A woman's right?

Were you ever presurized into having an abortion?

  • Yes I was presurized by my boyfriend.

    Votes: 1 6.3%
  • Yes I was presurized by my family.

    Votes: 3 18.8%
  • Yes, I was presurized by friends, the family planning or other sources.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I felt presurized into aborting but I went ahead and had the baby.

    Votes: 3 18.8%
  • When I had my unplanned pregnancy everyone supported my choice to have the baby.

    Votes: 7 43.8%
  • No, but I wasnt that keen on keeping my baby but felt I had to as everyone I know is Pro life.

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • I have had an abortion but it was entirely my own choice.

    Votes: 2 12.5%

  • Total voters
    16
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I don't know about you but the thought in my head and the picture of women being forced to have illegal abortion at illegal clinic (most likely in unsanitary condition) isn't a pretty sight. The thought of baby growing up in drug-infected home with crack mom... the thought of dozens of unwanted babies together at orphanages... oh the horror...

Agreed. I don't imagine that a woman in a back alley slum being aborted with a knitting needle and dying a few days later from severe sepsis is a pretty site. But those facts seem to be conveniently ignored.
 
What about all the girls and women who wanted to keep their baby but they were presurized into abortions by their families or boyfriends. After the abortion they can't live with themselves and end up committing suicide.

Got statisitics on these cases? And if a woman can be pressured (not pressurized) into an abortion when it is not what she wants, she does not possess the maturity and self sufficiency necessary to become a single parent.
What about the woman who kills lots and lots of unborn babies. Then when she does get to keep a baby she is so used to committing murder that she kills that baby too as soon as she overstays her welcome.

This is nothing more than absurd fantasy on your part. There is absolutely no correlation between abortion and infanticide.Personally I'd rather have illigal back street abortions, which weren't as common as the Pro abortion people want to make out. That way less young girls are going to be pushed into abortion against their will. Less babies will suffer in abortion after they are old enough to come out. Less babies dying on draining boards.

Again, nothing more than an absurd fantasy on your part. There is absolutely nothing to back this claim up. Likewise, for one who is so concerned about the rights of life of others, you have virtually no concern for the right to life of these women. That is the most hypocritical position you have taken to date. It has totally ruined your credibility.

I've known druggies with kids. I know the horror involved but I don't see how legalised abortion has any conection except to cheapen life.

You don't see the connection, because there is no connection. You need to take a giant leap into reality.
 
OK first of all - that question is WAY too general. Are we talking about some pregnant 15 years old? or 20's? 30's? and for what reason? financial situation? disabled baby? what?

And you say they would most likely commit suicide.. well they would most likely die of childbirth as well.

The claim that women who regret having an abortion are likely to commit suicide does not have support in the facts anywhere. It is an absurd claim that gets pulled out of people's rear ends. And if a woman who is prone to depression so severe that she experiences suicidal ideation has a baby, she is more likely to suffer postpartum depression or post partum psychosis and do harm to the child once it has been born. Those are the facts, not this crap about women commiting suicide because they were pressured into something they didn't want to do.
 
If that was so true, then how come there's a lot of 15 years old mothers out there? And ever watched the movie called "Fifteen and Pregnant" (1998) ? It's a true story movie, watch and learn something. :)

Because too many parents are refusing to educate their chidlren regarding sex, preaching abstinence only, an anti-abortion agenda, instead of teaching these kids what they need to know to protect themselves from an unwanted pregnancy.
 
It has everything to do with abortion, if you haven't seen the movie, then you wouldn't know what I'm talking about. the teenager mother did not want her daughter to keep the baby, but the daughter wants to keep the baby and her mother wasn't too happy about her daughter's decision. But, the mother learned to accepted it. If the 15 years old has no legal rights to make that decision then why didn't the mother go ahead and make the appointment to terminate her daughter's pregnancy?

I do not believe any parents are allow to force their daughter's to terminate their pregnancies, that would be against the teens civil rights.


That movie was not about illegal abortion. Will you stop making assumptions. What's wrong with you today?

It was a movie, not real life. It was meant to entertain, not provide credible information.
 
It was a movie, not real life. It was meant to entertain, not provide credible information.

If it's a true story it means it did happened to someone. What happened to her could happen to anyone.
 
It has everything to do with abortion, if you haven't seen the movie, then you wouldn't know what I'm talking about. the teenager mother did not want her daughter to keep the baby, but the daughter wants to keep the baby and her mother wasn't too happy about her daughter's decision. But, the mother learned to accepted it. If the 15 years old has no legal rights to make that decision then why didn't the mother go ahead and make the appointment to terminate her daughter's pregnancy?

I do not believe any parents are allow to force their daughter's to terminate their pregnancies, that would be against the teens civil rights.
ok but it was mother's choice to accept her daughter's choice, not government or abortion clinic. Please stop confusing this with legalized abortion. it has nothing to do with abortion.

That movie was not about illegal abortion. Will you stop making assumptions. What's wrong with you today?
huh? I'm not talking about movie at all. You talked about Fifteen and Pregnant like "if they can do it, so can all teens!!!" It's a false illusion.
 
If it's a true story it means it did happened to someone. What happened to her could happen to anyone, that's the whole point of why movies are made that are true story.

It's entertainment. It may be based on a true story, but you have no way of knowing what part of the movie was pure truth, and what part was made up to make the story more interesting so millions of people would watch it and the movie maker would make a big profit.

The facts of being an unwed, 15 year old preganant teen are hardly so pretty. Wouldn't make a very good movie at all. It is very disturbing watching.
 
Because too many parents are refusing to educate their chidlren regarding sex, preaching abstinence only, an anti-abortion agenda, instead of teaching these kids what they need to know to protect themselves from an unwanted pregnancy.

hey... doesn't this sound familiar? .......... .......... ........... OMG! SARAH PALIN'S DAUGHTER! :laugh2:
 
If it's a true story it means it did happened to someone. What happened to her could happen to anyone.

coulda woulda have'a.... sorry that you cannot say same for ALL. Not ALL shares same fate as these cute little people in teary movie. How convenient of you to ignore those who died due to banned abortion.

You have blood on your hands.
 
The facts of being an unwed, 15 year old preganant teen are hardly so pretty. Wouldn't make a very good movie at all. It is very disturbing watching.

Well; that's your opinion, I think it's more an educational for teenagers to learn how difficult and exhausting a single motherhood can be.
 
coulda woulda have'a.... sorry that you cannot say same for ALL. Not ALL shares same fate as these cute little people in teary movie. How convenient of you to ignore those who died due to banned abortion.

You have blood on your hands.

:confused: I don't know you're talking about, we are not on the same page here. I said "It could happen to ANYONE, I did not say "ALL" :ugh:
 
coulda woulda have'a.... sorry that you cannot say same for ALL. Not ALL shares same fate as these cute little people in teary movie. How convenient of you to ignore those who died due to banned abortion.

You have blood on your hands.

Not to mention the number of teen mothers and children in this country living below the poverty line with inadequate health care and nutrition, and unable to do anything to improve their circumstances. The actual facts of teen motherhood are hardly as pretty and wonderful as some would like to believe they are.
 
Well; that's your opinion, I think it's more an educational for teenagers to learn how difficult and exhausting a single motherhood can be.

exactly - DON'T HAVE SEX! DON'T DO IT! :laugh2: As the matter of fact, they should be MORE educated on "preventive sex" than learning about motherhood.
 
Well; that's your opinion, I think it's more an educational for teenagers to learn how difficult and exhausting a single motherhood can be.

No, Cheri, that is not my opinion. It is fact.

I see. You think that teenagers should get pregnant, live below the poverty line, unable to develop skills that will allow them to support a family, raise a child in impoverished circumstances, live in homes that do not meet safety standards, and risk the child's life due to the immaturity and irresponsibility of a teen ager, just to educate these girls. Oh, yeah, that makes sense.
 
Here are some facts about teen pregnancy and motherhood:

Still, teenage pregnancy rates remain high and approximately 1 million teenage girls become pregnant each year in the United States. About 13% of U.S. births involve teen mothers and about 25% of teenage girls who give birth have another baby within 2 years. To lower teen pregnancy rates, older children must be educated about sex and about the consequences of pregnancy.

Health Risks to the Baby
Infants born to teenage mothers are at increased risk for a number of health risks. These risks include the following:


Teenage mothers are less likely to gain adequate weight during their pregancy, leading to low birthweight. Low birthweight is associated with several infant and childhood disorders and a higher rate of infant mortality. Low-birthweight babies are more likely to have organs that are not fully developed, which can result in complications, such as bleeding in the brain, respiratory distress syndrome, and intestinal problems.


Teenage mothers have a higher rate of poor eating habits than older women and are less likely to take recommended daily prenatal multivitamins to maintain adequate nutrition during pregnancy. Teens also are more likely to smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, or take drugs during pregnancy, which can cause health problems for the baby.


Teenage mothers receive regular prenatal care less often than older women. Prenatal care is essential for monitoring the growth of the fetus and the health of the mother. During prenatal care, medical professionals provide important information about good nutrition and about other ways to ensure a healthy pregnancy. According to the American Medical Association (AMA), babies born to women who do not have regular prenatal care are 4 times more likely to die before the age of 1 year.

Children Born to Teenage Mothers
In addition to increased health risks, children born to teenage mothers are more likely to experience social, emotional, and other problems. These problems include the following:

Children born to teenage mothers are less likely to receive proper nutrition, health care, and cognitive and social stimulation. As a result, they are at risk for lower academic achievement.
Children born to teenage mothers are at increased risk for abuse and neglect.
Boys born to teenage mothers are 13% more likely to be incarcerated later in life.
Girls born to teenage mothers are 22% more likely to become teenage mothers themselves.

Other Consequences of Teenage Pregnancy

Teenage births are associated with lower annual income for the mother. Eighty percent of teen mothers must rely on welfare at some point.
Teenage mothers are more likely to drop out of school. Only about one-third of teen mothers obtain a high school diploma.
Teenage pregnancies are associated with increased rates of alcohol and substance abuse, lower educational level, and reduced earning potential in teen fathers.
In the United States, the annual cost of teen pregnancies from lost tax revenues, public assistance, child health care, foster care, and involvement with the criminal justice system is estimated to be about $7 billion.

Teen Pregnancy - womenshealthchannel

Hardly the stuff touching movies are made of.
 
:confused: I don't know you're talking about, we are not on the same page here. I said "It could happen to ANYONE, I did not say "ALL" :ugh:

exactly... then you should support legalized abortion!
 
No, Cheri, that is not my opinion. It is fact.

I see. You think that teenagers should get pregnant, live below the poverty line, unable to develop skills that will allow them to support a family, raise a child in impoverished circumstances, live in homes that do not meet safety standards, and risk the child's life due to the immaturity and irresponsibility of a teen ager, just to educate these girls. Oh, yeah, that makes sense.

yea... like Shaken Baby Syndrome and widespread child abuses...
 
I see. You think that teenagers should get pregnant, live below the poverty line, unable to develop skills that will allow them to support a family, raise a child in impoverished circumstances, live in homes that do not meet safety standards, and risk the child's life due to the immaturity and irresponsibility of a teen ager, just to educate these girls. Oh, yeah, that makes sense.

:confused: I never said that teenagers should get pregnant, please do not put words in my mouth. I said that movie would be an educational experience for teens out there, how to prevent teen pregnancy, how some teens likely not finish high school or go to college. I think it'll be helpful to show teens how hard it is to be a single mother. That's all, nothing more nothing less.
 
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