Why do people who speak English as their only language, insist that everyone around them has to speak English? Now you're suggesting that signers switch to English grammar to be better understood?
Not at all. I love ASL, am currently learning it, which is going great. Sometimes I wish everyone would learn it, but I always get that way when I'm excited about something. When I sign I try to use good ASL grammar, and very much enjoy using it. I don't like signing with English grammar, and when I catch myself doing it (like if I'm overwhelmed and going too fast) the first thing I do is go back and try to figure out how I should have done it in ASL. Then try to do better next time. So again, no.
I don't think that anyone should have to switch to English grammar. I thought I'd been clear in my support for ASL, ever since I started posting here a year and a half ago.
What I did say, and this was in response and addressed to Jane B's questions, is that since she seems very frustrated with ASL, maybe trying to learn it but not having the best time, wishing it were more like English and not understanding why it isn't, even feeling like it *ought* to be, is that:
(1) ASL has good reason not to be structured like English.
(2) No one is forcing her to learn ASL, she does have the option of signing in English.
By 2, I in no way mean that any other signer has an obligation to switch to English to accommodate anyone. What I do mean is that people have options. She seems to feel like "I'm frustrated with ASL and I shouldn't have to be, so they should have made it more like English" or something like that. What I'm saying is that the option she seems to be wishing existed does, and it's PSE. No reason to attack ASL. If it's not for her, it's not for her. My gut would say keep trying, but I make my decisions and she makes hers, which is how it should be. We're all wired differently.
So then what happens? She goes out into the world and interacts with ASL users. Do they have to switch to English? Of course not. They can choose not to. If they are able to and they *want* to, they have that option. I have often seen champ ASL users interacting with people who sign something much more like English. They could sit and stare at each other and not communicate, but that doesn't seem to happen. They figure it out. Usually each person adapts to the other based on their own skill set.
This tells me that Jane will very likely not be totally screwed. So, again, do your best, do what you can, but because you'll probably be fine, there's no reason to attack ASL. It's an awesome language, and as far as I've seen in real life, many of the people who use it are really sharp, generous, and flexible.
That you've decided and managed to twist this around in your head into some sort of oppression of ASL users is beyond odd.
...what if the tables were turned on you....?
And turning tables? I did that myself, on purpose, when I decided to study a language very different from my native language, as intensely as my brain will endure (literally. I work on the stuff until I get dizzy, then lie down, then start again as soon as I can feel myself starting to recover. and continue that way until I pass out for good.) So yeah, throw me into that briar patch - it's my favorite place in the world.