Shel, the troll comment was not directed towards you. It was directed to a troll (and the troll knows who I am referring to). Besides Shel, if I thought you were a troll, you wuold know my opinion of you. In fact, you are one of the people I enjoy discussing issues with. We seem to agree on a wide variety of topics, from a different perspective.
Shel, I agree with what you are saying, abou tkids gettign too far behind. In fact, so do oral schools. As I said, very early on, (before age three) if the school sees a child that is falling behuind or just simply not "getting it" due to one reason or another, they refer the kids to a different educational environment (usually one of the TC approach).
I agree with Jillios statement. We are all lookng at "teach" a little too literally. Does anyone at her school teach her sign? No. Do I teach her sign outside of school? Yes, constantly. Am I proficient at it? No. But is she being exposed to it in a naturally occuring manner which makes it an environmental education. Yes.
I agree speech is not a language, if you once again take the word in a literal manner. If you look at "speech" from that perspective, then you must accept that "sign" is not a language. Both or mediums in which language is communicated. I assume when we use the word speech, we are simply referring to oral communication. I also assume that sign is used when referrinig to ASL. Am I correct when I assume this? Or is this conversation going to get all politically correct from this point forward requiring us to refer to things in its proper manner? If it is,then Im finsihed with it. WHen things start to get PC, free exchange of ideas get buried.