I am totally derailing this thread but....
I KNOW there is discrimination towards deaf people (and other people with disabilities), but most of the time, it is not intentional. Hearing people just have a lot of preconceived notions. I am starting to get involved with disability awareness groups, working more with HR people than with deaf people. They honestly do not have a clue about ANYTHING.
Sometimes I wonder if parents think "Oh man.. I know how hearing people treat deaf people, because I used to be one of them." and want them to "look and act" like a hearing person in order to "make it easier" on them in the long run.
Perhaps they have no faith in the deaf culture/world to prepare their child to be strong enough being "different" in the real world of working adults, because hearing people know how other hearing people see the culturally deaf.
So it's either make your child conform to the hearing world. Or make your child make others conform to their own world. Well not so much conform but make society "understand" where they are coming from.
That's why PFH (and others Im sure) wants people to learn ASL. I'm sure other deaf people are working hard to find a way to make this happen. This is one step for others to gain "understanding" and meet in the middle.
It's an interesting concept really... it can apply to anything that can make someone "different". For example, a gay couple deciding to have a child. Some people argue "How can you do that to your child? Your child will have to go through "being different". So should your child be the "pioneer" and go through difficulties in order to make society accept gay adoptions? That kind of thing.
I'm just going to stop talking now.. I should just make a new thread!