A Thread About Absolutely Nothing! Part II

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Jiro said:
"umad?"
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:lol: This actually happened to me yesterday and I was offended and inside of me wanting to punch him in the face but it wasn't worth the time.
 
Jiro said:
"umad?"
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Wouldn't you be?

I would also avoid the friend that said that stuff to me. Why would he or she say it?

I don't want people like that around me.
 
Bottesini said:
Wouldn't you be?

I would also avoid the friend that said that stuff to me. Why would he or she say it?

I don't want people like that around me.
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no no. Jake asked what would my reaction be if a friend said that to me. So I would reply back - "umad?"
 
Bottesini said:
Wouldn't you be?

I would also avoid the friend that said that stuff to me. Why would he or she say it?

I don't want people like that around me.
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It would be more appripoiate to be mad when someone tells you that you have no friends, depsite the person is YOUR friend and WTF that and all.
 
JClarke said:
:lol: This actually happened to me yesterday and I was offended and inside of me wanting to punch him in the face but it wasn't worth the time.
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why? for me - it's nothing offensive to me for me to get angry about cuz I know it's not true and he's jealous or something. But if you had to feel self-defensive about it... then he's probably telling the truth.

just saying, you know?
 
i have nothing to say because this thread absolutely nothing. lol.
 
Jiro said:
why? for me - it's nothing offensive to me for me to get angry about cuz I know it's not true and he's jealous or something. But if you had to feel self-defensive about it... then he's probably telling the truth.

just saying, you know?
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I don't think that is true. People can hurt your feelings and make you feel insecure by saying something nasty to you . And it does not need to be close to the truth.
 
Jiro said:
why? for me - it's nothing offensive to me for me to get angry about cuz I know it's not true and he's jealous or something. But if you had to feel self-defensive about it... then he's probably telling the truth.

just saying, you know?
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I know what you mean - but I didn't say anything. He was mad at me, and I was like, it was a full blown confrontation.
 
Bottesini said:
I don't think that is true. People can hurt your feelings and make you feel insecure by saying something nasty to you . And it does not need to be close to the truth.
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if it makes you feel insecure - it usually means you've been living a lie. Self-Denial. But then - it can be just that some people are just soft-minded (gentle) and people are just plain damn mean cuz they're simply jealous.
 
JClarke said:
I know what you mean - but I didn't say anything. He was mad at me, and I was like, it was a full blown confrontation.
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don't worry about it. now you know he's not a real friend.
 
JClarke said:
Have a simple question for y'all, how do you feel a 'friend' confronts you that you have no friends and all blah blah blah? What is your reaction?
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I would ask them why they say that because it sounds a little accusatory.

I don't have many real life friends- I consider most people 'aquaintences'. I feel I have a lot of internet friends, but I never met them in real life before. I only have 4 or 5 "real" friends - those who you actively seek out often to hang out with because of similar interests, or be able to tell things to without fear of them judging you etc etc. Im quite alright with how that situation is. I wouldn't expect a "friend" to be making that call or judgement upon me. They would ask you in a much kinder way and with real sensitivity with their question.
 
hohDougRN said:
I only have 4 or 5 "real" friends
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more than plenty enough!!! Better than having 50 "fake" friends.

Yes I do have a lot of friends plus acquaintances and I get along with them just fine but I regularly hang out with probably 3-5 of them
 
hohDougRN said:
I would ask them why they say that because it sounds a little accusatory.

I don't have many real life friends- I consider most people 'aquaintences'. I feel I have a lot of internet friends, but I never met them in real life before. I only have 4 or 5 "real" friends - those who you actively seek out often to hang out with because of similar interests, or be able to tell things to without fear of them judging you etc etc. Im quite alright with how that situation is. I wouldn't expect a "friend" to be making that call or judgement upon me. They would ask you in a much kinder way and with real sensitivity with their question.
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4 to 5 real friends is a good number!

Myself, got about 3 friends whom I will share everything with and the rest are good friends.

They are...

my hubby
my best friend from PA
my good friend here in MD
 
JClarke said:
Have a simple question for y'all, how do you feel a 'friend' confronts you that you have no friends and all blah blah blah? What is your reaction?
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I would ask that friend what his/her problem is and why is it so important to him/her whether I have friends or not and go from there.
 
shel90 said:
I would ask that friend what his/her problem is and why is it so important to him/her whether I have friends or not and go from there.
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Yeah - like that he sent me a long lecturing email this morning, I told him to get fk'd and not to bother emailing me back. I am just who I am, end of story.
 
JClarke said:
Yeah - like that he sent me a long lecturing email this morning, I told him to get fk'd and not to bother emailing me back. I am just who I am, end of story.
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Right and I never really think about whether my friends have their own friends or not. Know why? Cuz it is not my business and I have myown problems to deal with. Why make their lives my problem as well? All I care is that they are there for me and I am there for them. If I am their only friend, none of my business as it is their lives, not mine.
 
shel90 said:
Right and I never really think about whether my friends have their own friends or not. Know why? Cuz it is not my business and I have myown problems to deal with. Why make their lives my problem as well? All I care is that they are there for me and I am there for them. If I am their only friend, none of my business as it is their lives, not mine.
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excatly, why would he want to know if I have friends or not? Whatever.
 
JClarke said:
Have a simple question for y'all, how do you feel a 'friend' confronts you that you have no friends and all blah blah blah? What is your reaction?
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I don't think any of my friends would confront with me that kind of statement. I do have a lot of friends online/offline. I do have those closer friends who know me very well others might know me on a surface.

I consider you a friend after, we met in L.A. hope to see you again soon. You are loved my son :hug:
 
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