I never said that he deserved to get cancer. I wish that he didn't have cancer. Apparently it just makes him unjustifiably more "heroic" in the eyes of many people.
So, for the umpteenth time, I will state, "I NEVER SAID THAT TED KENNEDY 'DESERVED' TO GET CANCER, AND I NEVER CELEBRATED THE FACT THAT HE GOT CANCER."
It's too bad that people can't show more "empathy" for Mary Jo's tragic death. Gone and forgotten; "move on". Yep.
Ahh....Kennedy's conspiracist live's on.......
IMO no one has shown less empathy for MayJo's death than they have for Kennedy's current situation. I don't recall any posters making comments like, "She shouldn't have been a an auotmoblie with a married man in the wee hours of the morning." There has been no personally directed judgement against her at all.
Quite frankly, Mary Jo's death has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that Ted Kennedy has been diagnosed with a fatal brain tumor. To even bring the incident into a discussion regarding his health shows obvious intent to discount his situation. The majority have agreed that no one has all of the information into the events of that morning except the 2 that werre present, and that her family had choices, made them, and the incident has been dealt with both on a legal level and a personal level as far as the surviviors are concerned. There was absolutely no reason to even bring the incident back up unless the intent was to cast dispersions against a dying man.
She also made the choice/decision to go home with a drunk driver as well.....so if it's anyone's faults, it's also hers as well.
And now we're into the issue of personal responsibility. If we ask one participant to take personal responsibility in a specific incident, we must ask all involved to take personal responsibility.
I couldn't agree with you more.
Sad thing is that nowadays, no one wants to take responsibility for their own actions.
I couldn't agree with you more.
Sad thing is that nowadays, no one wants to take responsibility for their own actions.
Quote: Originally Posted by Liebling))
There´re no situation comparison between Mary Jo and Nicole & Ron because they are total different.
Just so you know, in argument (not bickering but civil discussion) there are two accepted forms of comparison. It's the same for English and German. One is point-by-point comparison you mention. The other is analogy, signaled by "as," "like," or "rather than."
In analogy, the explanation is in the similarity of a few salient points. The reason I didn't choose point-by-point is obvious. For instance, Los Angeles is in California; Chappaquiddick is in Maine; different laws apply. Ron and Nicole were aggressively cut; Mary Jo was negligently left to drown (or suffocate, that part of the record isn't clear, either).
However, the false claim that one is the other is just another form of begging the question--to avoid the issue and misdirect. That's the false argument here.
Quote: Originally Posted by Liebling)) Ted accept his responsibly for the death of Mary Jo which OJ doesn´t.
If you call accepting responsibility pleading "no contest" to watered down criminal decisions, then OJ also accepted the legal decision of a jury in criminal court "not Guilty." This is much closer to point-by-point comparison.
Another is I think both men in "accept his responsibilty" are examples of blatant miscarriages of justice.
What are you saying then? Are you saying Mary got what she deserved to get because she rode with a drunk? I do hope I'm wrong.
Do you know any of her relatives? I don't.
Mary Jo's parents were not dead at the thime of the incident. They had the opportunity to pursue civil recourse at that time. The statue of limitations for civil action is limited. They allowed that time period to pass without action. It was their daughter and their decision. Had they wanted help with seeking justice, they had the opportunity to ask for assistance at that time. I do not recall them ever requesting that the public take up the cause for them. Perhaps they prefered to deal with this as a private matter within their family. That is their right to do so.
Attempting to play arm chair quarterback at this point in time is totally unproductive, and serves no purpose.
"At least he got to live to a ripe old age, which is more than poor Mary Jo Kopechne ever got to do."
As stated prior, perhaps this quote from another post reagarding the topic will explain it all. It is entirely without empathy, and seeks to distract from the issue of his health. It would appear to say, "So what. He desreves what he gets."
It's too bad that people can't show more "empathy" for Mary Jo's tragic death. Gone and forgotten; "move on". Yep.
Well, take a look at jew people who live in Germany and forgave Nazi what and how they did to them. They forgave and move on...
It doesn´t mean that we think less of Mary Jo but we are suppose to talk about Ted´s health, not his past.
Originally Posted by Byrdie714
She also made the choice/decision to go home with a drunk driver as well.....so if it's anyone's faults, it's also hers as well.
And now we're into the issue of personal responsibility. If we ask one participant to take personal responsibility in a specific incident, we must ask all involved to take personal responsibility.
It sound that Ted drank quite a lot. Mary Jo should say No to his offer to drive her home, don´t she?
So that let's him off the hook?She also made the choice/decision to go home with a drunk driver as well.....so if it's anyone's faults, it's also hers as well.
So that let's him off the hook?
Counselor, you should know better than that.