Sharky99
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Why did Jesus take Andrew away too soon ?
Andrew was standing in the front of candle and music piano with other best man and ushers. My son, Richard was giving me away on the aisle. I never forgot to see how much Andrew was smiling when he saw my wedding dress with glow with my smile face. I recognized his tearful eyes.
Andrew was so happier and entire in our life. He was very special man and always be there for two sons. He never gave any negative advice. He has a good listener and heart to the boys, friends, family and children.
On November 6th, Monday at 1pm. I was walking into the church and saw a coffin at the church. Wonder where my husband was. It seems like, I had a bad dream as nightmare. Why did Andrew in the coffin instead of stand next to the best man and ushers?
Why, why Jesus takes him from us. Andrew is very special person enter into our life. I feel like to ran to the clock to turn back, take him to see a specialist lung doctor to save his life. Why his heart was not properly working to cause a pulmonary edema. He does not deserve to die. He never complained or suffered. He was so much enjoy himself to wear a wolf mask and gloves to make the clients laugh and giggle on the Halloween.
Andrew was mad because his car tire was flat. He supposes to get all four new tires for his birthday from his family and me. We promised him for his birthday, Dec 4th. On Wednesday, I was at staff meeting due to emergency crisis with a client. He paged me for asking my credit card. I would never say, NO. I always willing helped and made him calm and happier. He bought four brand new tires and balance the alignment on his car on Nov 1st. He came to the program house, how much he love me. I always be there to resolve his upset or mad.
He woke up on Nov 2nd, Thursday around 5:15am. He stated, he had a bad cold and weird to breath. Asking him to see doctor. Andrew said, nah will see doctor on Friday, Nov 3rd. He talked about DayHab to posts the Halloween pictures on the board. Asked me to check on the calendar when is the Thanksgiving. I said, Nov 23rd. He can’t wait to see North Newton High School football game on Nov 25th. I said, oh boy you are freaking about football. He giggled, that is me ! We discussed about Thanksgiving and Christmas. What will we do this year?
I left the house at 5:50am to drop my son off at work. I got a message from Richard on my pager. Said, meet him at the E.R. I said what was wrong, he did not answer me. I drove faster as I can from Natick to Milford. I notice, Richard's face was red and tearful eyes. I knew, there was something wrong. I said, where is Andy? Richard walked to me at the parking alot. He was out of control, Andy die he die... I tried to do cpr to save his life. He died front of me. He was so hysterically cried and emotional. We grabbed each other hugging tight. My body and arms become numb and sick to my stomach. I could not sign due to stock and numb for few hours.
I went to the bathroom alot that day due to nervous breakdown and shock. Doctor and interpreter came in the family room. Doctor said, I am so sorry, Andy has a pulmonary edema. I never heard of that medical term before. He explained me how it caused. It was from the heart failure. I said, impossible. I saw him at 5:50am. He died at 6:45am.
Richard said, Andy's last word, " Scary ". He walked into the ambulance. Richard tried to talk to him but Andy's brain had already died. He immediately gave a cpr to him, the heart rate machine sounds b e e p when the flat line. No... No... EMT said, sorry... He would never let him go...
Jason, Richard and I are very angry with God to take him away from us. We never understand why, Andy died too fast.
I wish, I could change the clock around back to take him to see doctor to save his life. I did save his life when he refused to ride on the helicopter. Good thing, God sent me to ER to pushy him go to Brigham & Women Hospital.
We got married on October 8th, 2005. I saw his coffin at the church on Nov 6th, 2006. Wasn't I in the bad dream as nightmare or what ? No no, it is reality.
We miss and love Andy so much, he always be there for us. We feel so empty without him.
Oh wow.. I cannt beleive this after reading what ya have say, Sabrina... I am terribly saddened by all this happening to ya the last several days or so... oh man... I can only hope ya will value the memories of Andy (odie) and treasure them for a long time.. I am sure your kids also will have great memories of him to hold on for a long long time to come.. also, I really hope Richard will be okay, as it will be terrible on him since he tried to save Andy's life but couldnt.... this is indeed sad for sure to read.. oh boy...