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I agree with what Alleycat and Botts said.
I am simply saying that I would not be offended if a deaf person asked me a question that pertained to me being a hearing person. I understand that you may get put down, but just about everyone has been put down. There is no excuse for rudeness.
I'm deaf on one ear and I'm always afraid that i will be completely deaf at some point. I would love to learn sign language. but as stupid as it sounds i'm scared that i might jinx it. Stupid isn't it?
I also thought if i'm deaf i will also not be able to drive my car anymore because then i wouldn't be able to hear an ambulance or a police car anymore and therefore i might not be actually allowed to drive, and already being deaf on one ear, because it has something to do with the inner ear, my equilibrium is not so good. which means i twist my ankles a lot, loosing my balance. so maybe they really tell me if i want to go on using my car to get real and to sell the car and burn my driving license.
I think if I eventually would loose my hearing on my left ear I will be hopelessly lost. I see deaf people sometimes cooping so brilliantly and I am afraid that i will not be able to cope like they do.
i'm sorry guys. you probably think i'm a stupid twit.
and i hope i didn't offend anybody
do you use your ears or your eyes to drive a car?
You may be pleasantly surprised that on average, deaf people are better drivers than hearing ones.
Been a while since my last post...
However... it depends on which vehicle i'm driving in... I have 2: a F-150 crew cab thats a massive beast - i like it for winter, hauling, and room...
My second car is a Modified Mustang V6, so when im in that... it's a bit hard to not burn rubber! Of course when no one's around that is!
Actually I do use my ears ... well my ear ... to hear the sound of the car. to hear if i have to shift into the next gear.
But i know what you mean.
And how come deaf people are better drivers? [i mean i knew women are ]
Next time, get a F series truck with 7.3 Powerstroke Turbo Diesel. They rock, but I prefer Cummins Diesel.
How can I rectify this? I don't want to give up driving and I am the driver for my MIL as well as my family. My kids are not licensed thanks to the State of Florida's rules regarding home school students and such. My mother is not allowed to drive. My MIL is legally blind and can't drive. Hubby drives, but is working when I need to go places. I wish there was something that I could put in the car or SUV I am driving, that will detect a siren, and alert me when driving.
There are devices available to alert you from what I've heard, but I haven't researched any of them.
We have a right to be blunt and give you our deaf perspectives. For the life of me, I don't understand why you, hearing people, think that we can not do anything to function in a hearing world like having a house of our own even rent, raise children, drive a car and trying to find a job, even if some of us, deafies, have jobs. We have been put down many times that it just make us all rile up and say that we can not do these. Also I noticed that hearing people try to pressure us getting our deaf children to have CI so that they can hear or try to run our life when we are fully adults. It was not fair at all and we are the one to make the decisions on, not their decisions. We are not dumb. Just read what we have experiences in our deaf perspectives. :roll:
I am simply saying that I would not be offended if a deaf person asked me a question that pertained to me being a hearing person. I understand that you may get put down, but just about everyone has been put down. There is no excuse for rudeness.
The only problem is that these devices you're speaking of are illegal in a lot of places.