respectyoda
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They were born with their wrong gender as their brains was functioning like other side of sexual feeling of who they are as human beings. They don't think like their own sex as a boy or girl. If a boy think like a girl and want so badly to transfer from the boy to the girl way of thinking and want to transfer his male to female body. So that there will not be any confusion of what people view at her instead of him. With that surgery, it was not possible back then years ago and the boy or girl will not be able to function as a girl or boy to transfer. Now that surgery is possible to help a person who want to transfer from boy or girl to being a girl or boy.
As for going into the bathroom, a transgender don't think about other people whether a woman or man need to go to the bathroom to pee or their own business. They need to go whether you like it or not. Where can they go if there is no Co-ed bathrooms for them to do their own business.
They have a rights to make decisions on their own to who they want to become as human beings.
For example, like babies being born deaf and had been forced to wear CI and we don't approve of having them wearing it too early in their babyhood. We would rather for the babies to wait until they are old enough to understand if they want to have CI for surgery. Surgery is not to be taken lightly that it will be a safe way to have CI put in for the babies. Should let the deaf child decide if they want to have CI or not, but then if the child later decide to have CI. Then that would be the decision of the child, not the parents or the medical community. That is the difference.
For the transgender, going into surgery will help them if they decide to go through surgery to have sex change from their own sex. Beside surgery is a risky business but they seem to come out okay. So let them if they want to go through sex change. No problem. Do not discriminate them because of who they are when their brains are not who they are.
I don't buy the claim of people's brains causing them to act like if they were someone of the opposite sex. People act/look like they are of the opposite sex by choice. This is not relevant to DNA by any means. Just because there's surgery to allow people to have a sex change, it does not mean it is right. If I was a surgeon, I could not according to my conscience perform a sex change operation on a human being.
As for the restroom issue, a transgender might not care what others would think, but that doesn't mean the transgender should ignore the feelings of others. It doesn't matter if there is a coed restroom or not because if they are biologically a male, they can just use the men's restroom. Simple as that.
Like I stated in this thread and many others that I accept people as a person, but I don't condone their actions, especially when they go against nature.
Yes, we have some transgendered members, especially Saavik and most of us support her choice. She wasn't born with man's brain - she has woman's brain that trapped in man's body.
For me, I was born with completely man - man's brain and man's body. I'm proud to be man, known as masculine. I don't like any girly stuff. You know that my sexual orientation is bisexual because I have affection to two genders - man and woman. I accepted that and proud to be bisexual.
You simply indirectly stated that having affection towards both genders is a choice. Having affection towards the same sex is not something intertwined in one's DNA, but a choice.