That is not an attack. You do have hosility in your life. It is all over your posts. She is telling you the truth and like I said, You don't like what you see. It would go alot easier if you would just examine yourself. If you will clearly see what others are trying to tell you. You will find yourself learning from it and be able to go on as a happier person. Holding a grudge is not very good for your body. Look at those that hold grudges all the time, ever see them smile or be happy?
Do you want that for yourself and your future? Better think about it for a while.