my girl's missing...

I am glad you're okay Steel... I think that was selfish of Leslie to do this to you and everyone close to her. :\
 
Roadrunner said:
Great to know that everything's fine now...thanks for the update Steel!

I'm sure you'll do your darnest to 'help' her and being there for her as well-- ;)
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well yeah...I sure try my darnest, even though she didn't like that I was doing that but hey, her aunt dragged me in this business so I was shitting on my pants hoping that she would be okay so yeah everything's just fine now.
 
Deaf258 said:
I am glad you're okay Steel... I think that was selfish of Leslie to do this to you and everyone close to her. :\
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Yeah I believe it is... :roll: she's still not too mature, I tell you.
 
Glad that she is ok but 18 year old?? ouchiess!! that still young to understand that and good thing you is keep help her try get her life backk
 
I'm really glad to hear that she is alright....I just hope she relized that there are people out there like yourself who actually does cares about her, and hopefully she would call next time....

I'm sorry to see that she doesn't quite get it now, but in time she will....
 
im really glad shes okay now... though she might need to learn how to communicate :) Hopefully things will get better for all of you and people who cares about her in future.
 
Steel...I am glad she is all right. That is the most important thing to remember right now. I am hoping that she will be able to open up to you. You gotta remember though - teenage girls are very strange creatures. :) They often have their own time and place for these things - so give her a little time to gather her thoughts, her bearings...but do remind her that you are there for her if she ever needs to chat, or needs a hug or someone to listen.
 
Sorry about assuming that she's your daughter. I just saw some stuff about school...
I'm glad she is ok. All I know to say is that if you really love her, just show her your support like you have been doing. And show her what life is like when you don't drink, smoke and do drugs. And most importantly, pray for her.
 
Steel,


After reading your lasted posted about her updated, I can see how much you care for her and everything. You such a good guy really, She doesn't know what she missing out on. But, somedays she will regret it. ;)


Glad to see everything is all right and hope that she would trust someone like you for help and come to you whatever issues she may have.

Hang in there Steelie :hug:
 
STEEL,

just hangin there.. i know most of teenagers always like that plms .. cause of peers, friendships, drugs/alochol peers, etc.. blah you name it.. wait til she graduating from high school.. i am sure that she will changing and move on and stick on relationship with you as well .. :)

TOF
 
Malfoyish said:
That's not funny.

Steel...I am glad she is all right. That is the most important thing to remember right now. I am hoping that she will be able to open up to you. You gotta remember though - teenage girls are very strange creatures. :) They often have their own time and place for these things - so give her a little time to gather her thoughts, her bearings...but do remind her that you are there for her if she ever needs to chat, or needs a hug or someone to listen.
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I suppose you are right. even though I try my hardest to make her happy, she still doesn't seem to be pleased of how things are going around her life, her family, and even school...perhas even part of me but she said it has nothing to do with me at all anyway so I dunno...if it does, at least she should just be honest. :roll:

I would always love her and show my support and respect to her and even forgive her because that's what friends do. they forgive eachother, right?

So I think she has forgiven me for yelling at her and shit so then we just hugged and made up but I know she still have problems, so perhas like most people say, Just give her some time to herself and I think I would have to do that.

So I just told her last night that I don't know when we may see eachother again but told her she can always call me or text me whenever she wants and she said okay and then hugged eachother and said goodnight and she left out of my car to her house so it seems everything's okay now, but still needs some help with her problems anyway.
 
Steel said:
I suppose you are right. even though I try my hardest to make her happy, she still doesn't seem to be pleased of how things are going around her life, her family, and even school...perhas even part of me but she said it has nothing to do with me at all anyway so I dunno...if it does, at least she should just be honest. :roll:

I would always love her and show my support and respect to her and even forgive her because that's what friends do. they forgive eachother, right?

So I think she has forgiven me for yelling at her and shit so then we just hugged and made up but I know she still have problems, so perhas like most people say, Just give her some time to herself and I think I would have to do that.

So I just told her last night that I don't know when we may see eachother again but told her she can always call me or text me whenever she wants and she said okay and then hugged eachother and said goodnight and she left out of my car to her house so it seems everything's okay now, but still needs some help with her problems anyway.
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Steel. :hug: It looks like you've handled it as well as you can at this point. Sometimes us women can be a little confused, complex...what else?? Oh, we can also be a pain in the arse, but won't go there and give away too many of our secrets. :)

Bottom line - it does sound like there is something going on with Leslie, and she herself is not sure of how to approach it. Patience is the key. Let her come to you...if she loves you and wants to open up, she will.

-Malfy
 
I'm glad that she is home safe. I hope that she and her family can get the help they need.
 
I was not on the online for past few days until now.

Oh, I read the whole 3 pages here until I saw your update new. I´m glad that she´s safe now.

It´s sad that she is not nice to you. I hope she will realize that you are such caring person.
 
I think you expect me an apology, Eternity...

all kinds of teens have different problems, although they are pretty difficult and stressful, and in fact, I remember all those times I had go through when I was a teen and there were too many things to handle all at once, etc...

so don't expect this to be some kind of a joke, because you wouldn't think it's funny if your daughter ran away because of some family problems or problems from school or anything like that, would you?

well there you go. nobody likes to hear where someone close to them has ran away and hasn't even contacted any of us of her whereabouts and stuff like that.
 
steel,

You done on your end,

perhaps she has so much things in her mind at home problem.. I have to agree with Malfoyish..

Steel, My daughter is one of these *teenager* problem but We want HER to know that we are here to listen, and chat, etc.. But I want you to know that I am very glad that Leslie went back home, and had talk with everyone even in a fight.. I know it's scary and so scary to think for future, Maybe you are right about having some spaces, Or not talk for a while, Sometime these works..

hope things go smooth, and sometime Mother are right too :)


Wendy
 
Ouch. I know what is alike to be a parent of 17 years old, soon to be 18. They are worst age I think because of leaving a childhood years and enter adult world can be confuse time for them as I have watched my sons went thru this. Now I am so glad they survived that age. I am sorry Steel u have to go thru this with her. It will pass once she turns 18 and finish high school. She will feel alot relief once she got out of that phase.
 
For the last time, people...

SHE IS MY FRIEND! NOT MY DAUGHTER!

now next time ADers, please stop skimming through posts and embrassasses yourself thinking that you were an idiot or something but just a lesson to be learned, anyway.

But thanks for giving me some of your advices, I decided to give her space and time for now.
She will be 18 on May 21st.
 
Steel said:
...she goes out seeking other guys behind my back, and lies about everything to her own family and even me.
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Then why did you call her as your "girl"? I thought you guys broke up many months ago.:ugh2:
 
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