Oh Wow..

LakeTahoe said:
Yes you shouldn't announce it till you are about 3-4 months a long. I would do the same. I m sorry :(
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I agree with you.

Dear Freckles, next time. If you get a pregnant again, then you can talk with ur bf and some ur best friends. Not put the announce on here. Wait til 3-4 month. okay!!! the same, this happen to my german girls
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freckles said:
my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
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Why stay with him if he's not supportive? What you're going through is very important and he needs to be there for you.
 
freckles said:
my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
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Then Don't get pregnancy from him again!!!


Ps ... I didnt mean sound an anus to you.. but its hurt me if my bf didnt supportive me? ok :D


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freckles said:
my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
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I saw on your little written "ugh i just want to die" Please don't tell it again.
Honestly, it wont help if you want to die. Take it easy, back off from ur BF and be strong. I am sure, you would be wake up, if you will back off from him and he will shock, so maybe he need you or not. If not, then go away from him.
we are support for you :hug:
 
Whoa, people. Some of your comments were harsh.

I've lost babies through miscarriages. It is very painful and difficult. I also did not have the support from my husband (now ex), who made a point to be an ass about it. Nor did I have the support from my family and friends. I finally learned to keep it to myself.

From my experience, the WORST thing people would say is, "Well you can always try again." I hated hearing that phrase because 1) you cannot replace a child like a dog 2) "trying again" is just too painful because it implies you were "trying" in the first place and 3) it is none of other people's business about when and how I will have a child.

A simple "I'm sorry about your loss" is sufficient. Words of advice, though with well intentions, are not necessary and sometimes make things worse.

So. "Freckles, I am so sorry for your loss."
 
deafbajagal said:
Whoa, people. Some of your comments were harsh.

I've lost babies through miscarriages. It is very painful and difficult. I also did not have the support from my husband (now ex), who made a point to be an ass about it. Nor did I have the support from my family and friends. I finally learned to keep it to myself.

From my experience, the WORST thing people would say is, "Well you can always try again." I hated hearing that phrase because 1) you cannot replace a child like a dog 2) "trying again" is just too painful because it implies you were "trying" in the first place and 3) it is none of other people's business about when and how I will have a child.

A simple "I'm sorry about your loss" is sufficient. Words of advice, though with well intentions, are not necessary and sometimes make things worse.

So. "Freckles, I am so sorry for your loss."
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Thank you for a such kindful comment, DeafBajaGal. Freckles needs that. :hug: I can't believe how people said it like that. :(
 
deafbajagal said:
Whoa, people. Some of your comments were harsh.

I've lost babies through miscarriages. It is very painful and difficult. I also did not have the support from my husband (now ex), who made a point to be an ass about it. Nor did I have the support from my family and friends. I finally learned to keep it to myself.

From my experience, the WORST thing people would say is, "Well you can always try again." I hated hearing that phrase because 1) you cannot replace a child like a dog 2) "trying again" is just too painful because it implies you were "trying" in the first place and 3) it is none of other people's business about when and how I will have a child.

A simple "I'm sorry about your loss" is sufficient. Words of advice, though with well intentions, are not necessary and sometimes make things worse.

So. "Freckles, I am so sorry for your loss."
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Can i put my opinion here?!? so, if you got first time miscarriages. you can positive think and would be successful get a baby. My friend from germany got 5 times miscarriages. It is too much for her, but nice of her husband. he did support for her. I had one time miscarriages since 12 yrs ago. I have no problem about myself depression or something. I am positive thinking. that is fine!!!!
 
deafbajagal said:
Whoa, people. Some of your comments were harsh.

I've lost babies through miscarriages. It is very painful and difficult. I also did not have the support from my husband (now ex), who made a point to be an ass about it. Nor did I have the support from my family and friends. I finally learned to keep it to myself.

From my experience, the WORST thing people would say is, "Well you can always try again." I hated hearing that phrase because 1) you cannot replace a child like a dog 2) "trying again" is just too painful because it implies you were "trying" in the first place and 3) it is none of other people's business about when and how I will have a child.

A simple "I'm sorry about your loss" is sufficient. Words of advice, though with well intentions, are not necessary and sometimes make things worse.

So. "Freckles, I am so sorry for your loss."
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Good posting, Deafbajagal! now that is comforting words to hear for Freckles as she dont need more craps added to the tragedy.
 
I'm back.... thank you those who understood my side.

bottesini... why doctor? what doctor? who? ... who knows me more than I do?
VamPyroX said:
Why stay with him if he's not supportive? What you're going through is very important and he needs to be there for you.
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because, like defee said, he didn't (or still doesn't) know how.. sucks but I can't change him. I love him.

I will read PMs later, too many/much right now. meanwhile, thank you everyone again.
 
Freckles, I'm very sorry for your loss. :(

I'm praying for you, that you will be strong and comforted during this difficult time. :hug:
 
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