whatdidyousay!
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Although I appreciate all the advice, does anyone have any ideas that won't require me to abandon my friends or interrupt happy family gatherings by doing something incredibly annoying (to the family and to myself)? I know that I'll need new friends who are deaf, but I don't want to push my current friends or my family members away.
Tell your your friends that you really love spending time with them but you need to have them talk louder and keep the background noise lower so you can be apart of the conversation too. You'll have to remind your friends as they will forget and start talking softer . You could try to talking to one friend that you really feel comfortable with and see if they be willing to remind others to talk so you can hear too. I really hope you'll be able to find a way to let your friends know what you're going through with out making them feel like they're doing anything wrong. You should be able to be straight forth with your family about feeling left out.