alone in this. Of this, I have no doubt.

What I do on my own personal time is one thing. I've already detailed my reasons for wanting privacy. If you want to hold that against me in this thread, by all means, but to be frank... it has nothing to do with being neighborly. My neighbors don't come knocking on my door daily.

If anyone's getting personal, it'd have to be you. Thanks for the PM titled "If you". There's no need to apologize for anything. Let's just have merit to our posts instead. "Congratulations..." is not it.
 
NitroHonda said:
My experiences are my own... and they are of a culturally Deaf person. I got the concept down just fine. I'm not so sure you do. Let me state it again...

Deaf people know so your post was BS (incorrect and likely ignorant) in that manner. I have already explained MY experiences (hence the "I" and "me" references that seem to trouble you). I am not alone in this. Of this, I have no doubt.

What I do on my own personal time is one thing. I've already detailed my reasons for wanting privacy. If you want to hold that against me in this thread, by all means, but to be frank... it has nothing to do with being neighborly. My neighbors don't come knocking on my door daily.

If anyone's getting personal, it'd have to be you. Thanks for the PM titled "If you". There's no need to apologize for anything. Let's just have merit to our posts instead. "Congratulations..." is not it.
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OK, your point is that they know. And, your reasoning is from personal experience(Because obviously I must never have met anyone from the deaf community). So, in your personal experience from your other post you stated, "I'm probably a little unnecessarily rude about it ". Do you think the person in the OP's post, the guy, was a little unnecessarily rude? Do you think the OP may have misinterpreted a friendship as now the guy's wife is not talking anymore?

If in the deaf community, of which I am so ignorant, there is no problem with communication, in your opinion, why is there a need for an entirely different language?
 
VacationGuy234 said:
OK, your point is that they know. And, your reasoning is from personal experience(Because obviously I must never have met anyone from the deaf community).
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I don't even know if you are a hearing person or a deaf person. I'm leaning towards hearing but simply put... I don't know you. I can only make presumptions by the basis of your content. You are here so I'm sure you've had contact. Is it the RIGHT kind of contact? I'm not so sure. Hopefully, I will get to better know you and we have many many meaningful discussions on alldeaf.

So, in your personal experience from your other post you stated, "I'm probably a little unnecessarily rude about it ". Do you think the person in the OP's post, the guy, was a little unnecessarily rude? Do you think the OP may have misinterpreted a friendship as now the guy's wife is not talking anymore?
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I've already answered that question with my advice to whatdidhesay to beat him down with his cane. If my neighbor's wife all of a sudden stopped talking to me... well... I'd be uneasy too! Whatdidyousay obviously feels that way. You claiming this is a social problem? Eh... let me repeat... BS.

My post from a thread that is unrelated to this one? Boy are you fickle... Okay... let's talk about it then since you seem not to be able to distinguish the differences between the two scenarios. My not wanting to be bothered on my own time reminiscing with my peers in which I am, in turn, clearly defined by my "rudeness" in that manner simply has nothing to do with my hearing neighbors who do not overstep their boundaries. These are two different issues. The Deaf one is a cultural one and one that we are still figuring out. The bigger the Deaf community there is... the more we get annoyed with each other. That concept isn't difficult once you get used to it. The community really is very large here.

If in the deaf community, of which I am so ignorant, there is no problem with communication, in your opinion, why is there a need for an entirely different language?
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You don't need language to know somebody's being rude. Deaf people are generally so keen at reading body language it'd probably blow your mind away. I don't really get that. It didn't take language for me to determine that you were being sarcastic with your "Congratulations..." comment. You are confused with tone and mixing in language along with it.

I never said there wasn't a problem with communication. I'm not sure where you're getting that from. Jiro said it best... context, Vacationguy. Context

It's kinda ironic because language is the basis of your argument yet you seem to have difficulty grasping it yourself. I didn't say you were ignorant. I implied your post likely was ignorant. Big difference.

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NitroHonda said:
I'm at home sick with a terrible cough so I'll be here all day.
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Rest up, you've already proved my point. I sent you a private message as a gesture of friendship and you aired it in the forums(everything I posted from you was already on the forums and not private). Not surprisingly, I was laboring under a misapprehension. I thought we were friends so I thought I would make a nice jesture, but I was, in fact, mistaken. There was certainly a miscommunication on my part(Can't believe that happened). It's very similar to what the OP experienced. But, don't worry, I don't have cane.

Thank you. Hope you get well soon.
 
VacationGuy234 said:
Rest up, you've already proved my point. I sent you a private message as a gesture of friendship and you aired it in the forums(everything I posted from you was already on the forums and not private). Not surprisingly, I was laboring under a misapprehension. I thought we were friends so I thought I would make a nice jesture, but I was, in fact, mistaken. There was certainly a miscommunication on my part(Can't believe that happened). It's very similar to what the OP experienced. But, don't worry, I don't have cane.

Thank you. Hope you get well soon.
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I guess it backfired on you because your gesture of friendship was fake. try again... with honesty this time.
 
VacationGuy234 said:
Rest up, you've already proved my point. I sent you a private message as a gesture of friendship and you aired it in the forums(everything I posted from you was already on the forums and not private). Not surprisingly, I was laboring under a misapprehension. I thought we were friends so I thought I would make a nice jesture, but I was, in fact, mistaken. There was certainly a miscommunication on my part(Can't believe that happened). It's very similar to what the OP experienced. But, don't worry, I don't have cane.

Thank you. Hope you get well soon.
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Disappointing. Again another post with no meat on it.

I took your PM to be indimidating with it being titled "If you". *shrugs*

It's all good. I appreciate the kind words. Have a good one.
 
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