Had to vent, sorry

Don't feel bad or lousy if some of the people that picked on you and giving you a hard time. They are not worth making friends with them. They just rottens apples. You got some nice people here on post that like to be your friends and so far I have seen their responses to you that they care about you and your answering your questions. Some people can be cruel because they got nothing better to do then just be a bunch of jerks. You can find better friends and life goes on.
 
SkullChick said:
He, I don't even know him just stranger yelled dyke at me I heard it with CI clear as bell and I was like "wtf" lol.
Believe it or not it wasn't first time, I've been accused of being lesbian all time during middle and high school :dunno:
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LOL! i feel for you, its awful to be called a dyke or something like
that..
One time when my hubby and i were dating, we went to this night
club. After a few minutes, hubby went to the restroom, this girl
came right up at me and asked me to dance with her..i was like
:shock:..and i said.."excuse me, but i dont dance with ladies"..
Oh my..did she blooowww! it turned out that she is an lesbian from
what the bartender told me! When my hubby came back, he was
like what the heck happened here?? She was blowing off at me cuz
i just rejected her, goooood grieef! He got the drift, and told her
to buzz off! Well, she did for a bit until after a couple of hours, we
decided to go home, ..lo and behold, she was standing outside and
she continued to berate me...i could not believe it..my hubby told
her if she dont quit, he will call the cops..She backed off after that
comment....crikey! I dont look like a dyke so i dont understand why
she was attracted to me....:eek3:

Anyways, skullchick you are a very nice person so dont feel downtrodden
if nobody talks to you or even respond to you..it has happened to me a
few times but i dont let it bother me. You are also a very smart person too.
Smile!
 
Ooh I didn't realzie this thead.


Hey, don't worry. When I joined here for the first time and not many ADers talked to me and I didn't complaint... I don't mind to chat with random ADers through I'm not good at making new friends. Whenever I created new threads and I got only not so many posts from ADers yet I didn't care or complain about it. Why? I give them a time to answer this thread or post it for chatting. It's not matter to me. They just don't really know me so... I'm not worry so I still enjoy AllDeaf and life is just too short, y'know. :)


Trust me, just give them a time and patience with ADers until they get know more about you so you can have some new friends. :)


I'm so sorry what you feel like that. :hug: :)
 
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what karissa just said, is right.. I was a newbie and didn;t know anyone at first.. but that was so two years ago so a LOT of people around here knows me by now! :D
 
KarissaMann05 said:
Ooh I didn't realzie this thead.


Hey, don't worry. When I joined here for the first time and not many ADers talked to me and I didn't complaint... I don't mind to chat with random ADers through I'm not good at making new friends. Whenever I created new threads and I got only not so many posts from ADers yet I didn't care or complain about it. Why? I give them a time to answer this thread or post it for chatting. It's not matter to me. They just don't really know me so... I'm not worry so I still enjoy AllDeaf and life is just too short, y'know. :)


Trust me, just give them a time and patience with ADers until they get know more about you so you can have some new friends. :)


I'm so sorry what you feel like that. :hug: :)
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:gpost:
 
don't worry about them they can be immature snobs who don't have lives to do. think of your fiance and how lucky he is to have you smile.
i find you cute anyway

hugs
 
Sorry that you are having a difficult time.

Do you have any close friends besides your fiancee? If so, then important focus on them and that they are there for u as well.

Hope you will feel better soon! :hug:
 
shel90 said:
Sorry that you are having a difficult time.

Do you have any close friends besides your fiancee? If so, then important focus on them and that they are there for u as well.

Hope you will feel better soon! :hug:
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I only have 2 good friends in oregon and fiance friends here don't really care that much about me so I don't have any in here
 
SkullChick said:
I only have 2 good friends in oregon and fiance friends here don't really care that much about me so I don't have any in here
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It has been said if we can count 2 good friends in our lifetime, we have been lucky indeed. The rest are simply acquaintences.
 
I'm sorry but I didn't realize that it was expected that we should comment on how people at AD look unless they post their pictures on a thread that is relevant to appearance. :dunno:

I can't even see ADers' avatars or signatures because that's the way my user settings are. So I have no idea how anyone's avatar looks. Even if their avatar includes a photo, in the past I learned that avatars don't necessarily match the user's identity.

I don't know which ADers are beautiful, cute, plain, or gross looking. It doesn't really matter to me.
 
That's good post! Same here.

KarissaMann05 said:
Ooh I didn't realzie this thead.


Hey, don't worry. When I joined here for the first time and not many ADers talked to me and I didn't complaint... I don't mind to chat with random ADers through I'm not good at making new friends. Whenever I created new threads and I got only not so many posts from ADers yet I didn't care or complain about it. Why? I give them a time to answer this thread or post it for chatting. It's not matter to me. They just don't really know me so... I'm not worry so I still enjoy AllDeaf and life is just too short, y'know. :)


Trust me, just give them a time and patience with ADers until they get know more about you so you can have some new friends. :)


I'm so sorry what you feel like that. :hug: :)
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Hey SkullChick, Just fk people who don't like you. Just move on your life with your happy fiancee. Don't worry about them.

I always hang out with hearing friends more than deaf. Because deaf people always being drama, gossip, stabbing back. That's not worth for me to be around with them.

I never being a proud of myself during to Deaf School. Who is the smartest group and snob groups attend to Gallaudet. I don't give a bleep about them. But They are still on my lists at facebook and myspace but I don't talk to them unless they talk to me.

I never post a comment to my not true friends. I can post a comment to my good and true friends. I don't have any best friend either. It only my husband is my best friend. I think AD people are cool to me. I prefer find a good personality and cool friends. You know I mean.
 
Reba said:
I'm sorry but I didn't realize that it was expected that we should comment on how people at AD look unless they post their pictures on a thread that is relevant to appearance. :dunno:

I can't even see ADers' avatars or signatures because that's the way my user settings are. So I have no idea how anyone's avatar looks. Even if their avatar includes a photo, in the past I learned that avatars don't necessarily match the user's identity.

I don't know which ADers are beautiful, cute, plain, or gross looking. It doesn't really matter to me.
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Same here..I dont even think about it ..just only in the "Pics of You" threads.
 
Reba said:
I'm sorry but I didn't realize that it was expected that we should comment on how people at AD look unless they post their pictures on a thread that is relevant to appearance. :dunno:

I can't even see ADers' avatars or signatures because that's the way my user settings are. So I have no idea how anyone's avatar looks. Even if their avatar includes a photo, in the past I learned that avatars don't necessarily match the user's identity.

I don't know which ADers are beautiful, cute, plain, or gross looking. It doesn't really matter to me.
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:eek3:


:cry:
 
I agree about your vlog on hypocrisy... where can I talk to you about this?

And sorry to hijack your thread.
 
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