how will i reach to married before 30 age? six years left

havardgirl06 said:
Jake, why don't you buy this, while you wait?

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This will do you good for 10+ years.
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Naw, he should take Real Doll
Realdoll, The World's finest Love Doll
 
diehardbiker said:
There were never a formal wedding.

There is reason why I got married, first of all, everything including this house is under my name. I commited to my wife as a member of family so that she can have part of ownership that I have. Secondly, it is to get health care for my wife. Many companies does not want to cover spouse if not married. Finally its (again it is political) to get tax breaks.

It is all about RESPECT my family.
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If you're committed to your wife why everything in your name including the house? That does not sound like an equal partnership.
 
Adamsmomma said:
Wow my head hurts after reading this... :roll::roll: I don't usually participate in Matajan's threads (unless I'm being sarcastic) but I have to say this...

Sweetie, being married does not mean life is perfect-- the act of getting married is a legal one-- it gives you a piece of paper, and might make your parents happy but it does NOT make a loving relationship, you can have that with out being married!!!! Dont focus so much on finding girls to 'marry', instead if you must-- look to meet someone to have fun with, to love and accept-- and who will love and accept you with all your quirks, questions and issues about being deaf and which school to go to (very important that the love, acceptance and respect is mutual!)... etc.

My advice is chill out dude!!! You're YOUNG, way to young to be considering marriage-- Live your life for you first... don't look for someone to complete you-- be a whole happy person first and foremost then when the TIME is right you'll meet someone who can accept and love you for who you are... if you force it you're only gonna screw it up!! I'm quite positive you've missed out on many chances of having FUN and being HAPPY while you're here quizzing us all on relationships and such...

So go focus on the school you're in now-- quit stressin' over ivy league snotty girls, enjoy your life- do what makes you happy and CHILLLLLL THE FLIP OUT!!!

BTW, Reba is dead on-- Movies-- are no way to base your idea of relationships... they're f-a-k-e, they're fantasy... I mean really, who wants to watch a movie about real life-- and it be like real life?? Shoot not me!!
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You're right on Adamsmomma. Look at how many get people divorce all the time. My niece took a long time before she meet her boyfriend . It was hard for my niece to face the facts that men did not want to date her because she has asperger's. And her mother kept telling her that she could married any guy she wanted! My poor niece was so hurt when guys never called her back.
I think this may be common for people that have asperger's to think what in the movies is real as my niece thought the actors on the TV show called 'Friends' where 'really' her friends.
 
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