Steinhauer
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matajan:
Your reply to my question and your subsequent replies confirm what I suspect:
You have a social disease. You are unable to read other peoples' emotions and you have no idea how to respect them either.
I've watched how everyone jumps on you with statements that would make me feeling hurt, but you don't seem to be affected by them.
Is it a result of your Asperger's condition? Maybe, maybe not. 50% of the Autistic people that I've socialized with have similar behavior. When other kids make fun of my son, he doesn't get it. (It is probably a good thing, too, considering kids can be cruel).
Let me try to explain something to you: Do you remember falling off your bike as a kid and the pain you felt? Yes?
Okay, now, those of us that do not have Asperger's feel pain when people say things to us that are not very nice. It is not a physical pain; it is emotional pain.
By coming here and telling us how smart you are and how 'low standard' we are hurts our feelings. You need to stop doing that.
I suspect you are looking for acceptance and respect. You are not going to get it from us when you imply that you are smart and we are not.
Does this make sense to you?
Yes, that is what happens to people with aspergers, you can repeat this over and over and it will be futile.
He doesn't get it and will never get it.
There will never be a lightbulb going on over his head and he starts to think "OMG! You mean ... I ... me ... I am being a dick!?"
It would be comparable to explaining the finer shades of the color green to a blind person.