One night stand

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Reba said:
Just for the record, I never called her any names.
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I would be surprised if you did. You are good poster.

I think it is implied in many posts in this thread. Using words like 'slut' or 'promiscuous' (sp?) maybe make her feel directed to her.
 
I didn't call anybody any names either. I just stated that people who engage in one night stands creep me out and that I avoid them. I have never had a one night stand and I do not regret not having a one night stand. Now, this is not because I never had the opportunity. I have had plenty of them. I had an ex fiance break up with me, and two bisexual females wanted a threesome with me and I turned them down cold. I have never regretted that decision. I have never sat around and thought "gee, that was a stupid move, I should have done it".

I have, however, regretted staying in a relationship that was going nowhere.
 
rebeccalj said:
I would be surprised if you did. You are good poster.
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Thank you.

I think it is implied in many posts in this thread. Using words like 'slut' or 'promiscuous' (sp?) maybe make her feel directed to her.
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Slut and ho (not even a real word) aren't part of my vocabulary.

I did use promiscuous but not relating to Sunny. It had to do with the euphemisms that society uses today to make behaviors more cool and acceptable.
 
Steinhauer said:
I didn't call anybody any names either. I just stated that people who engage in one night stands creep me out and that I avoid them.
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And yet...you keep coming this thread? Are we not creeping you out?? :roll:
 
Steinhauer said:
I didn't call anybody any names either. I just stated that people who engage in one night stands creep me out and that I avoid them. I have never had a one night stand and I do not regret not having a one night stand. Now, this is not because I never had the opportunity. I have had plenty of them. I had an ex fiance break up with me, and two bisexual females wanted a threesome with me and I turned them down cold. I have never regretted that decision. I have never sat around and thought "gee, that was a stupid move, I should have done it".

I have, however, regretted staying in a relationship that was going nowhere.
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Here's your cookie.
 
sunny_signs said:
And yet...you keep coming this thread? Are we not creeping you out?? :roll:
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People who engage in one night stands creep me out. Perhaps you misunderstood what I was conveying. A one night stand is engaging in high risk sexual behaviour. It can be comparable to someone playing Russian Roullette. Suppose you have a revolver with just one bullet in it. You spin the chamber, then point it at your head and pull the trigger. It goes "click" and it doesn't fire the bullet.

You might not get a life altering STD or even AIDs the first time, but that just means you are lucky. If you constantly engage in one night stands, you will eventually get an STD or even AIDS which can kill you. You can even become a carrier and pass it on to others.

THAT creeps me out. Just like it would creep me out to watch someone playing Russian Roullette.
 
I've know people who stayed faithful but ended up with STD because their partners cheated. Marriages and fully committed relationships aren't foolproof either. Lol
 
Steinhauer said:
People who engage in one night stands creep me out. Perhaps you misunderstood what I was conveying. A one night stand is engaging in high risk sexual behaviour. It can be comparable to someone playing Russian Roullette. Suppose you have a revolver with just one bullet in it. You spin the chamber, then point it at your head and pull the trigger. It goes "click" and it doesn't fire the bullet.

You might not get a life altering STD or even AIDs the first time, but that just means you are lucky. If you constantly engage in one night stands, you will eventually get an STD or even AIDS which can kill you. You can even become a carrier and pass it on to others.

THAT creeps me out. Just like it would creep me out to watch someone playing Russian Roullette.
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It doesn't mean you are lucky. It means you make good choices in the partner, and practice safe sex.:roll: I don't think anyone invited you to WATCH them have a one night stand. Or to watch them play Russian Roulette. **shrug**

You are sounding a tad neurotic.
 
Steinhauer said:
People who engage in one night stands creep me out. Perhaps you misunderstood what I was conveying. A one night stand is engaging in high risk sexual behaviour. It can be comparable to someone playing Russian Roullette. Suppose you have a revolver with just one bullet in it. You spin the chamber, then point it at your head and pull the trigger. It goes "click" and it doesn't fire the bullet.

You might not get a life altering STD or even AIDs the first time, but that just means you are lucky. If you constantly engage in one night stands, you will eventually get an STD or even AIDS which can kill you. You can even become a carrier and pass it on to others.

THAT creeps me out. Just like it would creep me out to watch someone playing Russian Roullette.
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Judgmentalism creeps me out. I avoid judgmental people.
 
deafbajagal said:
I've know people who stayed faithful but ended up with STD because their partners cheated. Marriages and fully committed relationships aren't foolproof either. Lol
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That's quite true, and I hope the OP gets tested. Dallas can suffer also from this.
 
Steinhauer said:
You will get judged whether or not you think I am being judgemental. I am just telling you the straight dope.
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No, you are telling her how moral you are and how immoral she is. It has nothing to do with the "straight dope." Seriously, don't you realize how offensive you are coming across?
 
You say your opinion, which you entitled have! I defend your right say what you like, even if it's totally wrong. So go ahead...keep talking :)
 
Honestly Steinhauer's original post, which he candidly shared his views was not really judgemental because he acknowledges his reaction. I do admire that in a person. He's one of the rare gems who sees intimacy as something sacred and obviously has respect for women. At least that's my observation...
 
Bottesini said:
That's quite true, and I hope the OP gets tested. Dallas can suffer also from this.
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Not experienced, don't get around that way...but smart enough for condom!

Dallas won't even text me back...he not likely catch anything. Lol.
 
I'm judgemental towards oral education. We should make a sign...oral sex, not oral education!
 
sunny_signs said:
Not experienced, don't get around that way...but smart enough for condom!

Dallas won't even text me back...he not likely catch anything. Lol.
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That's wonderful, but that condom is not perfect protection. People have gotten AIDS from a double gloved dentist.

You should get tested.
 
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