One of my dogs is an expert at getting pizza off the kitchen counter. I would never throttle her! She's a sweetie.
So do I, but it's got nothing to do with hearing. It's only when they've pulled something off the counter that they shouldn't have.
Wait - dogs ARE family members, aren't they??
I'll add: Poodles are puntable family members.
Yes they are. It takes a smart person to appreciate poodles. It's a secret intelligence test. I can tell who is not passing...
It's OK........ Hope you'll stay!!!!!! Overall we are very CI friendly....and that rocks that you're also pursuing ASL!!! That will be an awesome tool for him! It is not like it was in the old days at ALL! JW, I know your location says that you're in Upper NY....have you contacted any of the Deaf Schools in your area? I know he's young, but Deaf Schools really do offer AWESOME resources for dhh babies and toddlers....and The NY State School for the Deaf is very oral friendly (they sign too)tend to be defensive because other people have been and really mean about it too - not on this site and hopefully it stays that way. I know they learn to listen and it takes more work than hearing children but it is worth it. I work with my son hours every day to help him. It is wonderful to see him run after me saying mama mama after we thought he might never develop any speech because of his profound deafness. I know hearing babies develop quicker speech abilities of course they do but CI children can learn to have verbal conversations with hearing people and asl with other deaf people.
One of my dogs is an expert at getting pizza off the kitchen counter. I would never throttle her! She's a sweetie.
I expect him to talk because he can and does. If he was not capable of doing it I would not make him do it. As a parent it is my job to push him
To do everything he can do. When he first got his CIs activated he immediately started to try and talk verbally with us even though he'd only had them a couple days at 11 months old. I sign with him but he chooses to talk with me verbally even when given the choice of what he wants to do. He loves vocalizing and yes I will encourage him to do it properly, since he wants to do it I will teach him to talk to the beat of his ability to learn. It is a parents job to make sure their child has every option available, just because my child was born deaf does not mean that I should not teach him to verbally communicate. Right now he is young and for his brain it is the easiest time for language acquisition so I am teaching him now.
Ok...I'm profoundly deaf, got my hearing aids at age four and was mainstreamed. My mother was an English teacher so she took on the job of teaching me both to speak and to learn English. To be honest, she was so happy every time I pronounced a word right that despite hating the speech therapy lessons, I did it because I liked giving her such joy.
However! Because I am deaf, despite that I literally read a book a day and had an English teacher for a mother, that beause I wasn't hearing all the words in a sentence, it showed in my writing - terrible structure, verb tenses were past, present and future so I do understand the importance of language acquisition at a young age but I do beliee that it's important for a child to have acquisition of a language that s/he can acquire fully before learning another language. Once they are fluent in one language, it becomes far easier to take on a second language. And not only that, it fosters self-confidence to know that you are fluent 100% in a language as opposed to being able to speak and read English but only hear bits and pieces of it that leaves you feeling isolated and left out not to mention "defective".
All that to say, that I am not going to offer my opinion about CIs, etc. But speaking from experience, I do encourage for your child's psychological well being that you give ASL the same importance as speech.
I get everyone is not purposely trying to seem critical but it does come
Across that way - no offense. I am everything I can but there are limits. My husband works all day and I dont have any "deaf community" anywhere remotely near where we live. I had to teach myself ASL I know how to sign words but the grammatical structure is so different from English it makes it very hard. We don't have deaf schools closest one is 10 hours away, so what is best for him is to try and get him to learn both languages and learn as we go.