I do not like Bonnie, but I do think Meredith Baxter-Bierney (sp?) did a good job acting the part.
I wondered who that actress was. I agree, that character was annoying. But I have relatives much like her.
When I was a kid my parents kept foster kids. One little girl we had for two years, and my parents really wanted to adopt her. When we visited my great-grandmother she would keep asking, "Now which little girl is my real grand-daughter?" She would ask in front of my foster sister, too.
My husband and I adopted two kids, and every time we visited his grandmother, who raised him, she would make a point of telling people which of the kids were 'really' ours and which were adopted. We told her more than once to stop it, but she didn't.
We quit visiting- not just for that reason, but it sure didn't make us want to make the effort to take the kids there. I thought the show was realistic about characters like Bonnie, and so was the way the parents handled the grandmother.
I would also like to see a lot more signing, from Daphne and from other characters.
And the closed captioning is really not that great. Important words get dropped, often changing the meaning of the sentence.