1. Besides talking to him as much as I can, what else should I be doing right now? I got the Signing Time videos as a start but I feel so overwhelmed at the idea of learning more than just baby signs. Taking care of an infant is hard enough and there arent enough hours in the day to myself! Should I be taking ASL classes at a community college?
Don't freak yourself out about learning sign. You have time. Since your child will have some access to sound you can expose him to the best of both worlds. He will learn as you learn. I started with signs during mealtime and slowly learned signs for the animals in his board books. If you are close to your local school for the deaf, you may be able to find inexpensive or free ASL classes there. Another option is community rec classes which are usually smaller, less expensive and not as involved as a community college class. I have been taking ASL at our school for the deaf's parent group program which has given me a great vocabulary base. I am now thinking of stepping up my education and taking a college course to learn more about the Language and correct grammar, etc. Signing time videos are awesome! They have a couple Baby Signing Time dvd's that will have most of the vocab you will want to learn first. We also love Leah's Farm and the ABC Signing time dvd's.
2. I've read through a lot of the threads on here and get the sense that many people wished they learned ASL earlier and/or weren't mainstreamed but a lot of those posters have severe or profound loss. Anyone with moderate loss that can speak specifically about their experiences?
When we first decided to go to the school for the deaf's program, I was thinking that our son would eventually be mainstreamed and that we were sort of wasting our time learning ASL. I was very, very wrong with this assumption. With speech therapy, we have learned that our son has very weak tone around his mouth and some paralysis which will make talking clearly very, very, difficult. He can understand pretty much everything we say to him, but he uses ASL to tell us what is on his mind. So for us, deafness is a blessing. Mainstream schooling would force us to use an assistive communication device. Hands are much more, umm, handy!
3. How much speech/hearing can I expect if my son is aided given a moderate to moderately severe hearing loss? What are your thoughts on trying for English as his first language and ASL as his second? With moderate loss, he might not even qualify for deaf school so I'd like to better understand the mainstream experience of a HOH child.
I would say that our son's first language is both. We do signed supported english when we talk to him. Sometimes I will turn my voice off so that he focuses on the message. He is a very visual learner. Our city district has one school where all the deaf/hoh attend. Most districts work this way and I think the children are eventually "mainstreamed" into that elementary since it has more supports than a typical school..audiologists, teacher of the deaf, sound fields or FM systems. Or, if the child is doing well, they could be mainstreamed into their home school. Our school for the deaf's family ed program uses spoken english and sign. Any hearing loss level qualifies one for attendance.
4. Anyone from CA since it seems like each state handles education services differently?
Not from California, sorry.
I guess that's it for now :P Thanks in advance to this forum!