I just wanted to address two points that a few posters made. One, there is this common misconception that hearing parents of deaf children think the cochlear implant is a cure for deafness. I have never met any parent of a child with a cochlear implant who ever thought that. It makes no sense whatsoever. We know our children are deaf and will always be deaf. What the implant has done is to give our children access to sounds that they never would have been able to access without their cochlear implants and it has made their life easier. I read what Beclak writes and it is similar to others that I have read and heard before but those experiences have not been our children's experiences. My daughter has never felt tired or worn out from speaking or listening. Quite frankly and no disrespect to what she and others have experienced but it has been different for many of our kids and when we say this it is not to diminish or disrespect those experiences but to point out that being raised profoundly deaf, oral and without an implant is different from being raised deaf, oral and with an implant.
The other point someone made is that when first introduced, cochlear implants were marketed as a cure for deafness. As someone whose child was one of the first kids implanted and who was active in ensuring the rights of children to have access to cochlear implants, I can tell you that we spoke to many in the field and no one ever said or even implied that it was a cure for deafness. It just did not happen. In fact, our experience was just the opposite as our cochlear implant team at NYU downplayed what we could expect. Never were we told that it would cure deafness.
As an aside this weekend is an annual get away weekend for us and three other sets of hearing parents with cochlear implanted kids. Between us there are 6 ci kids, now young adults, 4 in college and two in grad school. They have all known each other all their lives.
Rick