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I want you to respect my thread. I am not allow anyone offend in here. Please be Mature! Do not WAR!!! I need be cheer up. I am depressing. Because I don't have a job. I don't have enough money to pay bills. I can't afford to pay off on Medical Bills from the hospital. It's very expensive!

My husband and I just got married last month ago. We are happy to be married expect stress on wedding plan and honeymoon budget. We are broke money now. My husband have a job for full time. I am doing with jewelry making and sell.

Do you have experience with wedding plan and stress?? After you guys got married and break money?? Because of wedding and honeymoon budget? I need your help me to cheer up and make me feel better.

Do you think the marriage need to be faith?? I don't like to be unfaithful cause divorce or separate. You know what I mean.

We need to start with organize on unclutter life and my jewelry business and bills budget. I really hate to pay the bills! That's life! Do you have any question??
 
I am so sorry. You do need faith. You will be fine.
 
Of course, it does happen to everyone, don't beat yourself up, there gonna be times down the roads that you'll have that struggle, but you'll make it through, just take one day at a time it'll get you out of that hole. ;)
 
Everyone goes through that road every now and then, most just wont admit their situation publicly and keep it to themselves. I know it is a piece of mind to keep the faith, but you cant just sit there either. For example, try to communicate with your creditors and establish a payment schedule you both can mutually agree on. I think they refer to this as a distressed payment program. When gas prices appear to be creeping up on money we had for other plans or payments, we got back on track this way, although we had to severely cut back until we established a whole new lifestyle and budget. Hope all goes well for you two. :)
 
I have a little advice. Make a budget book and allow for each bill. Whatever leftover is what you get to use for eating , entertainment , etc. Don't allow yourself to go over even if it is unpleasant.

For medical bills, hospitals will sometimes make arrangement to pay slowly if you talk to them about your financial problems.

I think you will be fine later. I remember being first married, and it was stressful and hard to adjust to budgeting and all responsibility.

I hope things work out and you feel better soon. :fingersx:
 
I agree with others..we all go thru that. Right now, iam sort of going thru that too cuz we bought our house last year making us tight with money which is fine but in the past month, the AC, washing machine, garbage disposal, and my truck had problems or broke down. All of these repair issues popped up in one week alone making us seriously broke now. My husband is feling stressed out from paying the mortgage and with gas prices going up, things r gonna be extremely tight for us. I just hope it won't cause us to be late for payments and whatnot due to not having $$ to pay for some bills. We r barely keeping out heads above water cuz of all the repair bills.

However, I know we will be fine later as I have been thru these kinds of situations a few times since turning 18 almost 20 years ago. That's part of life.

I think the others gave u great advice on how to manage this situation.

Good luck!
 
I agreed with others. It happens to everybody, no one is perfect. Just think postive and move on as you could. That's all that I could say. :hug: So cheer up since you got married and having your husband in your arms! :D
 
Hang in there everything will build back up financially. These moments are stressful. I will pray for you :)
 
Oh Geez... Sorry about that.. but you and your new husband will be out of wood sometime soon ;)
 
It will be allright, you and your husband will get over with it :) And try to smile at all the times ;)
 
It can be financially a burden when things like that happens but if you stick it out, work together with your husband, plan on a budget or at least talk with someone who has knowledge about finances. Consolidate your debts? Make a budget and stick with it. Pay off one thing at a time and perhaps like some other people made suggestions - talk with the finance dept at the hospital for financial assistance program.
 
money always issue but i am sure u will go thro just fine all u have to have is a faith and take one step at time and the more u do slow process the more successful u will do ^_^
 
When I got married, my ex hb and I wanted to keep things simple and small. We didn't spend much on the ceremony since it was at a city hall and just had our immediate family members there. We spent a lot on the wedding party with 36 guests, and it was banquet style at a nice hotel. This was the expensive bit. We spent our honeymoon in the same hotel. Didn't go anywhere exotic, and we didn't really worry about bills afterwards because we kept things simple and relatively inexpensive.

We went through our lean times, though, because of house mortgage and extreme renovations along with serious remodel. I think all couples will always experience stress throughout their married life, so I assume this is normal. As long as you guys have each other and come up with a reasonable budget plan, you should be fine. I love Suze Orman for the great financial advice she gives.. check her stuff out. You won't be sorry.
 
Cheri said:
Of course, it does happen to everyone, don't beat yourself up, there gonna be times down the roads that you'll have that struggle, but you'll make it through, just take one day at a time it'll get you out of that hole. ;)
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I agree
 
I too am in the hole but working my way out of it and since I just got a job which will help alot. So I will be getting out of the hole and get back on my feet. Dang that lady who help me to get the landline phone and I had stupid ppl calling me up. So once I pay off my digital phone it will be turn back on and I will disconnected the landline . It is not big just a small one.

I hope you have someone to help you with your budget and job search. As I have gone thru too.

Keep in mind I am single mom with a son and I do have a mortgage but no car payement *thanks goodness*

I wish you the best of luck and go with the flow. :hug:
 
horselover61 said:
I too am in the hole but working my way out of it and since I just got a job which will help alot. So I will be getting out of the hole and get back on my feet. Dang that lady who help me to get the landline phone and I had stupid ppl calling me up. So once I pay off my digital phone it will be turn back on and I will disconnected the landline . It is not big just a small one.

I hope you have someone to help you with your budget and job search. As I have gone thru too.

Keep in mind I am single mom with a son and I do have a mortgage but no car payement *thanks goodness*

I wish you the best of luck and go with the flow. :hug:
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I am already out of hole. :hug: everyone have hard time.
 
These are hard times for everyone. My heart goes out to you! Keep your faith and it will help see you through. What ever you do don't take it out on each other cuz if you survive this the road ahead won't be so bumpy!!!
 
Just hang in there. You will get thru it fine. :)
 
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