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This is not a perfect world...and kids are gonna have sex regardles of the parents speaking, preaching, asking, even telling them about the pitfalls of teens getting pregnant at an early age.
I'm recalling back in the 80's-90's, where the "more" kids a single Mom had, the more $$ they get for each child, food stamps, housing..the whole shebang....then a program was started to where they had to "at least" try to find a job, so they would go out and just put in applications, as their benefits would be cut off....but reporting back they were not hired, had no babysitter, etc., etc....as long as they told their case worker that they had or did, indeed, put in applications, but no luck...then their benefits would continue...and they would get pregnant again...more $$ coming in, ya know?.... It is and was a "cycle"...and still continues to this day....
Not all parents are members of the PTA or even go to parent-student conferences....not all students bring home to their parents letters, notices of suspensions, or a written form of consent...I know first-hand....as there were times when I would check my son's book bag and find forms that needed to be signed and filled out...that were not given to me....and when asking my son about it...he said..."Oh, I forgot"....then again, some do and the Parent ignores it, doesn't read it...or simply doesn't care....so the letter of opt out-opt in...either was signed, not signed...the student threw it away...lost it...or the Parent simply wadded it up and threw it away or simply ignored....Then again, the school may have overlooked a student...??
Many reasons why the opt-out, opt-in letter did not reach the right hands....
So again, it's up to the Parent whether to sign the form or not....
You just made the PERFECT argument for why it should be "opt in". This is exactly why everything else IS "opt in".