Oh Wow..

I'm sorry to hear about your unfortunate miscarriage. Miscarriages are more common than you think. Yes, it is heart wrenching but it will also heal with time.
 
Freckles, you have my sympathy. I know how you feel as I have been there before. I lost twin sons at 5 1/2 months gestation and a daughter at 5 months gestation. It still hurts and I still think of them every day as they are always in my heart.

Just remember that your baby is with God now and he is taking care of your precious angel. So that is a comfort to know. Ok. :hug:
 
freckles said:
I lost the baby. miscarriage.. I knew it. we're bummed. I'm so bummed.. so bummed. :(

but that's okay. I guess this was for the best.. a year ago they told me I cannot have children.

I'm going away for a while, don't know when I'll be back. thank you for all the congrats in other thread.. you all were told too early. too early. I am sorry guys.
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so sorry to hear about your loss
 
Ouch... sorry about that. Hope you feel better soon.
 
I am so sorry to hear about the baby. It is not uncommon for a woman to suffer a miscarriage, but that doesn't make it less painful. Hopefully with time and lots of support from your family and good friends healing will come. Hugs from here.
 
I thought I'd grab a minute to check this while can, wow...thank you all for thoughts. unexpected. good to hear other similar experiences too. karissa, I'll PM you the answer sometime soon or later.

my mother made a good point if I never told anyone I was pregnant, I'd not have as much support as this, losing baby.

I've been tearing up; something else happened last night and I feel like I've been smacked by truck - numb, despair and falling apart so I appreciate it more than you know.

bye again for now.
 
Aww dear, I'm very sorry to hear that you've suffered from a miscarriage.

Honestly some people like myself cannot wait more than a day or so after getting a positive pregnancy test result before shouting out the news to our family and friends while the others prefer to keep their news to themselves until they're farther along such as 2 or 3 months but IMO, It's probably best to announce it in case you're working where there's a lot of lifting etc to avoid the risk of miscarriage.

I know how you feel and sure can feel your pain, I suffered from a miscarriage in the past 2, it's wasn't a good feelings to have. hang in there :hug:
 
Very sorry to hear of ur loss freckles and hang in there only time will heal and remember s/he is now an little angel watching over u.
 
ugh....I just want to die.

my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
 
freckles said:
my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
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:hug: a lot of :hug:
 
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you will get better. I used to have a miscarriage baby when I was 20 years old. I wasn't exciting about baby because not good father to us. You can try make a hope and faith for your future baby. :hug:
 
freckles said:
my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
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Freckles. Just remember You have family and friends here for you. I know it is hard right now..hang in there, girl. i have beeen there like you.. my ex bf wasnt supportive of me and didnt grieved with me .. at the time i didnt know but he was cheating on me about 2 months along with other lady... i found out and was betrayed.. so i moved out.. to make it worse.. 2 days later the lady moved in.. that HURTS! it took me LONG time to get over it.. but i never forgot...

If you arent better.. yu can always go to counseling.. they are there for u and talk to you.... sound like you are going thru Blues... if its serious then go to dr and get medicines.. you will feel better like i did... people said time will heal.... but you WILL never forget.... trust me... i have been there.... sighs...

:hug:
 
Sorry to hear all this drama... here's our group hug :grouphug:
 
You are in my thoughts and prayers, Freckles..for your
tragic loss. If you have depression, please tell the
doctor, ok?
Im sorry your boyfriend was not supportive but most
young guys just dont understand women's feelings
when they have miscarriage. Have you both have any
discussion about this? Sometimes the father are not
good at expressing their feelings so maybe he is dealing
with this in a different way, you think? You might try
and explore his feelings on this matter?
I will pray for both of you.
God bless!
 
Freckles, I am really sorry to hear how bad you feel. I think to see a doctor is the best idea.:grouphug:
 
freckles said:
my boyfriend hasn't been very supportive of me and I've been alone, go through everything myself. alone. especially physically. I've HAD it. I'm sick of crying. SICK of being "special".

had it. :cry:
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Tell him to read a book called "Relationship for Dummies".
 
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