i am wondering.....how much importat is woman beauty for all men?

jillio said:
Tell him when he starts to look like Brad Pitt, he will have something to talk about.
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sad truth. my boyfriend no brad pitt. not close to level hotness of brad pitt
 
:dance::whistle::bye: While physical attraction has its own advantages, who doesnt appreciate it? nobody, thats when if the person also has life experience and developed good traits of showing honor and modesty had expresses his heart and mind to be true. now that is a real person who will continue to develop in those areas when its possible getting old takes away the youth charm. thats a real inside beauty person. if your bf wants to poke shallow comments on you being a little bigger than his maxi mags show women to be it only shows where he has developped in his mind and heart to be shallow and cheap as he gets older. take your pick of what kind of person you appreciate and feel appreciated with and make the world rock from it. best regards:laugh2:
 
Let's cut the B.S. When a guy says to a girl she has great personality, he might as well order a billboard sign that says " You're not physically beautiful to me."

A girl doesn't want to hear she's personable. She wants to be the most beautiful girl in his eyes.
 
I FINISH BROKEN UP WITH HIM on text message. i feeling muchs better now!!!!!! yes i did cheating on him with Giorgos today but i break up with him. i hasnt cheated on him before only one time with giorgos today. reason why? my stupid boyfriend been watch FILIPINA women online fantasy to them, "oooooooh perfect tan models sexy body BOOBS UP!!!" finish!!!!!!! that so sick. also he not accept me be act like deaf. he not let me signing asl sometime, he not let me gets VP wtf?? he so fuck closemind about deafs culture but Giorgos not!!!! Giorgos very eager of learns asl and chats with me. he is immigrant from greece.

boyfriend make me feel ashames of my body and he did say to me "hhahaha you isnt good enough for other men bec you so stupid and chubby not beautiful enough" i been with him almost 2 year!!!! i has enough of his mocking me. i become strong woman now and brave broken up with him. i doesnt care that i am not smart intelligence enough same level my boyfriend and i am low mind function anyway. i never gone to college before, boyfriend want sexy skinny filipina HEARING girl with HUGE BRAIN. i am not sexy smarts enough. so i did picture on my cellphone Giorgos and me make out, then sending text pic to boyfriend for PROVE him "i can get other men". then i say "we OVER now!!!!! bye a**hole face" now he gulp and feeling oh crap but i isnt going back to him no way!!!!! i will be freedom and single woman, maybe someday of future i will get sweetie deaf men.
 
MyNameIsNO said:
I FINISH BROKEN UP WITH HIM on text message. i feeling muchs better now!!!!!! yes i did cheating on him with Giorgos today but i break up with him. i hasnt cheated on him before only one time with giorgos today. reason why? my stupid boyfriend been watch FILIPINA women online fantasy to them, "oooooooh perfect tan models sexy body BOOBS UP!!!" finish!!!!!!! that so sick. also he not accept me be act like deaf. he not let me signing asl sometime, he not let me gets VP wtf?? he so fuck closemind about deafs culture but Giorgos not!!!! Giorgos very eager of learns asl and chats with me. he is immigrant from greece.

boyfriend make me feel ashames of my body and he did say to me "hhahaha you isnt good enough for other men bec you so stupid and chubby not beautiful enough" i been with him almost 2 year!!!! i has enough of his mocking me. i become strong woman now and brave broken up with him. i doesnt care that i am not smart intelligence enough same level my boyfriend and i am low mind function anyway. i never gone to college before, boyfriend want sexy skinny filipina HEARING girl with HUGE BRAIN. i am not sexy smarts enough. so i did picture on my cellphone Giorgos and me make out, then sending text pic to boyfriend for PROVE him "i can get other men". then i say "we OVER now!!!!! bye a**hole face" now he gulp and feeling oh crap but i isnt going back to him no way!!!!! i will be freedom and single woman, maybe someday of future i will get sweetie deaf men.
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Good for you, he sounded like a prick anyway :)
 
cmdrwhitewolf said:
I think I'm a lot less demanding of physical beauty than most guys, b/c some of the women that I think are beautiful (which is many btw), other guys have told me were average or were just plain out dismissive of my opinion of their beauty. So maybe my rating is a 3 or 4 (with a 5 being tops).

Particularly, because I think other things are important as well. Humor, for one & Intelligence for another (especially if she know how to play D&D!). Plus I'm not as overwrought as other guys are about women needing to have that 'perfect figure', if their chubby it's fine (as long as their healthy of course - I don't support being unhealthy).

I think our culture is to blame for quite many of the demands on the ladies being this or that - and some foolish guys buy into that 'ideal'...
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Exactly.....

That explains why many Deaf guys at my old school liked my sister so much because she "is hotter than" me. :roll:
 
You don't have to be hot to have a boyfriend. How else would all of us less-than-perfect-looking women be married?
 
sallylou said:
You don't have to be hot to have a boyfriend. How else would all of us less-than-perfect-looking women be married?
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yes i am know that not all men is want perfect woman. some men already wise and find all women is beauty of any size shape. but my assholes ex judgement on all women and want perfect woman like Megan Fox. i do knowing not all men is alike my ex in personality. that why i dump his loser ass ;)
 
Scale at zero. Looks means nothing. It means nothing to my partner. I have history of bad skin acnes and stuff my boyfriend does not give a shit about. Suppose your spouse or SO has skin and body damage from unexpected accident, what would you do? Leave her and divorce her?
 
MyNameIsNO said:
yes i am know that not all men is want perfect woman. some men already wise and find all women is beauty of any size shape. but my assholes ex judgement on all women and want perfect woman like Megan Fox. i do knowing not all men is alike my ex in personality. that why i dump his loser ass ;)
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There can be a difference between reality and fantasy. I know some men in happy content marriages still look at porn. Also I've known couples that look at porn together. Just because one looks at porn doesn't not make them a bad partner. However, all the other things you mentioned about your boyfriend cannot be ignored. I hope you find someone better for you, someone that will respect you and treat you like a queen.
 
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Cheetah said:
MyNameIsNO said:
yes i am know that not all men is want perfect woman. some men already wise and find all women is beauty of any size shape. but my assholes ex judgement on all women and want perfect woman like Megan Fox. i do knowing not all men is alike my ex in personality. that why i dump his loser ass ;)
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There can be a difference between reality and fantasy. I know some men in happy content marriages still look at porn. Also I've known couples that look at porn together. Just because one looks at porn doesn't not make them a bad partner. However, all the other things you mentioned about your boyfriend cannot be ignored. I hope you find someone better for you, someone that will respect you and treat you like a queen.
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I admit I look at porn. My gf don't mind at all. She does it too. Its not a bad thing at all as long we love each other.
 
yes i did aware some marry men is view porn but still loving to wife, but not nice if he is mock her physically look and forceing her be same hearing people.
 
katz4life said:
Scale at zero. Looks means nothing. It means nothing to my partner. I have history of bad skin acnes and stuff my boyfriend does not give a shit about. Suppose your spouse or SO has skin and body damage from unexpected accident, what would you do? Leave her and divorce her?
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i doesnt care if man have skin pimples.....acne pimple not make person ugly. look cassandra bankson have bad acnes but she is model wow very pretty girl. not person fault acne, something wrong hormone mess level inside body or genes did causing skin pimple. i doesnt care if man have bad skin but i would leaving him if he make me losing self confident and uglys.
 
Personaility first, looks second.
That's the way it works.

Everyone has their perferences, it varies.
 
Just out of interest did you actually make it clear to your ex boyfriend how you feel? I know you shouldn't have to tell him these things but...oh well it doesn't matter now lol
 
howag said:
Just out of interest did you actually make it clear to your ex boyfriend how you feel? I know you shouldn't have to tell him these things but...oh well it doesn't matter now lol
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yes i did telling him many time how i am feel when we together before. i told him "you hurting my feeling when you insulting my physically look and weight. also you need stop discrimination of my deafness and openmind of culture deaf." he still not listen to my feel. he never stop disrespect to me!!! i told him It make me less love to him too. he not care about my feel is hurt. i did told him also "why you tell me i am chubby and stupid, then you go watching porn after? it so mean and heartless! you always fantasy to hot sexy skinny filipina model too"

then he say "so what? you isnt turn me on so i useing porn help me feel better"
 
also ex boyfriend say to me "why using asl if you with me? i am hearing and asl hard learn so you needing learn how to speaking voice with me. why you need VP for chats with your friend? you can getting hearing aid listen on phone. hearing aid not expensive and help you hearng."

that is SOOOOOO ignorance!!!! he have audism attitude with me.
 
^^ Oh right, I'm just surprised you lasted this long in the relationship then. Was he always like this? Cos most people would have left a lot sooner rather then put up with that shit.
 
howag said:
^^ Oh right, I'm just surprised you lasted this long in the relationship then. Was he always like this? Cos most people would have left a lot sooner rather then put up with that shit.
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well first he nice person with me for few month, then he acting different. i stay with him bec i strong love him. love blinding me. then i become stronger, and getting sick and has enough of it.
 
MyNameIsNO said:
well first he nice person with me for few month, then he acting different. i stay with him bec i strong love him. love blinding me. then i become stronger, and getting sick and has enough of it.
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Ah right, well at least you're free now then! Maybe try and reach this stage a little sooner should a similar situation develop? I hope it never does but...man what a crummy bf!
 
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