I just realized......

ChicagoBlue2 said:
None of which I do. I don't even lay a hand on anyone. I have no vested interest in doing harm, and am more interested in doing positive things than bad things.
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Then why do you keep mentioning punching, and doing bad thing that you'll regret? Those shouldn't even be options.
 
Mark it's OK to take breaks from AD. If you look there isn't anyone who posts as much as you. People here keep telling you that you share too much. Before you type something that may get you in trouble sit back and think about it for a bit. I type many messages and delete them because I know no one will give a shit. People come here to feel better, laugh and yes get information. If it's all negative all the time people will stop coming by.

I mean this in the nicest way possible.
 
Foxrac said:
Yes, I was aggressive person when I was teen, but rare during adulthood, however antidepressant and antipsychotic medicines made me very aggressive - just like angry southern man that who hate President Obama.
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That's another thing-- I do not hate. Hating is bad for you, and unhealthy. I have no hate whatsoever. None, nada, zilch, nope, nothing.
 
Angel1989 said:
Mark it's OK to take breaks from AD. If you look there isn't anyone who posts as much as you. People here keep telling you that you share too much. Before you type something that may get you in trouble sit back and think about it for a bit. I type many messages and delete them because I know no one will give a shit. People come here to feel better, laugh and yes get information. If it's all negative all the time people will stop coming by.

I mean this in the nicest way possible.
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I realized that, and that's why I need to change my attitude. My way of doing things was not good, and I need to work on that. Yes, it may take a while, and yes, I probably need to take a break, and there is one coming up pretty soon.
 
Angel1989 said:
Mark it's OK to take breaks from AD. If you look there isn't anyone who posts as much as you. People here keep telling you that you share too much. Before you type something that may get you in trouble sit back and think about it for a bit. I type many messages and delete them because I know no one will give a shit. People come here to feel better, laugh and yes get information. If it's all negative all the time people will stop coming by.

I mean this in the nicest way possible.
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Man, you sure know how to put a nice spin on what you say!

I personally, lack this ability. :P :laugh2:

Not that I care I lack the ability, it's just refreshing to see someone so nice! :P
 
Reba said:
Then why do you keep mentioning punching, and doing bad thing that you'll regret? Those shouldn't even be options.
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And they're not. That's why I have outlets to help prevent that from happening.
 
Chicago,

I fully understand where your coming from as I too have anger management issues except I've physically attacked people and paid dearly for those decisions. Like my anger management counselor told me... If you go beating up everyone who deserved it, your arm would be mighty tired at the end of the day.

My last incident I urinated on a police car and the police dog that was inside it then punched the handler and swore up and down I was going to slit everyone's throat. First I got committed for the mandatory 72 hour evaluation at the mental ward then they carted me off to county jail.

Received 18 months but of course only served half that because of good behavior and jail over population.

Now when someone pisses me off I get out of the situation go to my punching bag and beat the shit out of it. At least then I don't lose my job, my home, etc. Then again I did bring it upon myself for making ill fated decisions.
 
RyanS said:
Chicago,

I fully understand where your coming from as I too have anger management issues except I've physically attacked people and paid dearly for those decisions. Like my anger management counselor told me... If you go beating up everyone who deserved it, your arm would be mighty tired at the end of the day.

My last incident I urinated on a police car and the police dog that was inside it then punched the handler and swore up and down I was going to slit everyone's throat. First I got committed for the mandatory 72 hour evaluation at the mental ward then they carted me off to county jail.

Received 18 months but of course only served half that because of good behavior and jail over population.

Now when someone pisses me off I get out of the situation go to my punching bag and beat the shit out of it. At least then I don't lose my job, my home, etc. Then again I did bring it upon myself for making ill fated decisions.
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Yes, and that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid.
 
It's hard but you just have to keep reminding yourself that it's not worth it. It took me awhile to learn that lesson cause I'm pretty dense but in the end it's worth it to resist the urges.
 
RyanS said:
It's hard but you just have to keep reminding yourself that it's not worth it. It took me awhile to learn that lesson cause I'm pretty dense but in the end it's worth it to resist the urges.
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I learned to resist the urge a long time ago. Now I don't even think about it-- because I'm so used to thinking twice before doing something
 
I think what it comes down to is that we're just misunderstood and it's human nature to poke the sleeping dragon when one's not sure how to go about a situation. It took me a long, long time to get over feeling slighted by words or what people said to me or at me. Anyway gotta get going... Nice to meet you Chicago hope to see you again sometime. :)
 
ChicagoBlue2 said:
None of which I do. I don't even lay a hand on anyone. I have no vested interest in doing harm, and am more interested in doing positive things than bad things.
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If my memory serves me correct, I recall in your past post that you beat up someone and that he never bothered you again. I can go look for your post but that'd take me few months.
 
Angel1989 said:
Mark it's OK to take breaks from AD. If you look there isn't anyone who posts as much as you. People here keep telling you that you share too much. Before you type something that may get you in trouble sit back and think about it for a bit. I type many messages and delete them because I know no one will give a shit.
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So true.

How about setting a daily allowance for yourself. Nearly 50 posts a day is alot - you are missing out on spending that time more productively. You could keep a jar and say 15 pennies on your desk. Put one in the jar for each post - no-matter how short. Once they are all in the jar you are done until tomorrow. It will start to force you into using each post wisely.
 
Shux....when I was young, I fought and swore like a sailor....and that old saying rang true to me...."the bigger they are...the harder they fall".....:lol:...Took me a long time to rein in my temper tho'....
 
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