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CyberRed said:
No, it is NOT rude. When you talked about wishin' to go to Hawaii for your honeymoon... that was nothin'. It's no big deal as everyone has their own wishes, too. They go to any places where ever they wish. No difference. And, what's more.... I don't care what you want to do with the money. All I am just sayin' that it is rude to write on the invitation cards requestin' for money -that's MY opinion. That's all.
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LOOK CR, Did Angel mentioned about her HONEYMOON front of page?
What her frigg'n question related the topic?
What more, you're way way way off the topic and continue blabbing another subject about her honeymoon.. What heck ? Aren't you pay attention what her first thread about....
Are you blind alike bat?
Are you trying to target w/her?
Are you want debate w/her continue?
Are you want "ALWAYS RIGHT" ?

Wha.. heck problem?

Please leave this thread alone... let her go...
It's HER WEDDING BUSINESS..
 
:kiss: :hug: Angel.. I understand how you feel. I don't think you're doing anything wrong.. Just do what you want to do. And I think your wedding will be something You love when it comes.

People can argue all they want, but in the end... it's up to you as the Bride.


*whistles Here comes the Bride* Remember it's your big day, nobody else's.. so enjoy it, Have fun, And the wedding night... will be awesome...:deal:
 
Angel said:
Honestly yes that what I'm feeling lately....I'm not worry about anything, I don't like it when people go around assume or judging how we do our wedding and etc, without really understand the question behind all of this, only half of you understand it while the other half of you don't.....I'm tired of creating thread about my wedding and some of you keep assume this is what going on in my mind, none of you know me personally only my true friends do or my family that's all...

I can not believe one question would get soo carry away where I see people bashing each others over this, all I wanted to hear was an opinion not a debates or someone coming in my thread trying to trash it up just because they're holding something against me, this BS, I asked a simple question I expect a respect coming from all of you but I don't seem to get it from a lot of you here, and that why I feel like walking on egg shell when I'm replying in this thread, whatever I say, someone assume this is what Im talking about or what I'm doing or what I am spending the money on, I don't see why it anyone's business to know what I'm using the money on or whatever, I don't question people about their business or sure enough I don't tell them what to do either period and no one is telling me how I should do my own wedding either...All I did was create this thread and asked a simple question I don't understand how hard it is to do that?...and I sure don't like it when people saying " Angel do the right thing, " what am I doing wrong here what question had I asked that is wrong??
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U are not doing anything wrong. I dont know if I offended u but I was just stating my opinions and like I said before, u dont have to follow my suggestion. :)

If I went off topic, my apologies. Like I stated in another thread about hijacking threads, I get caught up in a discussion sometimes. I gotta admit, this thread was very interesting and informative for me but out of respect for you, will get back on topic. :bowdown: LOL!

Good luck with everything!!
 
Maybe Nutty and I should get married and have AD'ers send us money via Alex, go touring (honeymooning) in toxic New Joisey and then get divorced the follwoing week! :fingersx: No hate mail, please....time for this post too wind down as I think Angel has all the answers she needs.
 
Tousi said:
Maybe Nutty and I should get married and have AD'ers send us money via Alex, go touring (honeymooning) in toxic New Joisey and then get divorced the follwoing week! :fingersx: No hate mail, please....time for this post too wind down as I think Angel has all the answers she needs.
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:squint:TOUSIBOY!!!

i thought you were happily married!??? and i didn't even know you were ERRR....................... GAY!!??? :eek2: :rofl:

FC<:slap:>TOUSIROLL! :D :P
 
Cheri said:
Some of you won't admit that some of you have a personal beef against Angel which It's obvious. I know you brought up Hawaii on purpose just to push buttons and it's so junior high. I could pull up so many posts just to show your beef with Angel, but, I don't have the time. It's important to drop the past and move on, don't hold a grudge, It isn't a place for it here at AD, Don't you agree? ;)
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Cheri..Ok, i understand and i humbly apologize if i hurt Angel or anybody
in other old posts but You and Angel and your cronies have done the
same thing too! You guys are not perfect either.
You just zeroed on me on this matter which is pretty obvious (you know
why).
Cheri, I dont hate you or Angel at all!! I dont understand why you guys
hating on me. What did i do? If you want, PM me and tell me why, ok?
I try to be nice and you just zeroed on me and get testy with me and
it does hurt me, really as i dont understand why.
God bless and have a nice blessed evening, ok?
 
Defee said:
Cheri..Ok, i understand and i humbly apologize if i hurt Angel or anybody
in other old posts but You and Angel and your cronies have done the
same thing too! You guys are not perfect either.
You just zeroed on me on this matter which is pretty obvious (you know
why).
Cheri, I dont hate you or Angel at all!! I dont understand why you guys
hating on me. What did i do? If you want, PM me and tell me why, ok?
I try to be nice and you just zeroed on me and get testy with me and
it does hurt me, really as i dont understand why.
God bless and have a nice blessed evening, ok?
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Aww Hun, :hug: I don't hate you, I didn't meant to be testy with you, if I was I apology for my action and behavior. I know I might not be perfect I've shared my mistakes and I admit I do. Forgive me? :fingersx: Let's give each others a hug and start fresh. ;)
 
Defee said:
Cheri..Ok, i understand and i humbly apologize if i hurt Angel or anybody
in other old posts but You and Angel and your cronies have done the
same thing too! You guys are not perfect either.
You just zeroed on me on this matter which is pretty obvious (you know
why).
Cheri, I dont hate you or Angel at all!! I dont understand why you guys
hating on me. What did i do? If you want, PM me and tell me why, ok?
I try to be nice and you just zeroed on me and get testy with me and
it does hurt me, really as i dont understand why.
God bless and have a nice blessed evening, ok?
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HEY COOL IT GIRLS!!! (waving a WHITE FLAG!!!) take it easy!!! :(


i didn't/don't even know that you guys had a beef for each other!??? :shock:

now i do, WHY??? because you guys make it so obvious!!! can't you do it i privately instead of having people getting involved and getting on sides,etc... it is NOT FAIR... and very childish too... > i remember kids did that in highschool... we are adults in here...

(sigh) that is how the "HEAT" builts up!??? and then there is a flame war! gosh!!!

all i can say is people are entitled to have opinions and/or express their feelings!!! you don't have to agree but start a flame war like this??? it is totally uncalled for!

again, this is about ANGEL AND HER QUESTIONS- related to her wedding... so, lets not get off the track... ---so kindly, please take your boiling feelings/beef elsewhere for angel's sake... :ty:
 
Cheri said:
Aww Hun, :hug: I don't hate you, I didn't meant to be testy with you, if I was I apology for my action and behavior. I know I might not be perfect I've shared my mistakes and I admit I do. Forgive me? :fingersx: Let's give each others a hug and start fresh. ;)
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WAY TO GO GIRL!!! :thumb:
 
Reba said:
I didn't know there was an expiration date on good manners.
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Now you're talking about good manners or with respect?

Reba..

I DON'T have to read anything... a book is a book. this is reality and this is what PEOPLE stick up for.

Sorry to say.. I'm not misinformed...

What I meant nowadays.. people actually don't "read" the book of etiquettes. People already knew the tradition of etiquettes however, that has changed alot. This isn't about respect or good manners. Its just about how these people handle with gifts. again.. I don't have to read a thing. I see what I see. Its not about "thank you" "please" .. it has nothing to do with this thread by the way. Its about HOW TO SAY THE RIGHT THING ON AN INVITATION WITHOUT OFFENDING PEOPLE.

Sorry to say.. you did start this thread offending several members then other members got confuse because of your post you have created that was not necessary to be brought up. you could have simply say.. no its not appropriate because so and so. you didn't have to give links to say what's accurate and what's the proper way to do it right. Angel and RR knew what's appropriate but was asking in another question of how to put it in an invitation.. they're not stupid, you know. I'm telling you, reba, not I alone, but millions of people out there are more preferrable of getting money instead because they have reasons to collect money. Its none of anyone's business what they need the money for. honestly.. maybe except for you, people do prefer money. but the point is.. how to make it more appropriate on the invitation because that's what they were THINKING of doing.




Nobody understands what you're actually getting at because you made it the "rules" and made it sound like its fact. but you know... it may be facts but things change.

its not like I have no manners... I'm just simply speaking from the heart not by the book
 
FeistyChick said:
HEY COOL IT GIRLS!!! (waving a WHITE FLAG!!!) take it easy!!! :(


i didn't/don't even know that you guys had a beef for each other!??? :shock:

now i do, WHY??? because you guys make it so obvious!!! can't you do it i privately instead of having people getting involved and getting on sides,etc... it is NOT FAIR... and very childish too... > i remember kids did that in highschool... we are adults in here...

(sigh) that is how the "HEAT" builts up!??? and then there is a flame war! gosh!!!

all i can say is people are entitled to have opinions and/or express their feelings!!! you don't have to agree but start a flame war like this??? it is totally uncalled for!

again, this is about ANGEL AND HER QUESTIONS- related to her wedding... so, lets not get off the track... ---so kindly, please take your boiling feelings/beef elsewhere for angel's sake... :ty:
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you can have the checkered flag.... ya know what i mean. :)
 
Angel, this is ur wedding life...

and that is ur choice which is enough.... u do not need to follow the rules at all.... do what u feel more comfortable and I DO KNOW that a lot of ppl would feel much better too cuz sometimes they do not know what to buy for u cuz of the same items!!! :lol: U know I mean, don't u? So money is good enough and easy way!! Do whatever u wish to do with it!! I am very much respect to whatever u want to do for ur wedding!! Same for me and my families as well... look like someone said today is 2007 and go on forever....be very much different that I am sure!! Cuz too many ppl have changed all the time... so what! If I was in ur shoes I would! LOL but anyway that is what u want go for it! Hun... I would like to say BE HAPPY AND BE ALWAYS LOVE WHAT U BOTH HAVE IN LIFE! THAT IS MAIN IMPORTANT......IN LIFE! Money is like money nothing else! To me, nothing, I would rather go in forest and be like cavewoman! LOL That is the way go! FREEDOM why should we follows the rules for being polite and the mannger so much for? I cant give that answer at all cuz I still don't understand at all anyway!! Oh well........

BE HAPPY PLS ANGEL, That is who u are and be urself ok? I am sorry dear... just being blabbing on too much! U can ingore me lol...

:hug:
 
Cheri said:
Aww Hun, :hug: I don't hate you, I didn't meant to be testy with you, if I was I apology for my action and behavior. I know I might not be perfect I've shared my mistakes and I admit I do. Forgive me? :fingersx: Let's give each others a hug and start fresh. ;)
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:hug: aww thanks for the hugs...yeah, lets start fresh and be
friends again!! and of course, i forgive you too! smile!!
 
Yes, Angel, it is absolutely your choice of what to be done.
We are simply answering your question about stating your gift preferences on the invitation cards, according to what the rules of manners. It is up to you to choose what you want. Please keep in mind that I am not attacking or being against you at all because of your character. I'm just stating what the "correct" rules are concerning your question. If you feel that I have took a part in hijacking your thread, then I sincerely apologise. It is your wedding day after all, and you are free to do whatever you like to do. I am only suggesting to do it with style and tact. Smile. I hope you and Roadrunner will have a beautiful and memorable wedding.
 
Maybe go website of martha stewart (sp) and find out what is her recommend to write the cards for only cash or something?

Hope its helpful? :dunno:

:):):):):)
 
Been there, done that.

I think I made a thread here about my friend's 21 birthday invitation for her son, he want us to give money toward his dream car.

My husband thinks it is rude, but I give her money to save me headache what else to buy the present, Money is easy way out.

BUT to my amazement, they invited lots of people, only about 20% turn up even though they received enough RSVP, I guess its because of the Rude invitation in first place!!!

Not my problem.
 
BearBeauty said:
:kiss: :hug: Angel.. I understand how you feel. I don't think you're doing anything wrong.. Just do what you want to do. And I think your wedding will be something You love when it comes.

People can argue all they want, but in the end... it's up to you as the Bride.


*whistles Here comes the Bride* Remember it's your big day, nobody else's.. so enjoy it, Have fun, And the wedding night... will be awesome...:deal:
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:smiling: Thank you sweetie :hug:
 
shel90 said:
U are not doing anything wrong. I dont know if I offended u but I was just stating my opinions and like I said before, u dont have to follow my suggestion. :)

If I went off topic, my apologies. Like I stated in another thread about hijacking threads, I get caught up in a discussion sometimes. I gotta admit, this thread was very interesting and informative for me but out of respect for you, will get back on topic. :bowdown: LOL!

Good luck with everything!!
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No you didn't offended me at all, Thank you for the nice comment ;)
 
Kuifje75 said:
Yes, Angel, it is absolutely your choice of what to be done.
We are simply answering your question about stating your gift preferences on the invitation cards, according to what the rules of manners. It is up to you to choose what you want. Please keep in mind that I am not attacking or being against you at all because of your character. I'm just stating what the "correct" rules are concerning your question. If you feel that I have took a part in hijacking your thread, then I sincerely apologise. It is your wedding day after all, and you are free to do whatever you like to do. I am only suggesting to do it with style and tact. Smile. I hope you and Roadrunner will have a beautiful and memorable wedding.
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:speechless: Wow, well thank you Kuifje75, I really do appreciate your honestly help and thanks for the nice compliments too ... :)
 
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