I know that Jesus existed before Mary. But God still chose Mary to be the Theotokos ("God bearer"). Just by having been chosen by God for such an important task makes her special, yes?
Special, yes, but still a human sinner like everyone else.
If you read the story of the Wedding Feast at Cana you know that Jesus and Mary were both at this wedding. They ran out of wine. Mary went to Jesus and told him they had no wine. Jesus said "Woman, what is this to me? My time has not yet come" (He wasn't doing any ministry or miracles yet). Mary didn't argue with him but told the servants "Do what he tells you". Jesus then turned the water to wine. If Mary only worshipped and obeyed Jesus she would not have done that.
Yes, I have read the story of the wedding feast at Cana. Mary was acting as a human mother. As you can see by Jesus' response to her, she didn't have a full understanding of His mission and timing. She had faults, just like every mother does.
This story also shows us that Mary is not the one we should worship.
If you believe what you say, then why do you worship her?
She says to us (as the servants) "Do what He tells you." So Mary always takes us to Jesus
After Mary died, she had no communication with anyone on earth again. If you mean that her
example in Scriptures can lead people to Jesus, then OK. If you mean she has led people to Jesus
after her death, thru
prayer, then NO, that is incorrect.
Ok, maybe I haven't explained the family connection well enough. We think of Mary and the Saints as Family. Therefor we keep pictures of them and ask them to help us pray and live good lives.
How do you do that? They are dead. You can't "ask" them to do anything for you.
Do you have any aunts, uncles, friends, teachers, etc. that you look up to?
Yes. But I don't communicate with the dead ones.
Maybe you think Nelson Mandela is someone to look up to and copy, or Mahatma Ghandi?
Not hardly.
We think similar of the Saints and Mary. I personally have a dedication to St. Andrew the Apostle of Jesus and brother of Simon Peter. Why shouldn't I think about him and talk to him and ask for his help?
You can think about him, no problem. But you can't talk to him or ask his help because he's dead, and because you should be praying to Jesus instead. It is wrong to pray to anyone other than our Lord.
I want to be like him in bringing people to Jesus. (The Feeding of the 5000 and Andrew introduced Peter to Jesus).
If you want him for a role model (good example) that's fine. But it is wrong to pray to him.
As for the candles - The candles come from old traditions. They mean to represent the prayers we send up to God. The Jewish people had incense that they burned (as did many old religions). The smoke they made represented their prayers floating up to God
Incense represented the presence of the Holy Spirit. Christians have the Holy Spirit
within them, so they don't need to use incense for spiritual reasons any more.
the same was meant of the animal sacrifices - the smoke was the prayer going up to God.
Animal sacrifice is over. Jesus was the
final sacrifice. It is finished!
And crossing myself. Hhhmmmm, I always viewed that as a prayer to Jesus. When we cross ourselves we are repeating a short prayer: "In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit".
Then why cross yourself in front of a statue of Mary or a saint? That's not Jesus.
No, I mean that ALL Catholics are Christians, we worship Jesus Christ.
Has each and every Catholic person individually and consciously repented his/her sins, and accepted the shed blood of Jesus Christ as the One and Only one-time permanent way to salvation, with
no works or ceremonies added? Has each Catholic revealed that to you?
I would never say that every Baptist is a Christian. I don't know the hearts of every Baptist. Only God knows. Also, I know many, many people who are NOT Baptists are fully born-again Christians.
...As for born again - I was baptized as a baby and accepted my faith (Confirmed) in grade 7. I too can be considered born again.
You might considered that as "born again" but that's not what Jesus calls it. Baptism cannot and does not save anyone, ever. People can be saved without baptism. Baptism shows public obedience to God,
AFTER salvation, not before. A person must be saved first, and then baptized.
"Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water"
Natural birth.
"... and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God."(John 3:5)
Spiritual second birth.
So, a teacher should take down the alphabet everyday? A science teacher should put away the periodic table after every lesson? Do you take down your family pictures off the wall every day?
They aren't being bowed or prayed to.
Christians are supposed to focus on the words and messages of Jesus,
not His supposed physical image.
lol I agree. I wasn't saying that we should worship those things...
If you agree that is it is wrong to worship images and relics, then why do you and other Catholics do it?
I ask my family and friends to pray for me. I cannot say this enough we don't pray TO the Saints. We pray with the Saints. Maybe you call your Pastor and say "I'm having a bad day, I want to do well on my test, etc." Will your Pastor not pray for you and with you?
So you mean
living people? That's fine for you to ask living people to pray for you and with you. You can't ask
dead people to do that. Christians aren't even supposed to
try to communicate with the dead.
We kneel out of respect only.
Respect for whom? A
statue?
Revelation 22
6 And he said unto me, These sayings are faithful and true: and the Lord God of the holy prophets sent his angel to shew unto his servants the things which must shortly be done. 7 Behold, I come quickly: blessed is he that keepeth the sayings of the prophecy of this book. 8 And I John saw these things, and heard them. And when I had heard and seen,
I fell down to worship before the feet of the angel which shewed me these things. 9 Then saith he unto me, See thou do it not: for I am thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren the prophets, and of them which keep the sayings of this book: worship God.
Again I go back to the Last Supper of Jesus. Jesus didn't say "Take this and eat - it represents my body." NO! Jesus said "Take this and eat it. THIS MY BODY."
His body and blood are no longer here on earth. If you believe they are, then you deny the resurrection.
We venerate the bread and wine because we believe it IS the body of Jesus. Many people visit the tombs of different famous people (Lenin, Pope John Paul II, etc.)
I don't get
that connection at all.
I know that this particular part of the Catholic faith is not easy to understand, it is the biggest cause of difference between the denominations. It took me many years to understand it as I do now. All I can say to you about it is it comes from an old philosophy idea that the physical thing stays the same while the essence of it is changed. It stay bready and wine in appearance, but in it's essence becomes the body of Christ.
I understand what you say. It is
wrong but I understand it.
I Corinthians 11
23 For I have received of the Lord that which also I delivered unto you, That the Lord Jesus the same night in which he was betrayed took bread: 24 And when he had given thanks, he brake it, and said, Take, eat: this is my body, which is broken for you: this do in remembrance of me. 25 After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, This cup is the new testament in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me. 26 For as often as ye eat this bread, and drink this cup,
ye do shew the Lord's death till he come.
The word "shew" means to
represent. Partaking in the Lord's Supper is to
show His death until He comes again. It is
not to
do the Lord's death again. It is
finished.
At the original Passover supper with Jesus, it was He Himself who broke the bread and passed the cup.
He could say it was
His body and blood. It is only humans who pass the bread and cup now, and they can't make that same claim because it is not within their authority.