Shel I truly DO understand your frustration.. but the answer isn't so simple. I would LOVE to have someone like you be my son's teacher- you seem really dedicated to your students and truly look out for their best interests, however, I would also want a hearing teacher who speaks to expose my child to spoken language as well. Kind of what I am getting at home, but in the school enviroment- the best of both worlds. Unfortunately, in the oral approach, there is no exposure to sign, and in the bi-bi enviroment, there is no exposure to spoken language. So it's as if you are damned if you do, damned if you don't. I see the value in both, signing and speaking and I would want my child exposed to both in the classroom. At this time, however, I can honestly say in my area, I am sticking with a mainstream program with hearing teachers. The other programs don't even hold a candle- sad, but true. Hey if you ever want to move up to New York, look me up. I've got a kid I would love for you to tutor!!!