if you're a Felon

Me have anxiety too..refuse to take meds but anxiety cause me to do stupid things like cheating on my wife.

Should I take medicine? I dont want to die like Anna Nicole's son.
 
You won't die if you take medication for a diagnosable disorder. Chances are Anna Nicole's son died because he was these drugs to get high. He died from a lethal combination of zoloft, lexapro, and methadone. Methadone is commonly abused by people coming off of heroin. So, he probably was trying to get high, and the high dosages killed him.

I have PTSD. I have a lot of anxiety attacks and depression, too. I'm also on medication for this. One of the meds I take is the same med Anna's son was taking (zoloft). Taking these drugs won't kill you; unless you take too much or you're taking the meds improperly.

I think people use the extreme cases as an excuse to not be treated for their disorders and it's kind of dumb. Why suffer when you can be treated and a lead a productive life?
 
Do you think you are the only person that is anxious or nervous? Everyone is nervous about everything. People understand this. To underscore how nervous you are, tell people that you are nervous. Explain your actions, goals and anything else that may help you get where you want to be. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Do you think Im not nervous at my job? How bout when you are the first guy through the door on a search warrant when you KNOW the guy on the other side has weapons?Or when chasing a guy with a gun. He runs around a corner and you loose sight of him. When I turn that corner, is he going to blow my head off?
How bout everytime I meet a deaf person and wonder about their opinion on a CI on my daughter?
No one is 100% sure about teverything all of the time.
Look at life from this perspective, you do thing simply because they have to get done. Here is an example.
I think I said it earlier in a post, but I called in sick to work today. I feel like shit. I earned the sick time to take the day off, so its no biggie. I would really have liked to lay on the couch all day or srew off in the net. But, instead, I got up a 8:30 this morning and continued to work on an ongoing project in my backyard. I had to build two 10 ft x 2 1/2 foot frames for some steps for my pation. The wood I use is 6in x 6in peices of wood that are 12 feet long. I cut em to size, set them in place, filled them with 1 plus yards of gravel, anoth 3/4 yard of sand,then set the pave stone inside the frames.
relaxed for a little while (earlier, above posts) them I went to the store to start dinner. I have to make dinner tonight, and pick up Lilly in another hour or hour and a half because my wife is working late tonight. SHe is working a 12 hour day today. Why? Because she has to. It sthat simple.
Why am I tellying you all of this? That too is easy. This is the life of someone who does things simply because they have to. There is no choice in any of this. Why is there no choice? Because my we are a responsible. self sustaining family that does not depend on ayone but ourselves for anything.
That is what life as an independant adult is about. You work your ass off. Then when you are done working, you barely have enough energy left to enjoy what you are working for. Why is it thi9s way? Simple. So my daughter is cared for in the best way that we see fit. Buying a nice house in a nice neighborhood in a good school district is not cheap.We do not have the $ pay someone for the improvements we want so I do them. Besides taking care of Lilly, the only other reason we work this hard is because we both KNOW that by the time we are old enough to receive $ from Social security, IT WILL NOT BE THERE BECAUSE SOOOOO MANY PEOPLE USED THE SYSTEM AND NEVER PAID INTO IT!. Becasue of that, I have to work even more so I can be able to retire and have a decent life for my daughter, wife and myself.
To do any of this, you cannot worry about being nervous, or anxious. You do simply because you have to. This is how the rest of the world survives.
Sorry for the rant.
 
Lillys dad said:
Do you think you are the only person that is anxious or nervous? Everyone is nervous about everything. People understand this. To underscore how nervous you are, tell people that you are nervous. Explain your actions, goals and anything else that may help you get where you want to be. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Do you think Im not nervous at my job? How bout when you are the first guy through the door on a search warrant when you KNOW the guy on the other side has weapons?Or when chasing a guy with a gun. He runs around a corner and you loose sight of him. When I turn that corner, is he going to blow my head off?
How bout everytime I meet a deaf person and wonder about their opinion on a CI on my daughter?
No one is 100% sure about teverything all of the time.
Look at life from this perspective, you do thing simply because they have to get done. Here is an example.
I think I said it earlier in a post, but I called in sick to work today. I feel like shit. I earned the sick time to take the day off, so its no biggie. I would really have liked to lay on the couch all day or srew off in the net. But, instead, I got up a 8:30 this morning and continued to work on an ongoing project in my backyard. I had to build two 10 ft x 2 1/2 foot frames for some steps for my pation. The wood I use is 6in x 6in peices of wood that are 12 feet long. I cut em to size, set them in place, filled them with 1 plus yards of gravel, anoth 3/4 yard of sand,then set the pave stone inside the frames.
relaxed for a little while (earlier, above posts) them I went to the store to start dinner. I have to make dinner tonight, and pick up Lilly in another hour or hour and a half because my wife is working late tonight. SHe is working a 12 hour day today. Why? Because she has to. It sthat simple.
Why am I tellying you all of this? That too is easy. This is the life of someone who does things simply because they have to. There is no choice in any of this. Why is there no choice? Because my we are a responsible. self sustaining family that does not depend on ayone but ourselves for anything.
That is what life as an independant adult is about. You work your ass off. Then when you are done working, you barely have enough energy left to enjoy what you are working for. Why is it thi9s way? Simple. So my daughter is cared for in the best way that we see fit. Buying a nice house in a nice neighborhood in a good school district is not cheap.We do not have the $ pay someone for the improvements we want so I do them. Besides taking care of Lilly, the only other reason we work this hard is because we both KNOW that by the time we are old enough to receive $ from Social security, IT WILL NOT BE THERE BECAUSE SOOOOO MANY PEOPLE USED THE SYSTEM AND NEVER PAID INTO IT!. Becasue of that, I have to work even more so I can be able to retire and have a decent life for my daughter, wife and myself.
To do any of this, you cannot worry about being nervous, or anxious. You do simply because you have to. This is how the rest of the world survives.
Sorry for the rant.
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I work hard and hard but wife insult me for little money. I see other woman. Make me feel good and get rid of anxiety feelings inside. I am wrong. I work hard but money is little. I try school but tests make me anxiety and when anxiety my English sucks.

When not anxiety..English is ok.

I try to meet wife needs and now I fail. I still continue to work hard cuz I dont want give up.
 
MeMad said:
I work hard and hard but wife insult me for little money. I see other woman. Make me feel good and get rid of anxiety feelings inside. I am wrong. I work hard but money is little. I try school but tests make me anxiety and when anxiety my English sucks.

When not anxiety..English is ok.

I try to meet wife needs and now I fail. I still continue to work hard cuz I dont want give up.
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your wife is very greedy.
 
Memad, I have never met,nor spoken to you. My advice is to take your medicine. Being a policeman, I deal with people constantly that refuse to take their med for one reason or another. When they done take the meds, their sense of reality seems to change a bit. Then they cannot realize that they need the meds to keep them calm,cool collected, and rational.
Now, If you look at my profile, you can tell taht I am all abou tmy family. My wife and daughter are the two most important things in my life. But family takes work too. You must talk to her. WHen she does/says something you do not like.Take a big breath then calmly tell her that you disagree or dont like being talked to that way. Talk your problems out. To run off and have sex with another woman will not accomplish anything but more problems in the long run. Relationships take alot of work to be successful. They too require you to do what ever is necessary to work. Marriage is easy, just like parenting or even raising a dog. You get the marriage you deserve. If you put no work into your marriage, you deserve a crappy marriage. If you bust your ass and do anything necessary, well, you deserve an awespme marriage. Thats what I have. Do we argue, sure. Show me a marriage where they do not argue, and I'll show you a marriage where one or both people dont care about the rel;ationship. They will eventually fail and divorce.
Keep working hard, work with your wife, take your meds, do what is right. Shortcuts get you short rewards.
 
Lillys dad said:
Memad, I have never met,nor spoken to you. My advice is to take your medicine. Being a policeman, I deal with people constantly that refuse to take their med for one reason or another. When they done take the meds, their sense of reality seems to change a bit. Then they cannot realize that they need the meds to keep them calm,cool collected, and rational.
Now, If you look at my profile, you can tell taht I am all abou tmy family. My wife and daughter are the two most important things in my life. But family takes work too. You must talk to her. WHen she does/says something you do not like.Take a big breath then calmly tell her that you disagree or dont like being talked to that way. Talk your problems out. To run off and have sex with another woman will not accomplish anything but more problems in the long run. Relationships take alot of work to be successful. They too require you to do what ever is necessary to work. Marriage is easy, just like parenting or even raising a dog. You get the marriage you deserve. If you put no work into your marriage, you deserve a crappy marriage. If you bust your ass and do anything necessary, well, you deserve an awespme marriage. Thats what I have. Do we argue, sure. Show me a marriage where they do not argue, and I'll show you a marriage where one or both people dont care about the rel;ationship. They will eventually fail and divorce.
Keep working hard, work with your wife, take your meds, do what is right. Shortcuts get you short rewards.
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ok I will talk to doctor

I will try

Wish my job pay me better.
 
Empress, please.... prove her wrong. Get a job. Look, I am very cynical when people say that they are going to change. I am not saying this about you, just people I have encountered. When a crackhead says they quit, they need to prove it. Heroin, same way. Alcoholic, wait and see. Thief, dopeman, burglar, what ever. I have been lied to sooo much abou tpeople cleaning up their act. When I worked in the hood, I used to dare someone to prove me wrong. I ued to tell crack whores that if they could go 1 month, with out getting locked up walkin gthe street, I would take them to any restaraunt they wanted. Ya know what, I never had to buy anyone dinner. Thats sad, 6 years of dealing with the same people over and over, and not one person ever proved me wrong.
Prove me and Ocean breeze wrong. I dare ya. Go get a job.
 
Lillys dad said:
Empress, please.... prove her wrong. Get a job. Look, I am very cynical when people say that they are going to change. I am not saying this about you, just people I have encountered. When a crackhead says they quit, they need to prove it. Heroin, same way. Alcoholic, wait and see. Thief, dopeman, burglar, what ever. I have been lied to sooo much abou tpeople cleaning up their act. When I worked in the hood, I used to dare someone to prove me wrong. I ued to tell crack whores that if they could go 1 month, with out getting locked up walkin gthe street, I would take them to any restaraunt they wanted. Ya know what, I never had to buy anyone dinner. Thats sad, 6 years of dealing with the same people over and over, and not one person ever proved me wrong.
Prove me and Ocean breeze wrong. I dare ya. Go get a job.
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I will try to prove her wrong. I will find job that pay better. I stay at same shit job cuz of anxiety. Too scare to try look for better job. People put me down tell me that I am retarded. Why? English is not perfect and I speak funny
 
that post was intended for empress, thats why i started it with the word Empress.
 
Lillys dad said:
that post was intended for empress, thats why i started it with the word Empress.
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i read Empress many posts

Some I like

Some I dont like

Empress may have a job

but may tell you that she does not have job.

We will never know

just like nobody know my anxiety from wife yelling at me for not making million dollars

nobody know why I cheat on her

nobody know why I call cops on her for hit me

I will try to get better job because my co worker tells me I am retarded cuz I talk funny
 
MeMad said:
i read Empress many posts

Some I like

Some I dont like

Empress may have a job

but may tell you that she does not have job.

We will never know

just like nobody know my anxiety from wife yelling at me for not making million dollars

nobody know why I cheat on her

nobody know why I call cops on her for hit me

I will try to get better job because my co worker tells me I am retarded cuz I talk funny
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I dont blame u for wanting to find a better job if your co-workers are insulting you. Also, I think it is a form of harrassment and illegal too. Might want to look into any laws about that.

As for you cheating on your wife..that is between you and her not something to put on AD cuz we have our own problems too.

As for not really knowing about members, that is true but the point of AD is not about finding friends but to have interesting discussions about different topics. Yes, I admit sometimes, I let some people get to me and I try my best not to react. Nobody is perfect. This is not the forum for therapy at least I dont think so.

Seems like u are new so maybe u werent fully aware of what AD is all about. Ask the moderators on what is appropriate to post.

Thank u.

Now, back to the thread...I have been labeled as not being deaf enough one too many times and at this point, I dont care if I am deaf or not deaf enough. Kinda sad cuz I grew up in the hearing world and tried to meet everyone's expectations to be "hearing"..I was an outsider cuz I wasnt "hearing" enough and then I start at Gallaudet and encountered situations where I was accussed of not being "deaf" enough. Such irony, huh?

What can I do? Join "the not enough of this" group? LOL
 
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