That is interesting. I didnt know but when I moved to Little Rock. my soon to be ex husband and I went to Walmart one day and we met a couple who knew sign language. We talked for a short time. The lady asked us for our address. my ex gave the address to them.
Later the couple come to our home almost every week to tell us about God etc. I told her I dont believe in JW religion as Im a baptist. She said yes but please listen to me what i tell you blah blah.. so ever since she called and sent me emails etc. I simply avoided her and didnt want to see her again.
I told my ex that he shouldnt have given her the address but at that time we didnt know she was with JW church. Dont get me wrong. I do believe in God but such religion as JW are different. sigh...
After I moved back home.. she sent me emails and asked Where are you? I said I moved .. I dont live in LR anymore. she asked me for my address and I told her sorry no.
seriously she sound like a stalker! bothering me and all that ugh!
Anyway with what you said and I wonder how did they get the informations on the addresses?
It sound like I am sorry but sound like they are stalkers?? they need to leave us alone and let us join when it is our choice or when we are ready to join and be saved? thats my opinion....
That's true.
Since deafness is a minority, deaf people can become easily attached and trustful towards other deaf people. It's like religion, culture, race, gender, etc. A woman easily listens to another woman. An Asian easily listens to another Asian.
The second thing from deafness is sign language. When a deaf person sees another person (hearing or deaf) signing, they quickly get involved.
A person who understands this type of culture can easily take advantage of it. That's why they learn sign language and go after deafies. This is also done to themselves as well. If a deaf person sees another deaf person involved with something, they quickly get involved.
This happened to a co-worker years ago. She was an open-minded woman who liked to socialize with others, party, drink, etc. She liked to wear jeans and T-shirts. She sometimes wore a little makeup (usually lipstick). She was a fun and attractive gal.
I hadn't seen her for years until she suddenly showed up at my work for her first day at the job. I was surprised and happy to see her. The only thing that caught me off guard was that she wasn't wearing makeup and was wearing an old-fashioned dress. I quickly disregarded it since she was probably trying to look professional for work. We didn't talk much during the first few days cuz she was busy trying to go with the flow. A week later, she was now on track and going with the flow... so the co-workers now had a chance to get to know her. Now, that's another story.
That's when I found out the truth about her. She had a Bible sitting on her desk. It was one of those big versions with a huge print of "The Holy Bible" printed on the cover. She had her computer screensaver set up with "Praise the Lord!" scrolling across. She would even remind others to look at her screensaver from time to time. The old fashioned dress? The missing makeup? That was because of her religion.
I later found out that she was dating another deaf guy (which I also was friends with). When she started dating this deaf guy, he took her to this church. It was just "a church" that this guy was visiting. He tends to visit that church from time to time just to meet more people. He wasn't there specifically for the religion itself. However, when this gal went there with him for the first time... she thought, "Well, if my date goes here... he must take it religiously. He's deaf and the man that I want to be with. So, I'll follow this religion seriously." Her boyfriend stopped by that work one day to take her to lunch. I saw him in the waiting room. He was the same as before... open-minded, swears a little, jokes about seeing a hot woman walk by... anything you would expect from a typical open-minded guy that you meet at the local bar.
I was laid off because she was cheaper.
At NTID, there are deaf cultural organizations... clubs for deaf blacks, deaf asians, deaf hispanics, etc. Sometimes, students from these organizations don't listen to others so easily. For instance, I see a deaf black student making noises and bothering the other students around him. I tell him that he's making noises. His response? "Yeah, right. You're white. You're just acting like a hearie!" Well, a few moments later... another deaf black person from the same club approached him and told him the same thing I said. What did he do? "Oh, sorry... thanks for letting me know... my bro!" He quieted down.
I learned more about the background of this culture thing through a leadership course I took and through observation of their meetings.