do you actually live an av lifestyle?
Both of my hearing children are involved in speech therapy, so, yes, I do know what I'm talking about. I've seen the eye rolls when I have them repeat something until they get it right.
Also, try opening your eyes and read the experiences of Deaf adults that are posted in any number of threads here. Are their experiences somehow "wrong"? Did their parents do a poor job raising them and you'd never make those kinds of mistakes with your own child?
"see the zebra? Wow, he is much bigger than i thought! Look at his mane. The hair looks like bristles. He has lots of black and white stripes. Oooh, he just swished that fly away with his tail. What is he eating? Hay. That's right. Zebras eat hay. Do you think they live where it is hot or cold?...."
that's it, talk, not drill. That is why people do av rather than old school, traditional speech. It is about language, not drills.
Oh, please, it's more involved than that, and you know it. If it was simple as just talking your child's ear off then speech therapists would be out of work.
It's more like:
"See the zebra?"
"Yeth! I thee the zebwa!"
"Zee-BRA."
"Zee-BWA."
"Try feeling it in the back of your throat, like a dog growling: R... R..."
"Ehr... ehr..."
"That's good honey! Now say 'zee-BRA'."
"Ze-behr-a."
"Very good! What's the zebra eating?"
"He's eating gwass!"
"No-"
"I mean g-ehr-wass."
"That's close. You're a good talker!"
I've been there. I know what it's like.