if you're a Felon

Yes, two of the main reasons behind requiring parolees to work are trying to keep them from having idle time. Keep them busy so they will not be drawn back to the criminal ways. The other is to make them actually be a contributing member of socitey.
If someone wants to work, they can. They can get a job in a day or two. It may not be a glamourous job with great pay and benifits, but it is a source of income.
Any fast food, any labor job, construction, telemarketing, car wash, sales, if you want a job, you can get one. If you dont want to work, you have nothing but excuses. I have to patience or time for excuses. Actions are much louder than words! What the old saying "gonna bitch....go home".
 
I did not know she was a felon, I was just guessing. It is a pretty safe assumption that she is or is comparing herself to one.
 
Um, I have been searching for job every since I left High School...

It is my face, nobody want to give me a job because of my face....

My face is the main reason, and it has always been...

If I was pretty as my sister, I would get a job quickly.... with no problem.

It has nothing to do with my behavior, my negative attitude, or my past
history...

I don't see any deform face working at Walmart, Office jobs, or as an interns at Washington DC....

Look at Michael Fox, he quit his acting job... and rather use his
disability to get the government to allow stem cell research.

I think he is wasting his time.... I think he should just give up
and stay at home and collect SSI, just like me.
 
Lillys dad said:
Yes, two of the main reasons behind requiring parolees to work are trying to keep them from having idle time. Keep them busy so they will not be drawn back to the criminal ways. The other is to make them actually be a contributing member of socitey.
If someone wants to work, they can. They can get a job in a day or two. It may not be a glamourous job with great pay and benifits, but it is a source of income.
Any fast food, any labor job, construction, telemarketing, car wash, sales, if you want a job, you can get one. If you dont want to work, you have nothing but excuses. I have to patience or time for excuses. Actions are much louder than words! What the old saying "gonna bitch....go home".
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True. This person I know got a job working at a grocery store. It's not the best job in the world, but it pays the bills. He's also held the job now for a few years, and has kept his nose clean, so to speak. Keep in mind, this person was convicted of a white collar crime and has no desire to repeat the scenerio again. Quite a bit different from what you're used to seeing, but the point remains, he is a felon and he has maintained a job. Which is what she was asking. I'm here to say, it's possible It all depends whether or not the person is willing to stay out of trouble, or be a fool, and continue to commit crimes (be it white collar or violent crimes).
 
Lillys dad said:
Yes, two of the main reasons behind requiring parolees to work are trying to keep them from having idle time. Keep them busy so they will not be drawn back to the criminal ways. The other is to make them actually be a contributing member of socitey.
If someone wants to work, they can. They can get a job in a day or two. It may not be a glamourous job with great pay and benifits, but it is a source of income.
Any fast food, any labor job, construction, telemarketing, car wash, sales, if you want a job, you can get one. If you dont want to work, you have nothing but excuses. I have to patience or time for excuses. Actions are much louder than words! What the old saying "gonna bitch....go home".
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Yeah they can start their own business.... after making money from job
and saving money....

But anyway, I went to downtown... and I saw many Black people
who won't do anything... and they rather do crime than to help themselves.
Because many people put them down.... putting negative things in
their heads... making them think the worst....
 
The*Empress said:
But anyway, I went to downtown... and I saw many Black people
who won't do anything... and they rather do crime than to help themselves.
Because many people put them down.... putting negative things in
their heads... making them think the worst....
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Remind you of anybody?
 
The*Empress said:
Um, I have been searching for job every since I left High School...

It is my face, nobody want to give me a job because of my face....

My face is the main reason, and it has always been...

If I was pretty as my sister, I would get a job quickly.... with no problem.

It has nothing to do with my behavior, my negative attitude, or my past
history...

I don't see any deform face working at Walmart, Office jobs, or as an interns at Washington DC....

Look at Michael Fox, he quit his acting job... and rather use his
disability to get the government to allow stem cell research.

I think he is wasting his time.... I think he should just give up
and stay at home and collect SSI, just like me.
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If you do not see anyone working at Walmart, that does not have a disability, then you are keeping your eyes closed in the store. You cannot walk through Walmart without seeing someone, with some type of disability wearing the blue walmart apron. If that is the case, get a job stocking overnight.
As far as Michael Jfox, quiting acting and being an activist, more power to him! He worked for many years as an actor. He earned the money necessary to stay home and not work. Have you? You honestly expect everyone to believe that you cannot find a job and you have been searching for years. I do not think so. If your face is an issue, get a behind the scenes job, where customers will not see you. I know, get a job with a newspaper company delivering papers overnight. Its not much but atleast you would be doping SOMETHING.
Your comment about going downtown and seeing black people choosing crime instead of gainful employment, what the hell does any race have to do with the decisions they make?
I notice you told me you were not a felon, but you did not correst the statment that you got into trouble for fraud. Why is that? Did you make a plead bargain? SIS, SES of what. The fact that you did not contradict that, shows me that you were involved in some type of fradulent activity. So it still stands that you were trying to get $ without doing any legitamate work for it?
Based solely off of your attitude that I have seen on this page, I am pretty cetrain that you are different than most. You work harder at not working and complaining, than if you actually went out and got a job.
I have been working since I was 12 years old. I started selling newspapers in front of a church every sunday morning. I know for a fact, that if you really want/need a job, you can find one. I do not care about the appearance of your face or your ability to hear. As I have said many times, the job you get may not be a good one, but it is employment!
There have been several times in my life where I have needed a job RIGHT NOW. It has never taken more than 1 day to get a job. I worked as a loborer, a tire buster, a cook, a delivery driver, a waiter, a bouncer, and several other things. The jobs sucked, but they got me money to live off of.
When I moved back to St.Louis from Dallas, it was definately not planned. I brooke up with my fiancee on valentines day. I moved back that day and had a job wwaiting tabled at a restaraunt on feb 15 (the next day). Had I ever worked as a waiter? NO, but could I learn it and get paid? yes. I did it for a short time until I got something better. I quit there and worked at Home Depot fro quite alot more $.
If you want to work, you can period
 
Lillys dad said:
If you do not see anyone working at Walmart, that does not have a disability, then you are keeping your eyes closed in the store. You cannot walk through Walmart without seeing someone, with some type of disability wearing the blue walmart apron. If that is the case, get a job stocking overnight.
As far as Michael Jfox, quiting acting and being an activist, more power to him! He worked for many years as an actor. He earned the money necessary to stay home and not work. Have you? You honestly expect everyone to believe that you cannot find a job and you have been searching for years. I do not think so. If your face is an issue, get a behind the scenes job, where customers will not see you. I know, get a job with a newspaper company delivering papers overnight. Its not much but atleast you would be doping SOMETHING.
Your comment about going downtown and seeing black people choosing crime instead of gainful employment, what the hell does any race have to do with the decisions they make?
I notice you told me you were not a felon, but you did not correst the statment that you got into trouble for fraud. Why is that? Did you make a plead bargain? SIS, SES of what. The fact that you did not contradict that, shows me that you were involved in some type of fradulent activity. So it still stands that you were trying to get $ without doing any legitamate work for it?
Based solely off of your attitude that I have seen on this page, I am pretty cetrain that you are different than most. You work harder at not working and complaining, than if you actually went out and got a job.
I have been working since I was 12 years old. I started selling newspapers in front of a church every sunday morning. I know for a fact, that if you really want/need a job, you can find one. I do not care about the appearance of your face or your ability to hear. As I have said many times, the job you get may not be a good one, but it is employment!
There have been several times in my life where I have needed a job RIGHT NOW. It has never taken more than 1 day to get a job. I worked as a loborer, a tire buster, a cook, a delivery driver, a waiter, a bouncer, and several other things. The jobs sucked, but they got me money to live off of.
When I moved back to St.Louis from Dallas, it was definately not planned. I brooke up with my fiancee on valentines day. I moved back that day and had a job wwaiting tabled at a restaraunt on feb 15 (the next day). Had I ever worked as a waiter? NO, but could I learn it and get paid? yes. I did it for a short time until I got something better. I quit there and worked at Home Depot fro quite alot more $.
If you want to work, you can period
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:gpost: AGAIN!

Incidently, I can't remember the exact details, but two years ago she told us that she defrauded the government. Technically, she may not be a felon, so on that, I'm wrong. But, she gloated about getting SSI/SSDI erroneously. THAT I do remember.

Empress The bottom line here is this... STOP IT. You're not fooling anybody. If you dont want something to come back and bite you on the hiney (like what I just said), then do what is right. Get yourself a job, and pay back the money I'm sure you owe to SSA. If you were never caught, count your blessings, get off SSI/SSDI and get a job. People will think highly of you. As for your face, that's a cop out. It's not your face that's keeping you from getting employment. It's your stinky atitude.

Again, simply....Knock it off. If you want a job, go out and get one. If you don't want a job, stop complaining about how you got such a raw deal. Everyone has a rough life. Hell, I'm sitting here about to have surgery for the second time in 6 mos for something that is LIFE THREATENING. Do you see me complaining about it? No. It's called life, and it's just the way it is.

Get a LIFE, Miss P. You're constantly complaining grates on people's nerves.
 
Oceanbreeze said:
Remind you of anybody?
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Well you put me down... when I said let do a Million Dollar Film Project.

And same thing with Ridor and people at CSUN, and most people put me
down...

Most people put Jane Fernandes down, you guys didn't let her
get a chance to be a President... let her prove herself that she
can be a leader.... at least give her a year to try...

And if she messed up, then we should protest and the board of trustee
should agree and fired her...
 
Oceanbreeze said:
:gpost: AGAIN!

Incidently, I can't remember the exact details, but two years ago she told us that she defrauded the government. Technically, she may not be a felon, so on that, I'm wrong. But, she gloated about getting SSI/SSDI erroneously. THAT I do remember.

Everyone has a rough life. Hell, I'm sitting here about to have surgery for the second time in 6 mos for something that is LIFE THREATENING. Do you see me complaining about it? No. It's called life, and it's just the way it is.

Get a LIFE, Miss P. You're constantly complaining grates on people's nerves.
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That is true...


Do you support Stem Cell Research, Embryo? Do you think that will help you, ending your suffering?
 
This forum is internet based. No one here knows what you look like. Here, you are judged by you words, and your actions. You above comment about making a million $ movie? No way in hell! Based on your previous comments, defrauding the govt. and so on, someone would be a fool to give you a penny! People get million dollar deals based on their previous actions, business sense. Not because they want to do it. You have to prove yourself to anyone before you will get anything.
I bust my ass at least 40 hours per week to get what I and my family have. My wife does the same thing. Im sure you would lookat my life and think "why does he have this or that and I dont? It must be because of my face" NO, I got what I have because I work for it! Apparently I work for you too. How do you pay for your computer? How about your internet access?
Hell, I should report you to the feds. They are always showing the commercials about getting paid to turn in people that defraud the govt.
Hey, The I would be sucsesfful at what you are trying to do. I could get paid for something that you did! Money of nothing! Free money on behalf of the govt. ! I will have to think about that.
 
Side note- can you tell i hate free loaders?
For someone that is truley unable to work, I have all of the empathy in the world. But for someone to sit back and do nothing because they can, pisses me off!
From my conversations, Empress is on one or more federal income types. Through all of this thread, the only reason she has to do so is her face. SHe has said nothing about anyhting else at all. No comment about deafness or anything. Because of her appearance, she fells that she does not have to work.
 
Lillys dad said:
Side note- can you tell i hate free loaders?
For someone that is truley unable to work, I have all of the empathy in the world. But for someone to sit back and do nothing because they can, pisses me off!
From my conversations, Empress is on one or more federal income types. Through all of this thread, the only reason she has to do so is her face. SHe has said nothing about anyhting else at all. No comment about deafness or anything. Because of her appearance, she fells that she does not have to work.
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okay, I'll come out of the house and go out and meet many people...
I will go out and make friends. I will go out and make films and stuff...

It is true, because of my appearance, I felt that I do not have to work...

I am very scare. I am getting anxiety attack right now, thinking about that.
That is the truth.
 
The*Empress said:
Well you put me down... when I said let do a Million Dollar Film Project.

And same thing with Ridor and people at CSUN, and most people put me
down...

Most people put Jane Fernandes down, you guys didn't let her
get a chance to be a President... let her prove herself that she
can be a leader.... at least give her a year to try...

And if she messed up, then we should protest and the board of trustee
should agree and fired her...
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Are people "putting you down", or reacting to your negative atitude?
 
Oceanbreeze said:
Are people "putting you down", or reacting to your negative atitude?
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No people are not putting me down...

Just my fear of people putting me down.

I know you are not a psychologist...

But I just scare.

My mom encouraging me to go out and make film...
but in my mind, I feel she is being sarcasm...
 
The*Empress said:
No people are not putting me down...

Just my fear of people putting me down.

I know you are not a psychologist...

But I just scare.

My mom encouraging me to go out and make film...
but in my mind, I feel she is being sarcasm...
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If you have an anxiety disorder, go on meds. People with anxiety disorders function very well if they are properly treated. They even get and hold jobs.
 
okay... you guys gave me good suggestion


Well I did went to DeafNation Expo....
I was so scare, and I made many people smile and making good friends with people.
I even went to Paris and I made 100s of friends...
But inside I did feel anxiety though...

I hope I don't get the meds that might cause death like Anna Nicole's son.
 
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