zebadee2010
I know that you may not be ready to accept this yet - or to understand the value of this yet but I'm going to give you a link for a company called
SonicAlert. They make all sorts of things for people who are Hoh and deaf (including those with CIs). They are one of the major companies that makes visual signallers such as I'd mentioned before. I recommend SonicAlert because they have excellent customer service and their stuff lasts forever (I've had my system for 15years)
There are a number of household sounds which were easy to distinguish when you were hearing - that are going to be much less obvious with the CI and there are going to be some times that you aren't going to be wearing the CI and you'll need to be able to know what sounds are going on in your house (now, and especially once you're living on your own)
If it makes you feel any better - I have one side that is completely totally deaf, and the other side that is Hoh (with my hearing aid I can basically HEAR at a normal level, but I still don't UNDERSTAND sounds the same way I would if I had natural hearing). I use visual and tactile signallers all over my home so that I KNOW that I'll be aware when the phone rings, doorbell dings, when the alarm clock goes off, or there's a fire in the other room etc.
People with CIs DO need these type of devices - unless you really want to have someone treat you like a 3year old for the rest of you life? (get you up each morning etc)
I'd recommend getting a basic starter kit (Alarm Clock that has a "receiver" built in), door and phone signaller - SonicAlert calls it their
Combination Signaling System
This system will cover all the basic things you need, and can be added to later. The devices simply plug into any electrically wall outlet and are are powered and connected to each other by the wall voltage.
It might also be a good idea to get the
built-in-strobe signaller which you can plug into any electrical outlet, such as the bathroom etc to know that something is happening (good for when taking a shower etc)
In my bedroom I have a 150watt lightbulb that I've mounted on the wall - it's just a mountable socket (the correct one to handle the 150watt bulb) and then the cord runs down the wall to a nearby electric outlet. The Lightbulb is a standard (not the new compact flor.) and it's plugged into a receiver. The lightbulb will flash (1 flash be sec about) whenever one of the devices are "triggered" - ie someone rings the doorbell, the phone rings etc.
The Alarmclock also has a "bed shaker" - for when you are sleeping. It gives you the option to flash the light (a lamp etc you plug in), shake the bed (it's strong- you won't miss it), or do both... that way you don;t have to worry about not "seeing" the lights when you are sleeping (most deaf people get really good at detecting subtle light changes and vibrations)
The one thing you'll want to do is plug the devices into a surge protecting power-bar/multi adaptor (you can get the ones that plug into the entire outlet and then give you 6 outlets instead of 2). This will prevent any electrically surges from accidentally triggering the devices ... something that is more of a issue in apts and older homes.
If you have any questions about these signallers - please feel free to ask - I'd be happy to help you navigate your way though this and help you become as independent as you want to be
DO NOT feel that using these type of devices is a "crutch" - they are just devices that are made to be perfect for those with anything other than naturally perfect hearing. Just like the CI will help you interpret the sounds around you, these visual signallers will help you interpret the sounds in your life. In fact having the visually signallers will HELP you learn what specific things sound like because it will clearly state (the pattern of the flashing light) WHAT you are hearing - ie the phone versus the doorbell etc.
Another thing you will likely want to look into is a VCO (voice Carry Over) telephone. This is a phone that allows you to speak to the person on the other end, and their words are then typed out so that you can easily read and understand what is being said. You use a VCO phone and call through a Relay operator (711 in Canada and USA) who will translate the other person's speech into text for you.
You can also place calls using IM on a phone or cell - using relay as well. Basically it's like using IM to make a phone call - there is a "Relay operator", a person who acts as a "voice to text" and "text to voice" translator. You type what you want to say, the Relay Operator speaks it to the person you are calling, then when the person replies back the Relay Operator will type if for you to read.
Phone communication is something that is often the MOST difficult - there are LOTS of CO people who can understand speech WELL face to face, but not at all over the phone.
I'd recommend looking into VCO phones as well as learning about the various "Relay Services" that are available via computer and cell phone.
If you live in the USA here are some of the websites that offer IP relay (you place your call from within their website) or IM relay (you use MSN/YAHOO/AIM etc to place a call connecting to a specific "buddy"/contact)
IP-Relay: The Leading IP-Relay Service for Deaf and Hard of Hearing People
https://www.sprintip.com/
Purple Your Way! (look for the "IP relay")
If I can help walk you through ANY of this - please feel free to PM me privately, or post here.
These devices will help you be the independent person that you want to be - don't let pride stop you from using something that could help you.
P.S. I don't work for, nor am I connected to Sonic Alert in any way ... I just REALLY REALLY LOVE THEIR PRODUCTS!!!