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Thank you to everyone! Me and my husband agreed to have a Garage Sale at my mom's house next weekend. We rid of packed rat stuff. We are still live in Apartment. We aren't ready for buy a new house yet. My husband is still in college student. I want him to be finish with his college degree first. We suppose to have a small wedding at Caribbean Cruise with few guests. It's too late for us. I will talk to Medical about financial situation. I am sick of GAS eating my husband's car. We are in faith and will be okay. Thank you for support me. :D I am feeling better.
 
Pinky678 said:
Thank you to everyone! Me and my husband agreed to have a Garage Sale at my mom's house next weekend. We rid of packed rat stuff. We are still live in Apartment. We aren't ready for buy a new house yet. My husband is still in college student. I want him to be finish with his college degree first. We suppose to have a small wedding at Caribbean Cruise with few guests. It's too late for us. I will talk to Medical about financial situation. I am sick of GAS eating my husband's car. We are in faith and will be okay. Thank you for support me. :D I am feeling better.
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Good. I am glad you felt better.
 
Hi Pinky,

We all go thru our lean times.....and both of you will be fine. Put everything together into a budget. Determine what has to be paid every month. Rent FIRST, credit cards with due dates, and so on. Do without whatever you can.

As long as all your bills are being current, you will be okay. Call the hospital and work out a payment schedule. In between "insurances", I had to take my daughter to the ER and got zinged with a few big bills. Just barely near the deductible limit. Darn. So I worked out a payment plan....ten a month. It's a big one BUT it's being paid for and as long as I can pay ten each month, I can pay the other bills without freaking out.

It's easier when one of you is in total charge of finances unless you split bills. You will figure things out over time. I'm glad you're feeling a lot better!!!
 
Pinky, you might start finding a job (temporary) to pay off your debts. Just my suggestion.
 
just hang on
i am too stuggle myself paying bills and rents but i hang on as i could :)
 
cut up your credit cards, burn the cheque books, arrange auto-payment via a secondardy bank acounts just for biils, and learn to live with cash
works for me
 
Grummer said:
cut up your credit cards, burn the cheque books, arrange auto-payment via a secondardy bank acounts just for biils, and learn to live with cash
works for me
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Excellent advise!
 
Grummer said:
cut up your credit cards, burn the cheque books, arrange auto-payment via a secondardy bank acounts just for biils, and learn to live with cash
works for me
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:gpost: It´s best advice...
 
Pinky, I´m sorry what and how you had through... :hug: Keep positive then you will be fine...
 
I can see how hard this is for you. Some of us do suffer through financial depression and still going through hard times. Things will get better later on, you just got to believe and have faith, that's what I do.

I hope something works out for you and your husband, I wish you both the best. hang in there
 
cut on drive and make peanut sandwich for lunch everyday. Then you will be fine.
 
OH pink, Im sorry you feel bad.

Money is root of evil. I think every couple or single even have high stress about bills and family needs and making enough money. Like already said before- do not take money stress out on each other, I will only bring about resentment, sadness, and fighting or argue. I totally understand the hospital bill thing. I have like over 100,000$ bill at just one hospital! :eek3:

I encourage you two to lean on each other and remember to be strength to other person all times. Endure through this and you will be stronger lady with more resolve in the end. OK
 
Hi pinky, I understand how you feel. I get stressed about bills, money. but i realize that we are doing fine why should I get stress. I have to let stress go and i know that we will be fine.

Please don't let hurt your marriage over bills, job or money. You just got married and please be happy. You will be fine. You won't be homeless.
 
lilylover72 said:
Hi pinky, I understand how you feel. I get stressed about bills, money. but i realize that we are doing fine why should I get stress. I have to let stress go and i know that we will be fine.


Please don't let hurt your marriage over bills, job or money. You just got married and please be happy. You will be fine. You won't be homeless.
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Lily, I don't want to let hurt my marriage over bills and money. It's my first time to be marriage. My husband and I worked it out. We need to get together to focus on budget and balance.

hohDougRN said:
OH pink, Im sorry you feel bad.

Money is root of evil. I think every couple or single even have high stress about bills and family needs and making enough money. Like already said before- do not take money stress out on each other, I will only bring about resentment, sadness, and fighting or argue. I totally understand the hospital bill thing. I have like over 100,000$ bill at just one hospital! :eek3:

I encourage you two to lean on each other and remember to be strength to other person all times. Endure through this and you will be stronger lady with more resolve in the end. OK
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I agree with you! Money is a life. It never end up. I know it's suck. Economic is bad right now! I never have 100,000 bills from the hospital.

authentic said:
Pinky, you might start finding a job (temporary) to pay off your debts. Just my suggestion.
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Yeah, I am plan to have a job for temporary at Macy's for Holiday Seasonal only. I am going back to school soon. You know economic is bad right now. I am going to pay it off real slow until I get job.

IslandBreeze07 said:
Hi Pinky,

We all go thru our lean times.....and both of you will be fine. Put everything together into a budget. Determine what has to be paid every month. Rent FIRST, credit cards with due dates, and so on. Do without whatever you can.

As long as all your bills are being current, you will be okay. Call the hospital and work out a payment schedule. In between "insurances", I had to take my daughter to the ER and got zinged with a few big bills. Just barely near the deductible limit. Darn. So I worked out a payment plan....ten a month. It's a big one BUT it's being paid for and as long as I can pay ten each month, I can pay the other bills without freaking out.

It's easier when one of you is in total charge of finances unless you split bills. You will figure things out over time. I'm glad you're feeling a lot better!!!
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Thank you! Yeah, I know the rent is coming first. It's high than other utilities. But medical bills need to be slow for long time until it pay off. I am still have an appointment with CT Scan again in Sept. It's suck!
When I got freak out with past over. Sometime it's wrong balance. I can be relief when it's wrong bills.

I will call to the hospital to discuss about my bills question. I don't have problem with debit card not credit card. Just a bills with past due that all. I have no problem with bad check at all. I didn't know why Credit Card always have fee easily. I had a bad credit long times ago. I don't use it anymore. I am using debit card for right now.

Grummer said:
cut up your credit cards, burn the cheque books, arrange auto-payment via a secondardy bank acounts just for biils, and learn to live with cash
works for me
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I am not going to cut my Debit card. I need it for pay on bills through internet instead of in mail. Other utilities for my personal check only. I used to have bad check long times ago. Now, I am doing better with personal check so lately. The economic is SUCK!!! I wish everything are free in the world. That's life!
 
Hey MOD please lock my thread. Thank you! I am fine now.
 
Pinky678 said:
I am not going to cut my Debit card. I need it for pay on bills through internet instead of in mail. Other utilities for my personal check only. I used to have bad check long times ago. Now, I am doing better with personal check so lately. The economic is SUCK!!! I wish everything are free in the world. That's life!
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Learn to live with cash. Cut up all your debit cards, credit card, burn your check book, and stop borrowing money. It will only get you deeper into debt. And, take some life skills/independent living classes to learn how to deal with your debt and rent and bills. Return all of your wedding gifts for money so you can pay your bills and pay off some of your debt. And, get a full time J-O-B outside of your home! Your jewelry-making business is not providing you with good income. You won't be able to pay all of your debts off on just your husband's salary, and it's not fair to him if he's paying for EVERYTHING. You need to contribute, too!
 
Nah! I am not listening to you. I am sorry!


LuciaDisturbed said:
Learn to live with cash. Cut up all your debit cards, credit card, burn your check book, and stop borrowing money. It will only get you deeper into debt. And, take some life skills/independent living classes to learn how to deal with your debt and rent and bills. Return all of your wedding gifts for money so you can pay your bills and pay off some of your debt. And, get a full time J-O-B outside of your home! Your jewelry-making business is not providing you with good income. You won't be able to pay all of your debts off on just your husband's salary, and it's not fair to him if he's paying for EVERYTHING. You need to contribute, too!
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