WSD doesn't start boarding until 1st grade and we're not moving until next summer. So, since we have no private schools willing to accommodate special needs kids in our area, my daughter would remain in the public school, in a class all by herself with a private teacher because the self contained DHH early childhood class can't fit her exact needs (OMG! They talk in there!). But wait, there's more! Solo education is not FAPE, so they'd have to hire in a handful of Deaf, ASL only using preschoolers.
So, at a time where teachers are being cut, programs are being cut, schools are being closed and typical kids are struggling to get the most basic appropriate education (they aren't privvy to FAPE or LRE), they're supposed to hire 1 or more staff and set up a "private" public education for my 1 kid.
I'd be the world's biggest asshat to expect that.
Suck it up and make what's available work for you. Your kid may just have to be 'exposed' to an array of not-quite-as-special-as-them kids. If that's just too much for you have the right to seek out the private option... at your own cost.
The minute a private school takes public funds, I want a say in what goes on there.