i am wondering.....how much importat is woman beauty for all men?

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this question for all men users on alldeaf.com i am curious ask you, how important woman physically look?? pick number 1 between 10 and tell me as honest please, thank you. if yes very important to you, then what woman need look like? blonde? nice body like model curve?

my boyfriend did calls me cutie but sometime he mock me say i am little chubby and need go eating weight watcher food
 
For me looks are about 3 out of 10. I could not date someone I find unattractive but there is something attractive about most women. For me a similar outlook on life and enjoy doing same activities. Unless you are obese and need to diet for health reasons your boyfriend should accept you the way you are, it's part of what makes you, you! :)
 
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thank you for your answer simonj. i am not obese but i am 140 pounds and 5 feet 5. boyfriend say i need look like adriana lima RME!!!!!!!!!!
 
MyNameIsNO said:
my boyfriend did calls me cutie but sometime he mock me say i am little chubby and need go eating weight watcher food
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Next time he calls you "chubby", giggle and point at his groin and make a measurement with your index finger and thumb to show how small it is. That'll shut him up.

Men should never call their lovers anything remotely to the word, fat.
 
yes i know i did say "why you are still with me if you not satisficatory with how i am looking?"

@ banjo well his size kind of small but i say nothing. bec size not matter to me and sexs intercouse is not important.

i noticed deafs men less judgement on women look than does hearing men. wow.
 
MyNameIsNO said:
yes i know i did say "why you are still with me if you not satisficatory with how i am looking?"

@ banjo well his size kind of small but i say nothing. bec size not matter to me and sexs intercouse is not important.

i noticed deafs men less judgement on women look than does hearing men. wow.
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Well, I was just half-joking. That's not really the point though, it's to give him a taste of his own medicine. Men who view their life partners as sexual objects need to be re-educated.
 
It's important. Without physical attraction, there can be nothing further in a romantic relationship.
 
^^pretty much so, without lust how can you maintain communication to the fullest extension if the sexis not part of the reciprocal communication, or mutual appreciation?
 
I'm not going to rate someone on whether they are a 3 or a 8. I'm 34 years old and it does not matter to me. When you get older, you'll see it doesn't matter.
 
disagree, it does matter because at 50 or 60 thats when the interest can decline, affecting the 'fun' relationships, if you get lucky with good slim and doesnt bag out then you'd have a long life of love and fun, not 'obliged love' to save hassles under a 'household' of the 'norm'...that would to misery
 
I'd say looks are about a 4-5/10, no preference to hair colour, i did go through a phase where i preferred brunettes but now I'm totally impartial. I would like her to be healthy, but it wouldn't be absolutely essential.
 
I think I'm a lot less demanding of physical beauty than most guys, b/c some of the women that I think are beautiful (which is many btw), other guys have told me were average or were just plain out dismissive of my opinion of their beauty. So maybe my rating is a 3 or 4 (with a 5 being tops).

Particularly, because I think other things are important as well. Humor, for one & Intelligence for another (especially if she know how to play D&D!). Plus I'm not as overwrought as other guys are about women needing to have that 'perfect figure', if their chubby it's fine (as long as their healthy of course - I don't support being unhealthy).

I think our culture is to blame for quite many of the demands on the ladies being this or that - and some foolish guys buy into that 'ideal'...
 
It's the same as women and flowers, beautiful women make men feel good just by being around them.

I'd say it is pretty important in any relationship to be attracted to your partner no matter how you place it on the scale.

Also, it's not healthy to be overweight so (depending on the case) your husband should be watching out for your health.

It's not like women don't feel the same way.
 
I think cmdrwhitewolf is giving best answer....he accepting many woman different beauty and not judgement so much. that is good man bec he search for inside soul perfect personality and not obsession looking good outside. many men not wise bec they not thinking with theirs head when they looking to women. i did noticing they dirty mind EYES OUT like balls and excitement like hard on erection quick when they sees perfect tan sexy blonde woman with body like model curve.....whoa they is need relax!!!!! why is all women needs to look like this standard? many women feel not confidence in herself bec men judgement too much and follow perfect model and porn star. i did caught my boyfriend this morning before he leaving for go working. he sit in front of computer look at perfect skinny filipina women and drools at them
 
Well obviously things like humour, common sense, a kind heart, how well we connect and how comfortable we feel around each other among other things matters as well.
 
Guys that are overly concerned about their girlfriend or SO size/weight are usually insecure. I would love for my girlfriend to to look like a magazine cover page model. but who am I to judge? I am a bit overweight. I am very happy with myself and perfectly content if my gf is overweight or not. I've been married before and you learn after a few years of marriage what's important. If he wants you to be different... it's time for him to move on. Be proud of you you are. Learn to love yourself. Always look for the beauty in others. Those that matter will see the beauty in you. Everyone else, let them go. Surround yourself with people that are healthy for you and believe in you.

At the end of they day, you are the only person that is responsible for your happiness. (this was a hard lesson for me to learn)
 
I been dating various size of women. I did married a woman who is chubby, I did married a woman who is thin. Now I married woman who is deaf and was overweight. What all they have in common? Mind mate. I only look her mind that match my soul, not her body. Mind mate really intergrate our communications, that really immersed everything, a real fitting, you know. So, beauty is not what she appear, beauty is what in her mind and her heart.
 
SneakerNet said:
I been dating various size of women. I did married a woman who is chubby, I did married a woman who is thin. Now I married woman who is deaf and was overweight. What all they have in common? Mind mate. I only look her mind that match my soul, not her body. Mind mate really intergrate our communications, that really immersed everything, a real fitting, you know. So, beauty is not what she appear, beauty is what in her mind and her heart.
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this my other favorite answer.....i give you huge applauding. you are very smart man bec you looking beyond woman physically look and you are looking check see what is inside of her heart and mind. you need teach stupid close mind men how be same thinking as you.
 
howag said:
Well obviously things like humour, common sense, a kind heart, how well we connect and how comfortable we feel around each other among other things matters as well.
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i am honest. you is look very hot sexy man in your avatar and you have great personality too, you smart know not priority woman look and beauty. personality more important!!!!!!
 
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