It's a saying. Basically we are all saying the same thing and mean the same thing, we are just calling it something it else.
The saying comes from a song by George and Ira Gershwin, from 1937. "Let's Call the Whole Thing Off."
Here are the lyrics to the refrain.
You say eether and I say eyether,
You say neether and I say nyther;
Eether, eyether, neether, nyther,
Let's call the whole thing off!
You like potato and I like potahto,
You like tomato and I like tomahto;
Potato, potahto, tomato, tomahto!
Let's call the whole thing off!
But oh! If we call the whole thing off,
Then we must part.
And oh! If we ever part,
Then that might break my heart!
So, if you like pajamas and I like pajahmas,
I'll wear pajamas and give up pajahmas.
For we know we need each other,
So we better call the calling off off.
Let's call the whole thing off!
Long story short I agreed with Jillio and many of the other member comments on this post...I just used words that unintentionally offended her and others on this site and for this I sincerely apologize. I was wrong.