The difference between your interpretation of the quote in your signature and my readings and real life conversations with Marschark.
I don't think I can help you here anyway.
Honestly, this is my opinion, but I think people are upset about the choice of Grendel's quote because of the phrase "one size doesn't fit all" that is within the quote. That phrase is usually spurted out by pro-oral people. So I think that phrase automatically triggers an anti-oral attack. And they don't want to highlight that "oralist sounding" quote specifically from a man that has given a lot of support to the Deaf community.
And I agree. I think the quote in and of itself, when looked at in the entirety of the interview, is being misunderstood.
What is your take on the quote and how do you see that it runs counter to my use of it in support of our decision to enroll my child at a bi-bi school for the deaf, to have made her primary language ASL, placing her in an immersive environment from the age of 1, and allowing acquisition of spoken language through incidental learning using CIs?
Then would you settle for needlessly pedantic? BecLak's definition was accurate enough for the purposes of this thread, and your pointless hair splitting has added nothing to the discussion.
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I never said that it runs counter to your decision to enroll your daughter in a bi-bi school. I said that the quote is misused to justify oral placement.
The difference between your interpretation of the quote in your signature and my readings and real life conversations with Marschark.
I don't think I can help you here anyway.
And I agree. I think the quote in and of itself, when looked at in the entirety of the interview, is being misunderstood.
When you responded to Flip in agreement, below, it appears you are indicating that I've misused the quote. If you don't think I'm using it to justify oral placement -- since I'm not a proponent of such placement -- in what way am I misunderstanding it?
That's a creative interpretation of my words. But not accurate in the least.
I don't see how it's possible to reconcile with people with your kind of attitude, described by PFH in his ASL post, but I am open to it.I don't think so either. But maybe it would help us reconcile this if you provided your interpretation.
Happy to be associated with marschark. Are all who respect his work considered oral people?
Then why the hair-splitting on my definition of audism?
Perhaps it appears that way to you, but that was not what I was intending. I was agreeing with Flip that the quote is often used, out of context, to promote oral placement, and that it is a quote that is often misunderstood in contextual meaning as a result. In and of itself, the quote is easily abused and used innappropriately, and that is why it is important to keep it in context.
I see your definition as covering only one facet of audism, one that's more common among those already familiar with, but not accepting of Deaf Culture, but not including that which is most common among hearing people.
You are just not 'getting' it - that's all.
Audism is a non-acceptance of Deaf having their own Culture and Language. That if you don't adapt to Hearing (with aid of HA, CI or by being oral), you get treated as inferior or with disgust, like a 'broken toy'.
Deaf Culture and all that it entails is what enables a d/Deaf person to be a whole, complete identity in being d/Deaf, without the need of conforming to the expectations of the Hearing population. [If a d/Deaf person so chooses to use assistive hearing apparatus for their own convenience and/or to interact with the Hearing then it is their personal choice and not that which is enforced or imposed upon by the Hearing population (as is also their personal choice to use sign language or visual communication). ] Any be-rating of a d/Deaf person because they are simply non-hearing/Deaf or non-conforming to the expectations of the Hearing population is also displaying a non-acceptance of all that Deaf Culture stands for, and by doing so stating that the d/Deaf person is inferior, therefore it is audism.
I think that's a very reasonable explanation. I like it a lot, Beclak, and I now see where you are coming from.
I think there's complexity introduced in that this definition requires a deep knowledge of and an agreement of what Deaf Culture stands for -- that seems not to be clear even within the deaf community -- to understand what audism can encompass.
It seems that while this definition may be clear to those already deeply familiar with Deaf Culture and who agree that Deaf Culture stands for all deaf, whether SL-using or oral or CI or HA-using or very-late-deafened, it might not be something that communicates well to a typical hearing person unfamiliar with the Deaf world or to someone who doesn't see a non-signing, oral deaf person as part of Deaf Culture.
At the end about one group thinking they are superior over the other group. It has been the feeling I have had for quite a while hence my reason for less participation in those arguments.
You hit the nail on the head. We have personally experienced audism while they havent and no explaination or justification will ever measure up to real life experiences.
I don't see how it's possible to reconcile with people with your kind of attitude, described by PFH in his ASL post, but I am open to it.
I don't have any interpretations. All I can do is to try to understand Marschark and examine the certainies and uncertainies in his research. He is not a politican, but a researcher.
The last question from you is far from an attempt to reconcile and adds nothing to this discussion, so will refrain from answering that one. Also, it was Daredevel who claimed your Marschark quote were "oral people", not me, so suggest you ask her.